Family - February 2007

My Brothers Torment me and i wanna get my old life back before they moved back home!!! They both Drive and are asleep when i get up for school but one of them is a light sleeper and isn't home on the weekends so that leaves the hevie Sleep alone!!!!and i just want a lot of pranks i could PUll with out the trouble fro my parents!!! My Brothers are 17 and 19 (the 19 year old is the light sleeper)I NEED HELP!!! PLZ

2007-02-13 08:22:28 · 14 answers · asked by DUH ME 1

Do u think it is time to tell my brother to get his life together?
my brother is 33 yearsold still in university dosent go to classes skips to go out partying with his friends and dosent do his home work isint it about time i tell him look dude u need to get ur self figured out he has failed so many programs and all he dose keeps on takieng them to saty in school

2007-02-13 08:15:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cousin is always tormenting me whenever i am around her. holidays, family get-togethers, family reunions, even funerals! she just won't let up! and whenever i try to tell my mother about it, she always tells me "she isn't thinking about you," or "you're just mad because she graduated from college," or "she's just playing with you," or "you just take things too seriously, she's just trying to have some personality, and just because you don't have any, you get all offended," or "you're just mad because she doesn't pay you any attention." is it me, or is there something wrong with this picture? my own MOTHER, of all people, doesn't even try to help me when I'm down. why does she do this and what should I do?

2007-02-13 08:12:49 · 6 answers · asked by Yvette S 1

Im 11.

2007-02-13 08:07:15 · 11 answers · asked by v l 2

The viewing of my father's body is going to be on Thursday from 12pm until 6pm. I am not sure what the procedure is. We have no other relatives here in this state, a few of my friends and church members may stop by for thew viewing. My question is, am I supposed to sit their with the body for the entire 6 hours to greet people? Or do I just stay for a little while and then leave? Help please I am going through this all alone. My dad was the only relative I had in this state and now he is gone. I just want to bury him with dignity and respect.

2007-02-13 07:48:01 · 6 answers · asked by joyce 5

The title is a little misleading, tried to think of a way to re-word it but couldn't. I received the phone call this morning from the hospital saying my grandfather passed away. At that time I was sad about it, I went back to sleep and when I woke up I didn't feel it so much anymore, even when I first heard the news I had felt a sense of.. accepting, knowing he was going to pass away soon. Now i'm more accepting of it, he himself said he had lived a full life and i'm happy he did, dying at the ripe age of 76 he experienced many more thing then I might ever in my lifetime. So my question is, is it normal to be so accepting of the loss of a family member so soon? I heard there are 5 or 7 stages of mourning, but I feel I haven't gone through those and just went straight to acceptance.

2007-02-13 07:46:24 · 16 answers · asked by Zenyth Fox 2

And how is this going to affect the future?

2007-02-13 07:45:37 · 20 answers · asked by Tess 3

my aunt who just had a baby was just told she has canser so wat happens to the baby and my cusin vinny who is only 12 and has been in and out of corectional fociliteys his life

2007-02-13 07:31:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean you know how twins are, right? You feel what your twin feels! It's like I just wanna step into her shoes and carry all the load from her, take it off her shoulder and put it on mine! I care about her so much and I love her.

PS
Why isn't anyone answering my question about my sister's guilt-trip feelings?! Please, people! Look it up! I need lots and lots of answers and my sis needs 'em too!

2007-02-13 07:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have planned all week to go tonight and pick up the rest of my wife's Vaentine's Day gift, but I'm laid up with the stomach flu. I already have something for her, but not everything I wanted to get. Should I brave the elements and go shopping or will she understand. I really feel super-rotten.

2007-02-13 07:22:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-13 07:13:43 · 7 answers · asked by Fran 1

my daughters father has never paid child support, and never even got her anything. she is 4 and will be 5 in aug. He hasnt seen her in over a year and before he would only come visit her when he wanted sex from me. But i have cut him off from the sex and he hasnt came back around I even asked him to get her something for xmas last year of 05and he said he would if he had the money. I found out after my son passed away that he paid for himself and 4 of his friends to go to a slip knot consert which was 25.00 for each ticket, and he also got himself and those 4people hits of ectasy at 50.00 a pill that was right before xmas of 05, I was mad he couldnt even buy her a colouring book and crayons you know. he always has money to party but never for her I have the papers filled out I just havent turned them in . What do u think I should do. also I dont mind raising her own my own I can offord too I just dont feel its fair for her or me

2007-02-13 07:11:13 · 15 answers · asked by 2WOLVES 2

2007-02-13 07:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

to do. My eldest son does quite a bit around the house. when no one is peeking i tend to sometimes slip him some extra cash. my mom says this is unfair to the other kids He sometimes does work for others usually family (like my mom) that promise to pay him then they don't. what do you think?

2007-02-13 07:04:16 · 7 answers · asked by diamondback 1

i feed him and i pay the bills. but he pay his mother and brother bills and buys food for then .what should i do.

2007-02-13 06:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by Mama 2

What else can you do as a parent to get your child to listen and follow the rules that you set for them?

