Family - February 2007

The father of my two kids has not paid child support in a very long time. I recently came across a credit card of his, should I use this to buy the kids some presents for their upcoming birthday?

2007-02-12 13:27:20 · 16 answers · asked by mom2twins 2

2007-02-12 13:26:29 · 13 answers · asked by d1nonlidx2 2

He has decided that since he's almost 20, I can't tell him what to do or anything. However, he sitll lives at home, is in the middle of a custody battle with his 19 year old ex girlfriend - my grandson is 16 months old. They have 50/50 custody now. My son LIES the worst in the world to me. I told him to pick his friends or his family (he & I live alone but I have a large family around). He told me he would not see this one particular person any longer but I find out he did the next day. He's been out of a job for 3 weeks and still hasn't found one.

When he is to be out looking for a job (and he swears he is) I find out he's running with bad influences.

I took the house keys away from him & told him to find another place to live if he couldn't live by my rules but he makes me feel guilty. What do I do?

2007-02-12 13:23:49 · 18 answers · asked by staci1965 1

Im a protestant girl and i'm engaged to and pregnant to a catholic guy now obviously religon means nothing to me but being from n ireland it is a big deal to my family i thought i could compromise and keep both families happy by either getting married in a catholic church and havin the baby christened in a protestant church or vice versa but my dad hit the roof wen i told him and sed if i do either in a catholic place he will get my child took away from me i wouldnt worry so much but im down as a social risk on my maternity notes already because i had a social worker at14 cos i wouldnt go to school. Can someone please tell me whether he can do this or not?

2007-02-12 13:15:47 · 5 answers · asked by dee 3

Its my mom's birthday and she is having a party. I want to give her something perfect but what can i get her? Please tell me the item and the price. plz answer this!

2007-02-12 13:12:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

any idea?

2007-02-12 13:00:23 · 3 answers · asked by proud trucker wife 1

my mom and dad are still going through a divorce and my mom just found out she has to go 2 iraq in 2 weeks what are ways to deal w/ this stress! besides a counciler plz help!

2007-02-12 12:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by danieln92 1

Was does everyone think of a mother who deserts her baby. As I mentioned in a previous question I became a dad when I was 13 and last year my daughter mother left her with me and moved 500 miles away to her grandmothers. I now have legal custody and we live alone ( I fell out with my mother). I am now 17 and my daughter is 3. But I still do not understand how any mother could leave her child and never return for a visit. My little girl only recently stopped asking for her mother. What is everyones opinion on a deserting mother?

2007-02-12 12:38:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is in his mid sixties and goes like crazy,deer hunting,fishing,camping and any other outdoor excursion he can think of at every oppertunity.he has a heart condition, diabetes,and other health problems. i tell him to take a radio with him and he forgets to turn it on half the time.i love him and he is worrying me sick! what can i do?

2007-02-12 12:35:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cook clean i know how to take care of myself ,, i come from a broken home i can'y see my dad ETC.. my bf and his family are willing to take me in and still keep a good education. my mother has threatened me hit me .. i just want to leave ,, she wants to move out of state and i will lose everything i worked so hard for,,, I really need to know if i can move out??

2007-02-12 12:23:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

O.K. my aunt almost died in the hospital. She is O.K. now she is still in Intensive care. My mom goes up and stays the night is it o.k. to miss my mom and want to see my aunt?

2007-02-12 12:16:47 · 7 answers · asked by lexmark_z_35 2

I am under so much stress because we are in so much trouble with our mortgage. we are at the point of losing our house. my wife does not know how bad it is, we have a 5 month old son and we have put so much money into our house, this is the last thing we could lose. instead of paying the mortgage i have paid our credit debts. and then made sure we have enough money left to make sure we have enough money to make sure we can pay for nappies and food for our son. im at my witts end because i feel that whatever i have done im still not going to win. make sure my son is looked after and not pay mortgage or pay mortgage and not have money for his food and stuff. help needed

2007-02-12 12:08:16 · 10 answers · asked by karl p 3

The only thing that I know Is she went to Tomball High School. She went to Tomball Medical to have me and she lives in Texas

2007-02-12 12:05:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

When she scolds our kids (8 years old and 3 years old), it takes a litany of sermons to prove her point. Yes, maybe she has a point. But in explaining it, it takes her forever to point it out, often times moving to other issues. Is this normal for women her age? She is 41. I remember my mother to talk as much.

2007-02-12 11:56:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to know some of your childrens (or your) funny childhood quotes... like...one of my friends was at Niagra falls when she was about 4 and she asked my dad if they turned the water off when the visistors left....just quotes like that or that you found amusing in the context. thanks a bunch!!!

2007-02-12 11:43:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to bear in mind shipping as I am in America and he is in England. I cannot go home for his 21st, well its unlikely, as I am going home in May for my dad's 60th. Any gift ideas that I can ship to him from America to England?
Thanks.

