PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i need advice!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

ok so me and my mom have been getting along great lately. but some times her craziness is just TOO MUCH!

I honestly think sometimes that she just likes to pick fights with me because shes bord. like she'll be fine and then all the sudden she'll just turn into this crazy person that gets me so mad!

for instance, last night we go out for ice cream (just me and her) and were drivin around and DQ is closed so i say "ok lets go to mcdonalds". and she comes back with "STOP BOSSING ME AROUND!!!!"

i think she only said that because she knew it would set me off. so we got into this huge fight, and i told her i didnt evn want ice cream anymore, and she goes anyway (for spite) and im like mom why are you doing that? and she screams at me that she just likes to waste her money. (is she serious?)

so i didnt eat it, and today she isnt giving me the time of day. and i even tried talking to her first! is she crazy or wtf is her prob? why cant she just let it go??

Please Help!!!!!!! !

Answer 1

Hi, well it sounds like there is something that is bothering your mother that you don't know about, I mean for her to get upset about things that are so little there is something that is eating her up inside, so just try and be patient with her and just be understanding.

It could be something from her past that is just eating at her that she has never talked about and if there have been things going on in the home that could be bothering her to.

Maybe if you could, now I'm not sure how close you two are but try and ask her when she's in a good mood if she's okay and if she asks why your asking just say that it seems like something maybe bothering you and just ask if there is anything you can do to help or would she like to talk about anything.

I am a mother myself and kids don't really understand the stress that mother's have to go through especially if your a single parent.

Good luck.

Answer 2

It sound like she might be getting bipolar. Talk to a counselor or psychologist for more useful advice.

Answer 3

Walk away when she yells at you. You shouldn't have to put up with that everyday. Then, when she cools down go talk to her and ask her what her problem is.