Family - March 2007

So I got pregnant, my ex-boyfriend's parents told me if I didn't get a abortion that it made me a very selffish person and I'd also not be allowed to speak with their son ever agian. Here are the reasons why they believed I should do it.

1. I have a history of deppression

2. the deppression could make the child very sick

3. I'd ruin the lives of my ex-boyfirend and his parents

4. They believed that after I had the baby I'd get
post pardom deppression, lay in bed and not care for
my child.

5. Because I grew up an orphan and had a hard life living in foster cares and group homes that would make her a problem child in the future.

6. They believed even though I wanted to give the baby up for adoption there is no one in the world who would adopt a African American half Japanese baby.

My ex turned on me not to metion get his friends and family after me. Even told my friends lies to justify his actions.


Was he right to do so? Does that make me selffish

2007-03-16 17:52:25 · 20 answers · asked by Ang 1

I REALLY like this one guy, so do you think i should ask him out? im only in jr. high, so how would i go about it?

2007-03-16 17:49:03 · 11 answers · asked by Veggie Girl 2

I have a Spanish young man who is working in Fiji. We have made him a member of our family, since he is far from home. He will be working in Fiji for 5 years. We have made him feel at home.

2007-03-16 17:45:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anasa T 1

my mom and dad already separated before but we had them back to each other arms again.my sis and i were really trying to make things better for both of them.but it seems that things didnt go our way.they always fight and argue w/ so many small things.we're not staying w/ them coz we had our work far from them.we only visit them once in a while.we gave them small business(a store) coz both of them got no job already.its our decision to stop them from working.i call them everyday just to check everything.but what i always hear from them is that they want to be separated again.my god!they didnt even think of what we are going to feel.they are so selfish!i really dont know what to do.they're still my parents.all i want is a complete family.

2007-03-16 17:40:07 · 4 answers · asked by mitchy 2

if so how to deal with elderly people like that without getting hurt?

2007-03-16 17:38:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my popa was born in england. he left england and moved half way around the world when he was 20 were he married my nana. he didn't stay in contact with his family. so do you think i sould find them or leave the issue. i don't know wh yhe didn't talk to them .

2007-03-16 17:35:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last season was my first year of cheerleading. I was very good at it, but, I soon realized that I wasn 't having fun with it. However, my dad loved watching me at my competitions and everything, and after I told him I wanted to not do cheerleading this upcoming season, he was very sad, disappointed, and upset with me. I realized that every practice, all we did was drill our routine. It wasn't about fun. It was about doing our routine perfect. And that really wasn't my passion, and I definitely don't want to go back to that. My dad is now very sad, and barely talks to me anymore. He used to always crack jokes and be funny and now he is always frowning and is never in a good mood. He seems very down in the dumps. I hate seeing him like this, but, I am not just going to make him happy by doing cheerleading again, and that would definitely make me very unhappy! Please help me, what should I do? Do you think my dad will ever be himself again? :( Thanks in advance . . .

2007-03-16 17:33:03 · 2 answers · asked by Crazy B 2

My dad is a type of person that likes to drink. But he's really verbaly abusive. He calls me fatass, worthless, dumbass, pathetic, gives my family a bad name. And sometimes he hits me. I'm sared, I don't know what to do. I drive but truck is gone. It needed fixed. So won't be done for a while and my mom is sleeping at her house. I don't know what to do? I guess I need some moral support. I'm 18 and I just need some good details on what I should do?

2007-03-16 17:21:39 · 4 answers · asked by pballstar24 1

to keep lookig at an old photograph album I found in my father's shed that feature many naked photoraphs of my mother?

