Family - March 2007

2007-03-18 23:06:20 · 16 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4

2007-03-18 22:57:23 · 8 answers · asked by claire r 1

yesterday was mothers day ..hope t was good for all ya mums out there but..... my other half (who is an idoit) got me a grandma's card for me from my son ... but that wasnt the fact .. i was dissapointed that he didnt put harrisons name my son who died in november on the card ... harrison was only a baby and i feel let down and that my hubby has forgotten harrison
he asked me why i cried when i got the card but i couldnt tell him ... am i selfish?

2007-03-18 22:36:04 · 26 answers · asked by honey 2

It's like she's obsessed with being someone or something she's not. I end up pushing her away if I say something to her about it. Any suggestions?

2007-03-18 22:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by cm2pappa 1

I'm living wit my husband's family, his parents and his little sis. She's 20 and her bf often comes over, he always takes my daughter away from my hands without saying anything to me not even say hi. I try to go stay in my bedroom but he still get in and take my 6 mons old away. Yes, I really want my own family but my husband wants to stay wit his family forever. He bought this mobile home, paid off his dad's car, pay for their car insurance, take them to shopping. They're still young, his dad 54 and his mom 46. When he wants to do something he's would afraid his family won't be happy, even his car, his dad have to says yes otherwise he won't get it. I'm willing to do anything for his family as long he agree to start our own family but he always rejects my offer. I;m trying my best bcause of him and my daughter, he told me he can[t live without her.
thanks for reading

2007-03-18 22:26:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

we work for my husbands family,my husband always has money or talked about it even giving my son money all the time, my son had no job, i think he thought we would not miss it

2007-03-18 22:18:29 · 8 answers · asked by DAWN T 1

I got a text from my mum complaining that no one brought her a card or anything for mothersday. (she was very sarcastic and angry)

She told my sisters (late teens) that they weren't allowed to come round anymore and everytime they did she would go out. All they do is argue with her.

I have just had to apply for a remortgage and have had to sell my things so that I have food.

I sent her a message back saying sorry and explaining why I couldnt afford to get her anything, she hasnt replied. What should i do?

2007-03-18 22:15:26 · 15 answers · asked by MARIA 2

30 year old son did not graduate and unable to get a job. Anti-social behaviors. Talks to himself. Has no friends. Will not see a doctor. Thinks he is normal. Dad pays for everything such as food, cigarettes, gas, insurance, phone, etc. because he does not want to "kick him to the street." Even sold his house to get him out on his own, but he bought another house and then paid one year for son to have own apartment. Son agreed to get a job, but nobody will hire him. Dad is frustrated and does not enjoy living with Son in the home. Does not know where to turn for advice. Ex-wife had him once, but she had him leave, so Dad took him in again. Any suggestions how to treat this problem? Oh, Son does everything in excess. Smokes too much, drinks too much (when he gets alcohol), plays video games and watches cartoons too much, etc. I am friends with the Dad for ten years and this Son is destroying our relationship. Any advice (serious, please) would be appreciated. Thank you

2007-03-18 22:09:50 · 15 answers · asked by tryingtodigout 1

My daughter is a month old and she always wants me. I am a stay at home mom and my hubby works. He gets home about 6:00 pm and goes to bed at 10:00pm during the week at night I get up with her so he can sleep. When he comes home he'll hold her but if she hears my voice she'll cry and It makes him feel bad. He says I spoil her. I dont hold her all day. she sleeps most of it. How do I get him more involved so he wont be missing these little things? and how do i get her to adapt to her daddy more?

2007-03-18 21:53:54 · 6 answers · asked by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5

ok im in my room right now and i was wondering if i should or shouldn't lock my door. my sister somtimes needs to get in my room to get stuff soo its 1:50AM. Do I have the rights to lock my bedroom door?

2007-03-18 21:50:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I'm 18 and my mom still treats me like I'm a kid. I live with her because I'm going to be starting school and working part-time. I have a job right now. I'm mature enough to work adn go to school but she treats me like a child. Curfew is 10 on weekdays and 11 on weekends, phone number and address to whereever I spend the night, calling me 50 times in a night if I'm gone all night, play by play on what I'm doing everyday! She is driving me crazy!!! But, I listen to it out of respect for her. Why is she still acting like I'm a child when I'm 18 years old???

2007-03-18 21:33:26 · 17 answers · asked by cutie_2008_09 1

2007-03-18 21:16:50 · 8 answers · asked by Ann f 2

as my parents taught me, be nice to everyone.then i left my home, and start working.i saw ppl r lying on small things and
cheating each other. even ppl take advantage of my BE NICE
attitude.
i m confused, what the hell my parents taught me.this is diffrent world.
how should i behave? be nice or be bad.

