Family - March 2007

Hmm. Well to start off, i am getting really mad cause my dad flips for no good reason. He is always yelling at me and it gets sooo annoying. He is driving me nuts ! Whats even worse, my mom moved to florida and that leaves me rlly sad. Is anyone here in the same situation or in a situation like that ? Please help !

2007-03-16 14:06:08 · 11 answers · asked by Allie ツ 2

"Americans". His aunt who is like his mother is always saying bad stuff about Haitian people, and always trying to put me down because of where I am from. But I am a very proud Haitian, and I will never be ashamed of where I am from. But sometimes she really get on my nerves, and I don't want to be disrespectful. What do you think I should do?

2007-03-16 13:59:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 16 year old boy and my mother has always wanted a girl. I even was given a girl's name(kathleen). But latley she has been telling me that i am going to start becoming a nice young lady. She says that i have to grow my hair out and i am not allowed to go to the barber. I also have to wear girl clothe around the house including underwear. When i go to school though she just makes me wear the girl underwear which is good. She says that in a year no one will be able to reconize me as a boy anymore. I REALLY DONT WANT TO BE A GIRL. This is to weird for me but if i dont do it she'll kick me out and i wont have anywhere to go. I have no choice, but to let her do this to me.

2007-03-16 13:52:20 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend in the entire world, doesn't believe in ghosts, but if she were me she would. my grandparents were really close to me, and they soon died a couple years ago. they still protect me in spirit. i know who they are, and i know they only want to protect me, but how can i be afraid of my own grandparents? i know that i have to face my fears, but im scared to. no one knows what i have been through, i am liturally crying right now, i love them dearly, and wish they were here right now, but when they come in spirit, i get scared, and wonder if i would ever be able to contact them, and when i say something, can they understand what i say? do they know what i mean when i say i love them and miss them? please help! what do i do? how do i know if they still love me, even though they're no longer here? (*cries*).

2007-03-16 13:50:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What I mean by that--should I tell her I forgive her for her faults, should I admit mine at last. Should I tell her the crazy things I did as a teenager under her nose? I am now 39 years old and do not know if I should come clean? Should I tell her that I am afraid I will never hear her voice again? What should I do? Should I tell her things I am still angry about? Any thoughts?

2007-03-16 13:04:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to talk to my parents about how I feel that they are pressuring me but I don't want to hurt their feelings.My report card is also coming out and I am known as the smart kid and one that makes striaght a's but this report card is gonna be really diffrent. I have had such a hard time in one of these classes and well I'll be honest i'm bringing home a F. I don't know how to tell my parents how I will improve my grade. I try sooo hard to please them but I know I need to have a life too. I am always stressed and I know I shouldn't be but I feel like I have so much pressure on myself.How do I tell them without starting a huge fight? And how do I relive all the stress I have? Cus I know that at 15 I souldn't be that streesed out to where I can barley fall asleep at night.

2007-03-16 13:02:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am half asleep, I don't wanna say hi to anyone and I anger quickly. what is my problem?
No wise cracks please.

2007-03-16 12:54:01 · 10 answers · asked by shania3949 6

This was in the state of Virginia, I don't think I have any legal rights. Does anyone know?

2007-03-16 12:49:56 · 3 answers · asked by lady 5

..i know parents are annoying sometimes, but whenever they get on my case about certain things i get soo angry and pissed off and then they always say "u will thank me later on when ur an adult," they say when im an adult ill say something like "man my parents were so right" is that true? im a teen..

2007-03-16 12:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HATE my mom. Seriously, i'm 14 and i still don't get to choose what i wear. She's always making me wear 80's and 90's clothes which she thinks is "pretty". Every time i ask her to buy jeans or T shirts (that are well fitted and never show a lot of skin) she'll just say she just doesn't want me dressing "unclassy". My family is vietnamese so they are VERY strict. i have to go to a private all girls catholic school, get straight A's, and manage to stay under 100lbs. I think they expect too much of me! In 6th grade she pushed me so hard that i got an eating disorder and almost committed suicide.
Is it me who has the problem or is it them? My parents and I hardly ever talk but they annoy me so much even when they're not in the house! And even though we have a maid, they always make me do the laundry.And thats not all. Whenever i buy more than 20 dollars from itunes, they get mad at me! I'm not allowed to go to friends houses or have any other type of freedom! it's getting on my nerves