2007-03-16 17:06:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a single mother of two, i have a daughter that is 5 an a son that turnt 4 in december. I have no help with them cause my family don't get along, but its my son im having problems with he's not old enough to attend school so he's with me 24/7 and im out off work from a on the job injury. How can i say this, first i love both of my childrens very much and my daughter i have no problems with but my son he's always doing what i tell him not to do. When its time to eat he only wants to eat junk no real food, i will tell him not to ride the bick in the street an to stay on the sidewalk he rides it in the street, i'll tell him to clean up his room he sits there an watch his tv, then when he wants to go out side an play an i say no cause you didn't clean your room he starts to pout. I have put him in time out and i have fussed, i have spanked him and that there don't even fase him.its like it goes in one ear an out the other. I love my son and i don't want to be a mean mom. I need help

2007-03-16 16:50:55 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 2

2007-03-16 16:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by Bre-Bre 1

I have heard from friends and co-workers about parents letting their sons and daughters sleep over at their boyfriends and girlfriends house at the ages of 15 yrs of age? I don't agree with it, how about you?

2007-03-16 16:35:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

yesterday was my birthday and the day b4 that was my little sisters birthday....i barely ever get 2 see my mom and my little sisters because they live in Virginia but i live in Pennsylvania with my aunt....i hate my mom's new boy friend and his son....and they were all supposed 2 come up this weekend so me because my little sister wanted 2 me and her 2 share a birthday party (like we have 4 the past 3 years) and i said i wouldn't mind....well it started snowing about a half an hour after they left 2 come up so they decided 2 turn around because my mom's new bf didn't want 2 drive up in the middle of a snow storm...my aunt told me when i got home from school that they wouldn't be coming and i acted like it bothered me but really i didn't care if they came up or not (only because i hate my mom's new bf).....is it wrong to feel this way??

2007-03-16 16:35:14 · 6 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4

I have a son, age 5, and a daughter, age 4. They live with me, and I am going through a custody battle with their dad. They share a bedroom, and sleep in bunkbeds. Is this legal until our lease is expired (a few more months)? I keep hearing from co-workers, ect., that this is not allowed. Does anyone know, or know where I could find out?

2007-03-16 16:33:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my little sister is annoying me to death! shes poking me and hitting random keys on my comp and keeps turning it off! my stuped older brother taught her how to stay up late (somehow)
and now she has had sum candy and is on a sugar rush and annoying me (she also slept today from 3:00-10:30) so shes gunna be up late... and my mom was working all day and she needs a rest so i wont wake her up i just need help with this little monster! (btw i cant lock my bedroom door becuz im in the living room lol)

2007-03-16 16:19:55 · 15 answers · asked by cutiek 1

My boyfriends father passed away recently,He has been very depressed,What can i do or say to make him feel better?

2007-03-16 16:12:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 16:04:22 · 11 answers · asked by Calista 1

Every year on Memorial Day I've given my dad, a veteran, the same thing--a bear hug and muttered thanks for the liberties and securities I too often take for granted which he fought and suffered a hell beyond my imagining to preserve.
He dislikes material gifts generally. I feel so inadequate.

Anyone know of something special and far out of the ordinary I could give him?

Thanks.

2007-03-16 16:01:53 · 4 answers · asked by Cynthia_Secular_n_SillyHatState 2

If so, how old were you when you first tried it, how long have you used it, and how does it make you feel?

2007-03-16 15:58:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-16 15:56:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 5 year old cousin comes and sleeps over here sometime and when she gets over here she is a perfect little angel and when my mom goes check on my granny she starts hitting on me and I tell my brother but he does not do anything exept just love on my cousin. Help Me please.

2007-03-16 15:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by kimberly a 1

How old do you think its appropriate to let your children have a boyfriend/girlfriend? If your children are boys & girls are the rules the same?

2007-03-16 15:46:05 · 10 answers · asked by Mammamia3 4

generally when a kid/person falls down or some mishap happens they say call out for mother

2007-03-16 15:22:50 · 23 answers · asked by mano 1

Ok im 11 and my lil sis is 6 she knows everything about sex i need help to make her stop talking about it!!!!! answers plz!!!

