Ive been with my bf for almost 2 years his older sister is 27 and married with 1 young child. Around December she started being very rude and bitchy to me for NO reason. I took it for a while but then one day said something back to her and now we hate eachother. I just found out recently her husband sleeps around. My boyfriend knows and will not tell her. Do you think shes this way because she isnt happy or what???? Should he tell his sister about her husband? (they r very good friends) Help!!! I cant stand her!!
2007-02-12 03:47:22 · 5 answers · asked by Steff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He makes over $200,000 a year and I dont think she'd ever leave him. I feel its not my place to tell her.
2007-02-12 04:04:36 · update #1
Maybe she found out around December and is trying to deal with it.
Keep your nose out and butt out.
If she is upset and angry she will lash out at anybody. You probably are not the only one having a hard time with her.
If her brother loves her, he is probably afraid to talk to her. Maybe he knows she already knows.
I wouldn't hate her , I would go about my business and not let it affect me.
You don't have to deal with her on a day to day basis.
She is hurting and wants to hurt everybody else.
This is not about you, it is about her.
Leave it alone.....
2007-02-12 04:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sister-in-law is extremely unhappy. She is probably subconsciouly jealous of your happy relationship so she is nasty to you. Just try to be nice to her, hard as it is, because she is going through a hard time and she will probably respond in kind.
I think your boyfriend should tell his friend that he knows about the sleeping around and encourage him to give it up. He should threaten to tell his sister if he doesn't himself. Family comes first.
2007-02-12 11:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by KB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have very little to lose. If your BF condones her behavior, you will always be the family whipping dog. With personal ads, BFs are 10 cents per dozen for single ladies. I'd cut and run.
2007-02-12 11:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess she maybe knows but deny it, may be she seeing you with her brother all happy...... hurt her inside and she my be want to be like you guys...... you should speak to her, (it's easy said than doing it) let her know that you are the bigger person...As for her husband you stay out off it...... let her brother tell her...
2007-02-12 12:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one should tell the poor woman her man is cheating. Wouldnt you want to know if it was your man? No wonder she is so unhappy, stuck in a loveless marriage.
2007-02-12 11:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tatts 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