2007-03-16 12:41:10 · 19 answers · asked by somethingcompletelyrandom 3

after fighting a long and hard battle with cancer, my uncle passed away about an hour ago. He had 2 kids, both are engaged to be married late September. Me and my family are a mess. he was 61 and fought a hard, long battle with cancer for 5 years. I ask one thing. Pray for my family. Please, pray for us

2007-03-16 12:36:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 22, graduated and just secured with a job, still my parents don't let me move out. They just want me to stay at home with them till forever.
But I feel i am already grown-up and can make my own decisions. I always respect them, but this time I just want to learn to be independent, why cant they respect me also and let me decide wot i want in my life.
I have been with my boyfriend, who has bought a flat 2 years ago, for 4, 1/2 years, still they never allow me to move in with him.
I respect them, so instead I want to rent a flat with some friends. but they just get very angry when I tried to talk to them about it although I promised them that even if i move out, I will still care for the family. in fact, very often they worry that when i move out, i wont have money left to give to them. Currently, although i work part-time, i need to give £100 to them each month. Cant imagine how much they want when i work full-time soon.
I dont mind this, but just want to have my independence :(

2007-03-16 12:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by Taxi 1

Whenever my brother and his wife gets a chance they somehow "con" my mom into changing everthing all around. As it stands and has always stood, I (daughter) am poa for mom for her health, and for finances. The will works the same way.. everything goes to me and if I die before mom everythingh goes to my son. She did this because she doesn't want her son to have anything, and she has good reason! for example.. this latest was the last straw, he basically wrote it how he wanted it and that was final. he put himself and his wife in charge of EVERYTHING. My mom absolutely hates his wife, she is cruel, two-faced, greedy just my bro. She (mom) feels like a fool cuz once again my bro. conned her into it! My brother & wife would never take as good of care of her than I do. I take her everywhere and any place she wants or needs. B4 my father passed, my bro moved pretty far away, Reason, he didn't want to deal with any of the whole thing, And has lived up to it, he does NOTHING hope someone

2007-03-16 12:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by serenitie51 3

Hi all! We are a mixed family with 2 kids coming from my husband, and one from myself, and one together. Our 13 year old boy (his son) lashed out at my 8 year old daughter and hit her hard! Our 7th grade son is about 5'6 180 and our 2nd grade daughter is about 4' and 50 lbs. This really upset her and hurt her. We have no idea what a proper punishment is...but this is just NOT acceptable. Of course we grounded him at the moment...but how do we teach him this is not ok? Our 8 year old did say something she probably shouldn't have to him...but it was all in joking and everyone else knew that. For him to turn around and clock her one is just not ok. What would you do in this situation??? I have a tendency to have a temper...but have to walk a fine line with the stepson.

2007-03-16 12:23:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was growing a goatee and mustache since I was 12 years old. Should I shave it?

2007-03-16 12:18:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 11. i live with my mother and her boyfriend. my dad lives outta state. i hate my mom. we alwaysfight. im goth, and sorta spiratual. shes against everything that i stand for. i wanna get away from her and her negative affect on me, but i wanna stay in my school in town.
my dad and me get along much better but i dont wanna move outta state.
what can i do? i cant live with my mom for another 6 1/2 years!
what can i do that is legal?

2007-03-16 12:18:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister-in-law and I are angry at each other. We are both strongly standing to our words. She went to shopping. When she comes back, I want to act like I forgot about the whole situation that happen and act like I'm happy to be in her house.

How can I act happy when I'm angry? I know if I tell her my true emotion we are going to get into arguments and maybe fight.

2007-03-16 12:10:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was talking about my dearly missed Grandma tonight and about the funny things she used to come out with, her sayings if you like.
The funniest I remember was when she would talk about her love of my long hair and how it would (and I quote) 'shine like s**t on a barn door!' What funny things do/did your grandparents/parents come out with ?