2007-03-16 15:18:45 · 10 answers · asked by Rally_gurl 1

I've thought long & hard & how much this will impact my life & everyone around me. I want to get out of the things I'm in. I feel like I have the need to run away. I've had long & hard talks with the people in my life. My family, friends & other peopl of guidance in my life & I still feel this gut renching need to run. I want a new life I suppose, like I've screwed this one up so much. I've hurt too many people in the process & the worst part, is I knew I was doing wrong. I feel that if I just leave them then they can worry a bit about me & my safety, but when you cut down the the nitty gritty, it wont be in theire hands anymore. They wont need to suffur for my consiquenses & stupid mistakes. I've ruined someone life to a great extent of which I can not discuss but if I run awya & leave it all behind maybe they can get out of trouble because I wont be around to tell my side of the story. They can eventually start out fresh themselves once I've left they're lives. Should I run?

2007-03-16 15:14:00 · 30 answers · asked by Lor 2

I have a cousin.She is twelve just like me.One time,I was at her house and we were
sitting on the porch with her friend.This car passes by with music pumping,so as a joke,her friend stands up and starts dancing(not sexily though).when the car leaves we just all start laughing and stuff.Next thing we know,the same car comes back around her block and stops in front of my friends house.He rolls down the window and laughing yells "Hey!" and we run into the house screaming.We tell my aunt and she says forget about em.so we go to the mall.(it's two guys in the car).When we park in the parking lot and get out the car,we see them parked in there car just talking and we panic aqnd tell my aunty and she gives the same response.so we go in the mall,come back out,we don't see them anymore.Though I am still concerned with her safety because they could be stalking her for all i know and plan on kidnapping or raping her or worse.

2007-03-16 14:29:29 · 4 answers · asked by MARY W 1

i sleep at day time and wake up at night time,i just love to stay awake at night times,i would stay watchin a movie,play ps,use the computer but my dad thinks he can force me to sleep at night time,when ever am watchin a movie he would come and take the dvd,and today he moved my computer from my room to his room...what do i do to stop my dad's stupidty?i even started to hate him

2007-03-16 14:29:28 · 22 answers · asked by tara tara 3

okay my sister has had a really ruff time with boys. she went out with this one guy for 3 years who i got along with alright until they broke up. well after about a year away from him she found this new guy. he really likes her and i can tell and she totally deserves to have a great boyfriend. the problem is that him and i dont get along all that well. the thing is that his bro and i hate and i mean HATE eachother and fight constantly so of course his bro hates me too. i really want my sis to be happy so what do i do? how do i deal with this?

2007-03-16 14:27:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just cant believe of all the child murders we have in this nation today..Just this last week 2 children in San Antonio were murdered, 1yr and one 4 mos. and thrown into a garbage bag and stashed under a house..The mother is 19 had four kids, the first 2 were taken away, the last two were viciously murdered, because she was tired of the crying..How can child protection services ignore this huge problem? They had been called out several times and nothing was done in the past....Another Baby was stabbed thrown out the car window like a piece of trash..Luckily the baby was saved..He still had the knife in his back when they found him on the side of the road...Im just astounded and heartsickened at all this child abuse that is going on in this country..When the time comes, God will judge us all.

2007-03-16 14:21:22 · 9 answers · asked by Tamitay 4

I moved to my hubby's city after marriage, whereby I really met my in-laws and my hubby's friends for the first time. I was feeling lonely bcoz my ONLY bro-in-law has a g/friend who rarely comes to visit us at home when she knew I'm needy of the company. We are both young women who could share many things together. My bro-in-law always visit alone, whenever Missy indulges with her own female friends. When my bro-in-law invited us over, it's 4 the same reason.I'm disappointed that I hve 2 stick with the guys. I wanted to know more.But when our parents in-laws hold reunions she''s always there 2 grin & bear. I felt bitter, bcoz i felt I'm not worthy of her company. She found out that I was BFF with another in-law, and NOW she wants me to include her in our outings.! What about my feelings when she left me out ? I'm thinking that 3's a crowd. The other in-law is the only 1, I can pour my heart out with, and I couldn't talk openly if others are around. Is this possesiveness or vengeence?

2007-03-16 14:08:39 · 21 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4