We have tried everything. we don't believe in spoiling him rotten and we don't allow him to run the street. we are strict, but not to strict.

2007-02-13 06:52:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When our daughter was born, my wife slept with her in a twin bed in a room I had decorated for the baby. My wife said, "This is the Filipino way" (I am not Filipino; she is.) I asked her how long this would go on. She said, "Until she is 5 or 5-1/2." When she became 5-1/2 the same practice continued. So in anger I moved out of the master bedroom into my daughter's room and took down the decorations, and put the decorations in the master bedroom. So I slept in a twin bed in my daughter's room, and our daughter got to sleep on our queen size with my wife in a twin bed pushed next to the queen. This lasted for 3 to 3-1/2 years. In January 2005 my wife moved our queen size into our daughter's room . I thought she had a change of heart, but it only lasted six months. Since then she spends a couple of months with me and then always has some reason to go back and spend a couple of months with our daughter. I'm angry with this and now don't want her back in the room. What is going on here?

2007-02-13 06:42:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am with my sister and my brother just looking at the T V.

2007-02-13 06:24:09 · 8 answers · asked by Alice 3

I allowed my sister and her family (husband and 2 children) to live with me for a period of 6-8 months. it is now going on 3 months but she is now kinda getting on my nerves. She has a completely different way of raising her children from me, she is always in a bad mood when i come home from work, her children eat everything in the house (nothing lasts), and i feel like i have no privacy. She says she wanted to live with me to save money to buy herself a house, but i constantly see her buying stuff for her children. Is it wrong of me to want her to move out already? Or should i wait it out? Or maybe talk to her about the whole living arrangement?

Please help me.....

2007-02-13 06:18:14 · 14 answers · asked by Jacinda 2

Give me an idea on a story to right

2007-02-13 06:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by Crissiek 1

I recently turned 18 on the the 10th Feb. I have been with the DYFS system for 1 year, after the death of my mother. I'm planning on going to Holland on the 15th Feb (Thursday). Is there any way that DYFS can prevent me from signing myself out, as I'm already an adult? I have a plan of where I'm going to live, etc. I've heard that they have to stay with you until you graduate from high school - is this true?

2007-02-13 05:54:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ground my kid's to thier room if they fall below c in any class. I am wondering if I am doing the right thing. I dont want to enable them to fail. All I ask is that they get c (the average) or better in school. Our school has all their info online for us as parent's to check. We can tell if they are late or skip, what assingment's they have missing or didnt do. I check these thing's every day to make sure they are being responsible in school. Iwould like other's input if this system seem's to harsh. Thank you in advance!

2007-02-13 05:39:53 · 19 answers · asked by The Angry Dutchman 3

I live in SW Oklahoma and I am looking to date a single Dad. I have a 2 year-old daughter and would like more children. I am not interested in staying single because I need to get on with my life. I am not sure about relocating.

2007-02-13 05:36:26 · 10 answers · asked by stella b 3

2007-02-13 05:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by mayo 2

i have a child who loves games ie gft san andreas and sims 2 but is not allowed to have pocket money unless she does chores is there an easy way to get her ajusted to doing chores without just plain shouting because if you shout it doesnt help she just gets stroppy and holds a grudge i cant take away her toffee seen as she is a teenager has anyone got any good ideas ???

2007-02-13 05:18:16 · 3 answers · asked by lost_game_sims_glamour_life 1

tell what are the advantages and disadvantages

2007-02-13 05:01:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-13 04:47:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it normal for my 38 year old husband to speak to his mother at least once a day? Sometimes even FIVE times a day?

2007-02-13 04:40:49 · 20 answers · asked by Caryn L 1

This is about my relationship with my next door neighbors. They never want to park their vehicles in front of their own property. Even if only one of their cars is there (i.e, their driveway and front of their property is not taken by cars) they make a point to park their car in front of my property.

Check this out-- I've caught them waiting to see if no cars are in my driveway (which would seem to indicate nobody is home) and then they scurry out to move their car from their own driveway to park in front of my house! As if they are doing it on the sly! Now, it's not like they need their driveway for any purpose where it has to be cleared and why don't they park in front of their own house.

Snow season is here and last year they had parked in front of my house and shoveled snow onto my property which my family had to shovel again... in order to get their car out from our property.

Why would someone do this and how would you address this with your neighbor? Best answer 10 pts

2007-02-13 04:27:28 · 22 answers · asked by Jebbie 7

We are dealing with a situation where my 40 yr. old uncle lives in my grandma's basement and is strung out on cocaine and can't get a job. It's been a problem for almost 3 years now. We have confronted my grandma on the issue but she refuses to admit that there is a problem or believe that he is on drugs. She just thinks he is still hurting form his divorce and that she needs to be there for him. We can't even make her understand the legal side of allowing him to do drugs in her home. She wants to take my children for the weekend and I just cannot allow them to be in a home where drugs are present. I know it's going to upset her and hurt her feelings. But I want her to understand that as long as she is allowing drugs into her home, than she will not have my children over there. Their safety and welfare is far more important than her sons issues. How can I explain this to her and make her understand the severity of the issue?

2007-02-13 04:16:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous