okay my sister has had a really ruff time with boys. she went out with this one guy for 3 years who i got along with alright until they broke up. well after about a year away from him she found this new guy. he really likes her and i can tell and she totally deserves to have a great boyfriend. the problem is that him and i dont get along all that well. the thing is that his bro and i hate and i mean HATE eachother and fight constantly so of course his bro hates me too. i really want my sis to be happy so what do i do? how do i deal with this?
2007-03-16 14:27:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be happy for her that is all you can do.
2007-03-16 14:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is a question of how unselfish you are. If it makes your sister happy then let her be happy. Why should your sister choose someone base on your likes and dislikes. Would you let your sister choose for you. Ofcource not. Just be yourself. Your fight is with the guys brother not him. Separate your fight from your sister boyfriend. Then avoid the brother you are fighting with. Eventually the good word will be spread because your sister will be the equalizer. That is, thru the relationship of your sister and the guys brother things will calm down. Your sister boyfriend will see you as a good person and will not hate you anymore. This is because he will see things first hand as opossed to what he has been told.
If not then oh well. We can't be liked by everybody.
2007-03-16 21:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to think about your sisters happiness so if you can't stand his bro than that is his bro not him but you should talk to your sister and tell her how you feel and tell her you are for her happiness good luck on your decision
2007-03-16 21:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by jjjazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it be. Be the bigger person and think about if it was you. Dont ruin something great for your sister. You and the guys will work it out.... give it time.
2007-03-16 21:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AS LONG AS YOUR SIS IS HAPPY WHY MAKE IT A SITUATION
2007-03-16 21:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by B jump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is wat i would do i would just stop talkin 2 his bro not even think of him and just start hangin around your sis and her bf
2007-03-16 21:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Fine az could B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your sister how you feel
2007-03-16 22:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
solve this conflict between you and his brother. then it should be good.
2007-03-16 21:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by laurenn =) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop having problems with him!!!!
2007-03-16 21:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by tara tara 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