Family - February 2007

I had a child with a girlfiend 3 years ago. She packed up and left to another state without my knowlege. She does not contact me or send me photos. i have tried contacting her, but she will not talk to me. She will not talk to my family. Nothing! I am paying child support right now, and i am wondering is it wrong of me to sign over my rights so she can go on and live her life? and how do i go about signing over my parental rights?? i could really use the help here

2007-02-13 04:14:10 · 19 answers · asked by gar_cia_love 1

i was told (get this ) by my fiance that i am not a good father or a real man ? but about a week ago and way before that she said that i was a great father and she also wanted to have a child with me, does that make sense ? all this started on monday when she called to tell me that i should apoligze to her because i sad that monday was not a holiday and she said it was and i said who cares it's not something to call me at work to tell me, then she say that a real man will apoligze and take blame and i am not a role modle for mey 10year old son oh yea she is 33 and i am 37

2007-02-13 04:13:50 · 7 answers · asked by GRUNT 3

ok sunday me and my guy was on the phone and he was with his cousin and now i can't stand him so i was like greg don't do nothing stupid his cousin in the background talkin about damn if you don't trust the man you need to break up with him so greg started laughin so i was lik what you laugh at and he was like nothin so his cousin started talkin low in the background so i was like richard talkin about me and he was lik no girl and he started yelling at me and hung up in my face.......

2007-02-13 04:08:44 · 12 answers · asked by zorin l 2

2007-02-13 04:06:23 · 20 answers · asked by big_scary_black_man_for_you 1

I dont know what she is doing with that hotdog but i end up buying 4 packs by the end of the week!

2007-02-13 04:06:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-13 04:00:47 · 8 answers · asked by mari 1

2007-02-13 03:59:36 · 8 answers · asked by Joe K 2

I'm 32 and he's 36, not like we're kids, but they are conservative Catholics and very pro-marriage. I believe in marriage, but I also believe that living together is a good way to find out if it's for me. I love my boyfriend very much and it feels right. My boyfriend feels the same way.

2007-02-13 03:46:50 · 12 answers · asked by Ailama 1

I am now 31 years old and have hired just about every detective that is affordable and have even tried the net detective and intellius on the web. I have run out of ideas. I know her name birthdate and last know address but nothing seems to be coming up. If anyone has any ideas what else I can try please let me know.....PLEASE!!!!!! This is for medical purposes.........

2007-02-13 03:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by frances Colvin 1

My new relationship was well overdue. My lifelong friends waited 2 years to intoduce me to him. We hit it off and have had some very nice times together over the past 9 months. Ive met with the son a few times. Its awful when his son is rude to his father, calls him names, refuses to go places, enguages in property distruction, etc. I lose a bit of respect for Dad everytime I see his son treat him so and he does nothing about it. Please advise.

2007-02-13 03:16:25 · 7 answers · asked by LA G 1

OK...my sister in law Ginny is married to my brother Rolly. ok they have been married for about 5yrs now. they move to a house which is like right infront of mine. (yeah...neighbors) ok then i got another brother Luis.(nickname Guayo) ok me and some other family members have notice some weird things going on between Ginny and Luis. (HIS BROTHER:S WIFE). i've notice many things when i see them together and i can almost promise you that there is something going on . Ginny has two kids. I sometimes feel like telling Rolly what I think but what if they deny it and im going to seem like i want rolly and ginny seperated and all . i need some advice on what to do. i dont think its right what they are doing (Oh AND LET ME TELL U SOMETHING ELSE...LUIS MADE A TATTOO ON HIS ARM....AND HAS A INITIAL OF 'G' GINNY OR GUAYO....I ASKED HIM WHAT THE 'G' MEANT AND HE SAID IT WAS FOR GUAYO.. I DONT BELIEVE THAT BUT THATS WHAT HE SAID... HELP ME PLZ! I CANT LET THEM DO THAT TO ROLLY!!!!

