I work with my family. My boss is generally great person. Very generous but when he is angry, he cannot hold it. There will be strong wordings that make people around him feel inferior or stupid. We love working with him but resenting him at the same time. I confront him many times, and he always apologizes and them do it again. I will change job for sure. But for now, how should I handle my distorting emotion?
2007-02-13 03:02:15 · 3 answers · asked by noclue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it's not your "distorting emotion" it is him. Tell him that he needs to get a grip on his emotional outbursts , like when he feels anger coming on to GET OUT OF THERE AND TAKE A WALK AND COOL OFF. AND NOT TO COME BACK UNTIL HE IS REASONABLE AGAIN.
Tell him also that if he doesn't find better ways to cope that you will leave the business and take your skills and talent somewhere else. Then follow through and don't let him get away with it any more.
2007-02-13 03:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not specify if, your boss is your Dad, or another family member.If it your father, there is nothing you can do, except walk away and let him get the anger out of his system. but, if it is another sibling of yours, than tell him that if he does not control his anger, that you will not be able to tolerate the way he belittles the people he works with, including his Family. Do not tell him that you are going to look for another job, because there is going to be a rift in the Family and that would cause more problems for all of you. I hope that you can find a solution to this problem, and if you think another job will be better than this one, then go for it. I wish you lots of luck.
2007-02-13 03:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Slap him!
2007-02-13 03:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