2007-03-18 20:46:36 · 8 answers · asked by Wondrer 4

we never hear a word about her has she made another single

2007-03-18 20:33:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not "step-mom" - but I've lived with my boyfriend since his daughter was 2. (She's now 12) There's been different living arrangements, but for the last four years - she's been living with us during the school week - and does most weekends and holidays with her Mom. I'm very involved in her life - and do the parenting stuff. (Pack lunches - drive her to school everyday - go on girlscout camping trips - help her with homework - chaperone the church youth group events - get her books from the library - talk with her about boys - watch American Idol with her - pray with her - discipline her - encourage her - etc.) And I LOVE parenting.

Latley she's hasn't been doing her homework when she's with Mom on the weekend. Tonight when she came home - I mentioned it to her Mom. And the conversation escalated to "You're way out of line! You're not her Mother!" I know I'm not her mother. I never claim to be her mother.

Have you ever said this to your kid's stepmom? Why?

2007-03-18 20:27:43 · 6 answers · asked by liddabet 6

My mom Is 5' 1" and my dad is 5' 11" And right now im 12 and wiegh 96 pounds and am 5'.
I'm a boy by the way.

2007-03-18 20:07:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have what I would call a controling mother. I am 22 yrs old and I have a 6 month old child. My mother doesn't approve of my new boyfriend who I have been dating for 2 months claiming that I spend to much time with him. I live at my mothers house b/c I work part time and I have a car payment. My mom picks fights with my bf and he never says anything out of the way to her. Now she has started this "oh well he gave me a look" crap. I am so tired of it and want to get my own place, but I'm scared I can't afford it. I can't keep living this way though. While I'm at work (3rd shift) she watches the baby. If she wakes up crying my mother calls me and makes me listen to it. It breaks my heart all she wants is a bottle but my mother doesn't care. She believes she should be sleeping through the night. Now she is threatening to not let my bf come over anymore (trying to punish me). Should I move out? How do I do it tastefully without it being a huge fight?? How can I afford to move out???

2007-03-18 20:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by specklesanne_13 1

i am 24 years old i just lost my mom to cancer and lost my grandmother to old age. i lost my job that i had for 5 years, i am now living at home with my dad, we never get along. everything just seem so screwed up. ever since my mom passed (about 4 months ago) i have been lost, unmotavated, hating the world. just feeling out of place. every time i am not doin something i think about her. EVERYTHING reminds me of her. i honestly think i am losing it. to a point i can't take anything anymore. please someone give me some advice. please!

2007-03-18 19:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by don p 1

I don't know how to explain my situation very well. I feel that if I'm not being beaten or molested, I have no right to complain and am a spoiled brat. My mom is constantly complaining about everything I do, I do chores around the house to help out and she screams that I don't do it right and does it herself and then says I'm stressing her out too much....she does this to her boyfriend as well. She made me drop out of school because she couldn't give me rides and I currently don't have a liscence and can't take the bus(complicated situation) and now gets mad that I sit at home and says "why can't you go to school like a normal kid?" She never wants to spend time with me when she gets home at 5 pm, saying she's too tired, goes right to bed, talks about money constantly and never anything else, won't let anyone is the house eat anything that doesn't fit her standards meaning no cereal, no crackers, ect only things like wheat germ....Is it just self pity?

2007-03-18 19:23:29 · 16 answers · asked by ohohariel 1

Actually, my grandma was the one who took care of me since I was 5 months old. Now, I'm 14 years old, my mama want me to live with her in her place. I don't really like her idea.

2007-03-18 18:36:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

but now my other kids want to see him and i dont no what to do

2007-03-18 18:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by lil mama 1

I'm not really a step-mom - but I've lived with my boyfriend since his daughter was 2. (She's now 12) There's been different living arrangements, but for the last four years - she's been living with us during the school week - and does most weekends and holidays with her Mom. I'm very involved in her life - and do the parenting stuff. (Pack lunches - drive her to school everyday - go on girlscout camping trips - help her with homework - chaperone the church youth group events - get her books from the library - talk with her about boys - watch American Idol with her - pray with her - discipline her - encourage her - etc.) And I LOVE parenting.

Latley she's hasn't been doing her homework when she's with Mom on the weekend. Tonight when she came home - I mentioned it to her Mom. And the conversation escalated to "You're way out of line! You're not her Mother!" I know I'm not her mother. I never claim to be her mother.

Has this ever happened to you? Why does it happen?

2007-03-18 18:09:59 · 6 answers · asked by liddabet 6

ok so me and my mom have been getting along great lately. but some times her craziness is just TOO MUCH!

