I Need advice!?

Question

ok so me and my mom have been getting along great lately. but some times her craziness is just TOO MUCH!

I honestly think sometimes that she just likes to pick fights with me because shes bord. like she'll be fine and then all the sudden she'll just turn into this crazy person that gets me so mad!

for instance, last night we go out for ice cream (just me and her) and were drivin around and DQ is closed so i say "ok lets go to mcdonalds". and she comes back with "STOP BOSSING ME AROUND!!!!"

i think she only said that because she knew it would set me off. so we got into this huge fight, and i told her i didnt evn want ice cream anymore, and she goes anyway (for spite) and im like mom why are you doing that? and she screams at me that she just likes to waste her money. (is she serious?)

so i didnt eat it, and today she isnt giving me the time of day. and i even tried talking to her first! is she crazy or wtf is her prob? why cant she just let it go??

Please Help!!!!!!!

Answer 1

It takes two to fight, well unless she is attacking you physically even then its up to you to dodge and leave, or dodge and attack. Ether way Its not fair, but you have the ability to be the bigger person. That doesn't mean you take what she says and just go on. Not at all, what it means thou is that you don't let her act a fool. If she says something like that question her about. Just talk strait from the heart and try and have some humility and keep you eye on the prize. Namly she is your mother and your stuck with her weather she is alive or dead, far away or right next to you. But you don't have to deal with her anger. Make her turn your emotions into something else other then just anger and frustration and you might be able to tolearante her. This is classical, theres nothing really wrong with her or you, its just the state of things in our society. It isn't fair simply put, and we deep, down know this and don't know how to handle it. I'll leave it up to you and her to find out whats wrong, lets just say were all from the top millionaire to the lonely bagger all equally screwed. Don't make it harder on each other then it all ready is.... anger aways breeds more anger....