2007-02-13 03:11:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He thinks it is my job alone to take care of the housework. He tells me that none of the kids he knows do as much or are expected to do as much as he is. I just basically want him to make his bed before he goes to school, toss his laundry in the hamper, help load the dishwasher after dinner. I really don't think it's asking a lot. There was a 3 day discussion over my 'Chores' list, not with me, but between my husband and stepson. I don't believe my husband ever had to do anything around the house when he was a kid, so it's all pretty foreign to him too. He does think he should help out more, but he thinks I should be the 'enforcer'. He just doesn't have time for it. Anyway I was just wondering if I'm expecting too much from my stepson, is there some kind of reward system I should try? Does anyone have any ideas? I'm a first time stepmom, I have no kids of my own, and I really don't want to be too hard on him. I don't want him to grow up and look back on his youth with anger.

2007-02-13 03:10:20 · 6 answers · asked by softhearttoo 1

i know that sounds ridiculous, but it's true.
she's not even sick or anything but i always wonder what would happen to me if she died, how i'd never get over it, and how much i love her, and all that.
i hate it when i fight with her and i try to help her out around the house and i try to get a good grade to keep her happy, but sometimes i just get tired of all of it. like sometimes, i just want to go out and have fun and not feel guilty (like i always do).
i hate leaving my mom alone at my house and since my brother left for college already, i usually stay home with her, not because she's lonely or anything but i figure she'd like the company.

and.... i don't know, it's just... i feel guilty if i get the slightest bad grade, or do something even remotely bad, and sometimes i feel as if that ties me up...

2007-02-13 03:07:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like my husband's father looks at my chest just a little too much. And he tells me I look sexy and I don't like it. I can't tell my husband cuz he'll probably think I'm being paranoid but it's true! Has this happened to anyone else?

2007-02-13 03:07:09 · 7 answers · asked by Smiles 4

I work with my family. My boss is generally great person. Very generous but when he is angry, he cannot hold it. There will be strong wordings that make people around him feel inferior or stupid. We love working with him but resenting him at the same time. I confront him many times, and he always apologizes and them do it again. I will change job for sure. But for now, how should I handle my distorting emotion?

2007-02-13 03:02:15 · 3 answers · asked by noclue 1

i`m not.
i have 2 brothers
and 2 sisters

my 2 bro's are Matthew and John.
My sister's are Lindsey And Nicole.
Nicole is my identical twin sis.

do you get along w/ your sibs?

2007-02-13 03:01:18 · 21 answers · asked by sara-lynn h 1

2007-02-13 03:01:10 · 17 answers · asked by clare d 1

Cross posted.
I really need advice. I didnt want to expose my personal life but I feel I have to at this point.
I love my son. I have always tried to guide him and love him best I could.
Somethings wrong. He is failing out of school. His grades were never perfect but never this bad. He has been late more than 10 times for school this year. Now I am finding "dirty" words written on his notebooks.
I recieved a call from the principal yesterday. He said my son drew a very dirty picture on his desk! It was a picture of his teacher doing obscene things.
I took away his gameboy etc. I made him write an apology letter to the principal and teacher. I also made him write 10 pages of "Im sorry for drawing an innapropriate picture."
I have tried to ask him if there is something else wrong and he says no. Im so sad about this.

2007-02-13 02:59:18 · 8 answers · asked by rybo510 4

I feel crazy even writing this but I need to know. My boyfriend and I live together and every night we have his son until around 11pm. My boyfriend has told me that his son told his mother that he see's a ghost in my house. Now his little boy is 3 so i hope he's lying! So he tells her that he sees him and even knows his name. Can anyone suggest what I do. I don't want him to be scared in my house and I sure don't want to be either. Does anyone know of a place online where I can find out the history of my neighborhood and house.

2007-02-13 02:57:39 · 11 answers · asked by lovebnjenn 2

Im still 16, but I will turn 17 in a few months. I dont know what to do in my life. Im dedicated to my boyfriend and want to live with him. We both feel strongly for each other, but what should I do? He lives in KY, and I live in Cali.

My mom's 3 brothers died recently, and 5 days after 1 of the recent ones died, her mother dies-my grandma- she's been a wreck, and is planning to sell her house in mexico, where her mother died. She planned to move to mex. when I graduated. Now she wants to stay in cali. Should I stay living with her or move out with my BF? And where should we go? His home, or closer to mine? I dont want to feel like Im abandoning her like she feels what my sister did when she moved with her husband. If I move, my mom would be alone living with my younger brother, but 2 years later, he might move. Maybe in time I will know, but any comments or suggestions? My mom doesnt know I am dating (2 years w/), but he did know my BF for a while before she started disliking him.

