I'm 15 and talking to parents and adults, it's my perception that most of them think parents should be kind strict and harsh. That is, they should control their kid's lives, punish them whenever they do something wrong, with harsh punishments,never forgive, make their kids fee bad and humilitaed when they mess up. I also got the perception that most parents think they shouldn't take into account their kids willingness to change, and have as aa principle thetif a kid messed up, did something wrong, broke their parents trust, then he's damned, heor she will never earn it back and will neve be forgiven. Well,if in adulthood it's like that, the everybody is damned, because almost ult dose such things once in a while. If my perception is right, this is scary. I've had many conflicts w/ my parents, but never really messed up. So, if I do something wrong, which is possible, I'm not perfect, then I'll lose their love, trust, everything for life, even if I do my best to make up for my mistake?
2007-02-12
05:13:23
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