my mom and dad already separated before but we had them back to each other arms again.my sis and i were really trying to make things better for both of them.but it seems that things didnt go our way.they always fight and argue w/ so many small things.we're not staying w/ them coz we had our work far from them.we only visit them once in a while.we gave them small business(a store) coz both of them got no job already.its our decision to stop them from working.i call them everyday just to check everything.but what i always hear from them is that they want to be separated again.my god!they didnt even think of what we are going to feel.they are so selfish!i really dont know what to do.they're still my parents.all i want is a complete family.
2007-03-16 17:40:07 · 4 answers · asked by mitchy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's understandable that you want a perfect, happy family, but face it, this is your parents' marriage and your parents' life, and you can't make them love each other or want to be together. You are old enough to understand that sometimes in life, you have to let things take their course and stand back. If your parents want to separate or even divorce, respect their decision and continue to love both of them.
2007-03-16 17:45:39 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by cordwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every kid wants the perfect family, which is completley normal but the best thing you can say is "you guys are one day gonna be left with what used to be's and could have been and its all my fault because something bad will happen and that maybe what it takes for you guys to realize what you should be but you need to figure it out and talk everything out because its not fair putting me and my sister through this just make a final decision and stick with it so no one has to worry."
2007-03-16 17:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by soccergirl1323s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theyre still gona b ur familly!!! u gota let ur parents liv ther life and quit treaten them like kids!! they r allowed to do wat they want. u cant boss them, they dont like each other and no matter how hard it is ,u must accept it!
2007-03-16 17:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by sk8trgrrl101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