2007-02-13 02:43:21 · 4 answers · asked by ThexSilentxOnex 2

Ok I am 20 years old and Im living with my parents due to the fact that I am going through a divorce and they invited me to live with them when I told them I was leaving my husband. They had expectations when I moved in like dont go out and have sex/ repeat the same mistake I did with my ex and to get my license and GED. Im working on my driving classes and I got my GED I met a really great guy and we are not having sex. Although now my father is upset with because I come in late. I let them know where I am at so I dont see the problem. I understand they have rules for their house like me helping me clean and not leaving them worried all night. I understand I have issues with the custody of my child and thats another story I wont go into. Its a social injustices to put it bluntly though. Any how I just feel that Im 20 years old and if I stay out late and spend the night thats my deceision Im not going out and doing drugs and having sex wether or not thats hard for other people......

2007-02-13 02:40:00 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1

Is it true if one takes guardianship (not foster parent) over their nephew that the state will pay them a monthly amount to take care of the child? My sister-in-law was appointed guardian for her nephew and because they can't find the real mother to pay support for him, she thinks the state is going to pay $400/ month to her in leiu of parental support. We are in Michigan. Is this true?

2007-02-13 02:21:25 · 2 answers · asked by Tink 5

My half-sister, his child, because she was very young at the time, and because he never abused her, doesn't seem to want to acknowledge to me and my biological sister that these things actually happend. She says, " Why do you want to live in the past?" and "That has nothing to do with me, I wasn't there when those things happened, so it doesn't affect me." Am I right in being shocked by her attitude of non-chalance? I just can't seem to get past her attitude that it doesn't matter to her.

2007-02-13 02:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by motorhead 1

I hate him. I seriously do sometimes. I don't know what to do. He is younger(11) and im 13. HE gets me SO mad. My mom ALWAYS takes his side for everything. He will be watching tv and if i say 1 word he yells and my mom will be like "why do u always annoy him he was being perfect till you came down" blah blah and i get so mad. My 1 wish is for him either to just leave me alone. He makes my life so miserable. I can't wait till i go to college but im only in 8th grade. He is the worst brother. I know it's harsh bit is TRUE! PLEASE help me!! and i've already tried talking to him. he doesn't liSten. he just does whatever he want and doesn't care. I try just never talking to him again but that doesn't word and i have talked to my mom about it and she will say "well if anytime he is being annoying tell me" but when i do she won't do anything. PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME. i feel like he is ruining my life...... i'm like crying now and i need help

2007-02-13 02:10:58 · 4 answers · asked by Heyhey 5

someone who has to have the attention on them at all times and will do anything to get it off someone else what is a good word or nick name?

2007-02-13 01:49:26 · 10 answers · asked by samwise25 4

2007-02-13 01:46:36 · 6 answers · asked by kjphillips_hines 1

ok i have loads of gay friends but when my sister asked me if i had gay son how would i feel.. and honestly i was up set??? but i have no problem with gay people i go on gay march and parades.... how can i over come this feeling

2007-02-13 01:35:35 · 4 answers · asked by mickie1108 3

2007-02-13 01:27:55 · 37 answers · asked by davidwilson1954 1

My son is 23 years old and is doing pretty well, and Ive been a single mother all my life raising a 15 yr old daughter and Im having some financial difficulties. I have a bill coming up that I cant pay and I thought of asking him to mail me a loan...I just have a conscience that tells me thats wrong. Parents shouldnt borrow money from their kids, it should be the other way around. Im so confused. What do you think?

2007-02-13 01:16:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

well when i got to know that im pregnant for almost 2 months i dont have the strength to tell with the guy about it coz i know he will let me to loose my baby and i dont want it to loose it.... i know its hard for the child to grew without a father but i dont think the father of my child is worth it thats why i did not tell him that we had a child... do you think im wrong with my decision???

2007-02-13 01:14:44 · 9 answers · asked by trendadeek 1