i lost my mom?

Question

i am 24 years old i just lost my mom to cancer and lost my grandmother to old age. i lost my job that i had for 5 years, i am now living at home with my dad, we never get along. everything just seem so screwed up. ever since my mom passed (about 4 months ago) i have been lost, unmotavated, hating the world. just feeling out of place. every time i am not doin something i think about her. EVERYTHING reminds me of her. i honestly think i am losing it. to a point i can't take anything anymore. please someone give me some advice. please!

Answer 1

I'm sorry to hear about your mom and grandmas passing, and to ad to that loosing your job, I have also lost a parent and I cant make it better but I could say that it will get better in time. I know everything just seems out of place now but just hang in there and you will see that time will heals all wounds.

Try to appreciate having your dad and charis the time you have with him because this is what your mom would have wanted and remember he is going through the same thing.

I know how you feel i been in the same situation that you are going through its one thing after another and your wondering when its going to end, maybe it was just meant to be for you to lose your job so that you would end up with your dad he needs you as much as your mother needed you so give it a chance.

Prayer also helps, even if you think at this point in time it doesn't, don't worry the clouds will clear and sun will shine again, give it time.

What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.

My prayers are with you and your family.

Answer 2

OMG I thought you were a friend of mine. She's almost 24, she lost her mom of cancer maybe 3-4 months ago and I know shes had a job for 5 years but I havent talked to her lately, so I dont know if she still has it or not. Im not kidding you. Well all I can say is, talk to friends, family, maybe see a therapist to help you. I cant even imagine what you're going through. I hope the best for you and im so sorry for your loss.

Answer 3

I lost my Mom when I was 20 and I remember where you are. It's the worst place to be. Try telling your Dad how you feel. He is probably in pain too.Try to find a counselor or loss group.
You lost your Mother which is very hard but don't lose yourself or your Dad in the pain.
My Dad and I didn't get along either but I made an extra effort to get closer to him after losing my Mom and I am so happy I did....because I lost my Father 10 years later. Now I am without a family but they are always with me.

Answer 4

I can relate...within a few years time, I lost 5 very close family members, including my husband and my mother. There is nothing I can say to be a quick fix...I am sorry for your loss, really....but , you're young and have a future...your Mom (Mum) would want you to do your best...allow yourself to grieve...it's natural and with time you will feel better...you're not going crazy...you're just a good son...it's OK to be sad, but also give yourself a future...here's a video link that could help you too....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6Ks6D3gQw8

Answer 5

You are grieving your loss. This is a natural human process. There are many good books to read on death and dying. Also, you should check your local newspaper or church (if you're a spiritual person) for any local support groups. You need to get out there and talk about your feelings with others that understand.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

oh dear!I know how hard it is when mother passes away.coz i also lost my mother 2 yrs back.i came out from grieving by thinking myself as if my mother is with me in all my ups and downs.Try to get a new job,so that u may find life bit nice.its good to change job also u know.ok leave it that u lost the job try to get out of the hose sitting nd crying.world is soo big,that there are so many things to learn.One day every one have to leave this world keep this in mind n think for yourself.Good luck nd My God Bless You.

Answer 8

Sounds like you're depressed. Try to get some therapy, or if that's not possible, confide to a close circle of friends and keep yourself busy.

Sorry about your loss.

Answer 9

What you're going through is too hard to handle by yourself. You should seek professional help, they will give you ways of dealing with not only your feelings but also help you get your life back together.

Answer 10

You need to get a doctors help. You are grieving and need the help. I'm so sorry about your mom and I pray for you and your father. Be there for each other.