I honestly think sometimes that she just likes to pick fights with me because shes bord. like she'll be fine and then all the sudden she'll just turn into this crazy person that gets me so mad!

for instance, last night we go out for ice cream (just me and her) and were drivin around and DQ is closed so i say "ok lets go to mcdonalds". and she comes back with "STOP BOSSING ME AROUND!!!!"

i think she only said that because she knew it would set me off. so we got into this huge fight, and i told her i didnt evn want ice cream anymore, and she goes anyway (for spite) and im like mom why are you doing that? and she screams at me that she just likes to waste her money. (is she serious?)

so i didnt eat it, and today she isnt giving me the time of day. and i even tried talking to her first! is she crazy or wtf is her prob? why cant she just let it go??

Please Help!!!!!!!

2007-03-18 17:42:40 · 4 answers · asked by hi_im_ro 1

ok so me and my mom have been getting along great lately. but some times her craziness is just TOO MUCH!

I honestly think sometimes that she just likes to pick fights with me because shes bord. like she'll be fine and then all the sudden she'll just turn into this crazy person that gets me so mad!

for instance, last night we go out for ice cream (just me and her) and were drivin around and DQ is closed so i say "ok lets go to mcdonalds". and she comes back with "STOP BOSSING ME AROUND!!!!"

i think she only said that because she knew it would set me off. so we got into this huge fight, and i told her i didnt evn want ice cream anymore, and she goes anyway (for spite) and im like mom why are you doing that? and she screams at me that she just likes to waste her money. (is she serious?)

so i didnt eat it, and today she isnt giving me the time of day. and i even tried talking to her first! is she crazy or wtf is her prob? why cant she just let it go??

Please Help!!!!!!! !

2007-03-18 17:32:13 · 3 answers · asked by hi_im_ro 1

what do i do my sister is crazy!Ok my mom my sis and me wer all having lunch today and she was talking about how she needed to lose a few pound and she really dosnt she is really skinny so me and my mom started saying no you are not blah blah and she just blowes up on us and throwes her bread across the table and get up dumpes her plate in the trash and said I am leaving and i was suposed to go with her to get her cat from my other sisters and i said hey I am comming becouse i thought i could talk to her and straten things out and she said no you dont want to ride in the car with me and i said fine i didnt want to go anyway and then she goes upstaires and starts getting all of her stuff and saying that everyone hates her and she is the scum of the earth and me and my mom are saying that we love her and then she starts screaming about it and gets up in my face and she treats us like crap and the whole trip she smarted off to us and me or my mom said anything cuz this always hapenz!

2007-03-18 17:31:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so me and my mom have been getting along great lately. but some times her craziness is just TOO MUCH!

I honestly think sometimes that she just likes to pick fights with me because shes bord. like she'll be fine and then all the sudden she'll just turn into this crazy person that gets me so mad!

for instance, last night we go out for ice cream (just me and her) and were drivin around and DQ is closed so i say "ok lets go to mcdonalds". and she comes back with "STOP BOSSING ME AROUND!!!!"

i think she only said that because she knew it would set me off. so we got into this huge fight, and i told her i didnt evn want ice cream anymore, and she goes anyway (for spite) and im like mom why are you doing that? and she screams at me that she just likes to waste her money. (is she serious?)

so i didnt eat it, and today she isnt giving me the time of day. and i even tried talking to her first! is she crazy or wtf is her prob? why cant she just let it go??

Please Help!!!!!!!

2007-03-18 17:25:32 · 1 answers · asked by hi_im_ro 1

My mother usually gives me a glass of milk with my favourite Maryland cookies before I watch Newsnight in bed (although it wasn't on tonight since it's sunday so I watched a taped newsnight show from March 2001) but what is newsnight without milk and cookies? I am very down!
Mother said she is punishing me for flirting with her 58 year old friend, Bernice. But surely, every woman deserves to experience the one and only sexual Dave, even Bernice!

2007-03-18 17:16:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like I don't fit in with my family, When something is wrong with me like when I am sick I panic and my mom doesn't like it when i panic because she thinks that i am hard to handle when something is wrong. I think that she should set me up for adoption since I worry. What do I do?

2007-03-18 17:04:37 · 5 answers · asked by kimberly a 1

2007-03-18 17:01:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My step father (who I call Dad) passed away and I have a brother and then a step brother and step sister. My brother and I had the same mother and my stepfather was like my real father. My mother and him were married for 40 years before she died. The step brother and step sister's mother and my dad were married for short period of time. My brother and I were left majority of inherientence and now my step brother and step sister aren't speaking to us which hurts. Dad did this because he felt they didn't come around often enough. Also, half of his money was our mom's money. They think we should share our wealth with them. What is the right thing to do in this situation?

2007-03-18 16:53:29 · 9 answers · asked by Lockformer 1