2007-03-16 12:07:50 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

but then i rebel and i don't g et one and now they're all mad at me because they think im spoiled because i don't want a haircut?

2007-03-16 12:06:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok heres why shes sad: were new to our town but we have friends that live near us so we made plans with them and now they had to cancel because the person had a buisness dinner party, and now shes all sad because she usaly doesn't have anything to do with her friends since we moved and she was really looking forward to that. how can i cheer her up?

P.S. and yes i'm the same person who put the girlscout troop bede thing and i just wanted to say IT HAD A HEAD BORD! but i guess i was wrong

please help me cheer up my mom!

2007-03-16 11:42:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our mother walked in the room and caught him...he had me stashed behind the dresser with no underwear....my father, (his step-father) physically beat the hell out of him and i was made to watch. He never really did anything major after that...we are now grown and have children of our own...My mother who has never believed my side of the story is trying to force me to develope a relationship with my brother and his family....The thing is i am not the only person he has done this to...i have SEVERAL cousins who went through it too...he has never admitted to anyone what he did to me and he has never apologized....I have forgiven him....but i cannot forget and i feel sorry for his children...i don't want to know them and worry for them....i have no desire to be a part of his life in any way...i don't love him...he is my mother's son and nothing more to me...how do i make my mother understand without hurting her...she is getting old and wants to see her children united

2007-03-16 11:39:30 · 24 answers · asked by backwoodscountrywoman 2

I am renting a lovely home, been here 20 months, it's affordable. However, my nabour is a real pain in the bum. I have a young daughter and she's usually in bed at 7pm. My nabour just moved in and they are 60+yrs old, no children "ever". They have this mad kelpie cross dog that barks all the time, but the lady is worse then the dog. She's one of those people that accumilate friends and has people at her home nearly every night, she is so loud when they leave at night. She does not consider anyone. Anyway, my ex father in-law, "i'm a single mum now" is building 2 new villas. He has offered me one to rent. It would be closer to work, but further to childcare for my daughter. He has offered the back villa, not the front, which means my bedroom would be right near the front villas backyard. I feel i'm moving back into my old life, not moving forward as i would be living next door to my in-laws. Any sugestions?

2007-03-16 11:20:01 · 10 answers · asked by Purity 4

Okay because of my bad math grade I don't have any TV, computer, or radio until school's out. But at my dad's TV is all I have to do. Plus I LOVE music, I can't live without it. He won't give it back. Is there anyway I can get them back?? If not does anyone have any suggestions on what fun things to do while I'm stripped of all electrioncs?? Oh and no friends are allowed over.

2007-03-16 11:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to find some other people for my baby as I have no family of my own ideally grandparents or aunts, uncles. Does anyone know how I would do it SAFELY, I dont want to end up with the wrong people and I want them to think of being around her all through her life not just temporary. Any advice please?

2007-03-16 11:10:45 · 14 answers · asked by googleymugley 4

My brother and his wife are going to strip clubs with my ex and his new girlfriend. Is it wrong that I feel hurt, and betrayed? He says I'm just having temper tantrums, I say my feelings are justifiable, what do you think?

2007-03-16 11:06:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my dad has been singel for a littel wile and he runs away and gets mairred NONO help

2007-03-16 10:56:26 · 15 answers · asked by Jody S 1

....and why? i have a home because im with my family and i love them and they love me and im grateful for it.=] oh yeah please don't tell me that's none of my buisness i was just wondering about the word HOUSE and the word HOME and thinking about what they REALLY mean, im not trying to be nosy. So sorry if you think that way but then you could just NOT ANSWER. its simple as that.=] thanks.

2007-03-16 10:48:20 · 6 answers · asked by Catherine 3

after a while we were sweating and pushing, harder, faster. I knew she couldn't last much longer, she started to pant and whine a little, finally she let out a scream and I got the door open. Ladies do you always try to hide in the bath room after an arguement.

2007-03-16 10:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by frogenstien 3

2007-03-16 10:25:15 · 15 answers · asked by ari 1

I can find a person named martin murray

2007-03-16 10:23:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous