Hmm. Well to start off, i am getting really mad cause my dad flips for no good reason. He is always yelling at me and it gets sooo annoying. He is driving me nuts ! Whats even worse, my mom moved to florida and that leaves me rlly sad. Is anyone here in the same situation or in a situation like that ? Please help !
2007-03-16 14:06:08 · 11 answers · asked by Allie ツ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
PS. Mom and dad divorced, and they hate eachither. and im only 13 so i cant move out !
2007-03-16 14:32:35 · update #1
Maybe your dad is sad to, about mom leaving and he is taking it out on you.....
2007-03-16 14:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey,ally be patient with your dad ,sometimes adults forget that kids have feelings.he seems to be going through something and he's not handling it right.parents aren't perfect.what you should do is not give him any reason to spaz out.after a while he will come around.then if you want you can address the way he made you feel.you'll see that he is just human.when you need someone i am sure he is always in your corner,so forgive him and tell him you love him dearly.
2007-03-16 14:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to move to Florida with your mom! Maybe you have some other relatives or a really close friend? Move in with them.
2007-03-16 14:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is ignore it... it sounds hard but it's really not.
I have learned to lie and sound the way my parents want and give them the answers they want so that we don't fight as much. It is working so far.
My parents are still together but my mom and I don't get along and my daddy is normally asleep when we fight... I'm a daddy's girl... especially cuz he normally sides with me.
2007-03-16 14:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by tddybrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is missing your mom,and every time he looks at you he is reminded.You could either go and stay with mom,or with relatives until he has got over the split.Good luck.
2007-03-16 18:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, move out.... your dad is probably just bitchy cuz your mom left... did she have any good reason to leave?
see if you can stay at a friends or relatives until things calm down.
2007-03-16 14:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have brave heart if you are an adult or else go to your guardians. If you are a grown up, sit and have a talk with your dad about his problem... interaction is the only answer for your problem, you cant avoid it..
2007-03-16 14:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by prem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to take it with a smile,
your dad sounds stressed and overworked
remember it is not easy for anyone
try not to create anymore stress
try to do something together
good luck
2007-03-16 14:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by unit ® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry! you should share with yuor teacher or close friend. they will take care you and help you overcome. you also come to school or library to learn, not need to saty at home. sometime write letter for your mother to share if you miss her.
2007-03-16 14:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by hong 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to my family my mum left my dad she turned into a b****, i had to live with her too. things will calm down just give it time
2007-03-16 14:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