Im still 16, but I will turn 17 in a few months. I dont know what to do in my life. Im dedicated to my boyfriend and want to live with him. We both feel strongly for each other, but what should I do? He lives in KY, and I live in Cali.
My mom's 3 brothers died recently, and 5 days after 1 of the recent ones died, her mother dies-my grandma- she's been a wreck, and is planning to sell her house in mexico, where her mother died. She planned to move to mex. when I graduated. Now she wants to stay in cali. Should I stay living with her or move out with my BF? And where should we go? His home, or closer to mine? I dont want to feel like Im abandoning her like she feels what my sister did when she moved with her husband. If I move, my mom would be alone living with my younger brother, but 2 years later, he might move. Maybe in time I will know, but any comments or suggestions? My mom doesnt know I am dating (2 years w/), but he did know my BF for a while before she started disliking him.
2007-02-13 02:43:21 · 4 answers · asked by ThexSilentxOnex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to do whats right for you. As a older person talking here, I don't think it's wise of you to go live with a man. You will be only 18 if you did go live with your boyfriend. And how old is your boyfriend? If he the same age or a few years older, were do you plan on living with this guy at. Doe's he have a job is he going to support you until you can get a job do you plan on going to collage or a trade school. You don't want to end up pregnant in have it hard to make ends meet. Your young. Don't waste your life. And your not your mothers keeper. Everyone has to move away from there parents someday. But at the same time if it's going to benefit you to stay with your mom I see know harm in it. You need to stop worry about your boyfriend in think about your future. And this boyfriend of yours is he a good guy. I mean does he take care responsibly if he not you would be making a big mistake. read ten stupid things women do to mess up their lives by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger. I think it would help you.
2007-02-13 03:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie I feel so bad for you. Sounds like you are having a rough time. I would think very carefully about moving in with your boyfriend. You need to plan for your future so that you can be secure and independant in the event things don't end up working out with him. This doesn't mean that you still can't see him and be committed to each other. Just give it time before you start settling in. I made that mistake a long time ago. Wish I had been established on my own instead of seeking my security in a relationship. Good luck with everything.
2007-02-13 02:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by kayaress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you still have some time go figure those things out. Don't dwell on them to much and just let things take their course. Maybe in 6 months things will be more clear and then you can sit down with you mom and tell her the truth about whats going on and see how she feels. Your old enough now where you need to really reinforce your bond with your mom and you do that by sharing what you hopes, dreams, and feeling are.
2007-02-13 02:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 08:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