ok i have loads of gay friends but when my sister asked me if i had gay son how would i feel.. and honestly i was up set??? but i have no problem with gay people i go on gay march and parades.... how can i over come this feeling
2007-02-13 01:35:35 · 4 answers · asked by mickie1108 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all, You have compassion for Gay Individuals and they do make great friends BTW, I have a couple myself that I worked with. I try never to judge anyone, because I would not like being Judged. You probably feel this way because you know if you had a Son that was gay, he would have a hard road to travel and you do not want him hurt by his sexual preference. I can understand that, I would feel the same way.If anyone ask you about it just be honest and say I would not want my son to be hurt by Societys feelings on the Subject, but I would still Love him unconditionally...
2007-02-13 01:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No need to because you or your children have absolutely no control over who may or may not be gay. If you have a baby there is always a 10% chance that he or she will be gay. If you have concerns that you may not be able to accept this, then you should make sure you never have a baby till this issue is resolved.
2007-02-13 01:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own adventure, i think of that's incredibly basic for individuals to blame themselves. in case you have been uncovered to the assumption the being gay is incorrect, that's favourite to sense the would desire to blame your self once you detect your new child is gay. in case you study to alter into greater open minded, you would be able to comprehend being gay isn't the top of the worldwide and your new child can nonetheless improve up and alter right into a efficient member of society. it fairly is a common subject. that's ok to assert you would be able to desire to technique this, it shows which you're human and you're taking you realtionship and your destiny heavily. I do wish that throughout a pair of days you will comprehend that your resposibility to toddlers, gay or no longer, and as a solid determine is to love them, accpet them, take care of them and combat like hell for them. BTW, it additionally feels like your boyfriend is a keeper :-)
2016-11-03 08:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider your hypocrasy.
You know that being gay isn't a choice, and you should accept your son or daughter for who they are.
2007-02-13 01:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by substance_of_desire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