2007-02-12 11:39:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live at home with my mother im 21 years of age, i work and i attend college. im too busy to go out. but when i do dhe gets upset, and fights with me ... i try doin every thing she ask for i help out with the rent.. i give money for what ever else is needed in the house,every time she talks on the phone with her best friend she talks about other peoples kids like "" ohh shes so lucky to hav kids like that.. my mom always puts me down. she never believes in me., we hav a bad relationship.. sometimes shes nice to me but other times she curse me out. for noo reason. she gets upset about the house bein dirty and blames it on me. i work from 630 am. till 3pm. thn i go to school from 450pm til 950 pm.. i get home so tired. and the first thing i walk into is her wild mouth and yelling ,,ii want to ove out,, i dont no what to do any more.. too may years of the same thing.. i feel like i hav no family.. i really do,,

2007-02-12 11:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by Damaris A 2

2 weeks ago, my bf's mother died of ALS, she was 72, she had it only a year, with the last 6 months of fast progression, she died at home, we where there, he cried some that day, and hasn't cried or really acted like anything happened, I've been crying alot, I know people grieve differently, we are 40yr old, but, I'm afriad he's just going to start crying one day and have a real meltdown??

2007-02-12 11:26:54 · 9 answers · asked by tamilynn 3

The whole family is putting together a scrapbook of letters and pictures for her, i am just beyond perplexed as to what i want to say to her... im her only grand daughter. ive bought her a pretty card that talks about staying young at heart, and only kind adn giving people are truly able to stay young at heart....i just need some helpful suggestions on what to say in the card.... PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-02-12 11:26:38 · 6 answers · asked by miss me! 4

2007-02-12 11:18:14 · 2 answers · asked by Drew 1

Ok my mom and dad are going away next weekend for some special Valentines mommy and daddy time. His mom and her fiance are doing the same but they aren't married yet so I'm not sure what they plan to do lol lol. I have fifty to spend and with that I could have about 5 left to buy him a nice Valentines day card. Ok he and I will be well supervised by grandparents and we receive constant DAILY!! reminders that we are too young for intimacy (the reminders got more frequent after one of my 13 yr old girlfriends got pregnant wonder why lol lol). Anyway I got worried about what they might think and didnt buy the gifts yet because I'm worried that they may think I got bubble bath for him and I in spite of the fact that a lot of grandparents will be in the picture next weekend. I'm worried they might FREAK OUT and order us to stay apart until they come home. If not bubble bath what else for 50 dollars max.

2007-02-12 11:17:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am taking care of my elderly father, and need to quit my job to do so. I have head that I could get pid for being my father's PCA. Does anyone know if this is tru? BTW: I live in Minnesota.

2007-02-12 11:08:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-12 11:08:39 · 2 answers · asked by mommy2b 3

ok well i'm getting my license in like 2 days and my parents have been hinting around that they are getting me a car... ok well before all this hinting around and junk, they flat out told me i wasn't getting a car, so my hopes were like on zero, but after hearing all the talk about cars, they've like shot through the roof, well tonight they're like...yeah we don't have the money for a car...so i'm like on this roller coaster... and i flat out told my mom that I'm not getting a job unless i can drive myself, which i dont think is too unreasonable, because i believe that a major part of getting a job is the freedom of driving yourself there... she thinks I'm totally crazy, because the money i could make having a job could EVENTUALLY get me a car....we are totally not in any form of agreement...what do you think???

2007-02-12 11:02:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Anyone else have a hot sibling that makes them uncomfortable with suggestive comments and revealing clothes?

2007-02-12 10:53:38 · 5 answers · asked by actionfolksinger 2

I am doing some research on child support and I have some questions? Are there REALLY any fairness to the way courts handle these situations. It's cut and dry when you have a true "deadbeat dad" who doesn't take any responsibility, but what about those parents who are doing their part, making their payments, keeping in contact with their kids and the courts treat them like they don't exist. And the parent who has custody takes advantage of that. The courts are not set up to handle these types of situations and the children suffer even more as a result. Both parents need to be thouroughly checked out before too many decisions are made in a case. The child needs both parents and if one parent is using the system they need to go to jail. If the system is set up for the benefit of the children then money should not be the driving force behind determinations. These children don't know anything other than the parents that love them. It's getting worse as the years go by. Laws need to change.

2007-02-12 10:52:50 · 4 answers · asked by Elvis lives! 2

i guess its not really fighting but sort of. my two year old is constantly hitting and pushing her little brother, who is one. She has always been nice to him, until recently. What do i need to do to get her to leave him alone?

2007-02-12 10:48:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

A nuclear family is a family that has two joined parents, and their children.

2007-02-12 10:46:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

she keeps reading my emails. my mom just lets her. what should i do?

2007-02-12 10:13:07 · 15 answers · asked by ohh babyyy 2

also she does do them on her own!!!

2007-02-12 10:02:18 · 3 answers · asked by ladysosureone 6