Family - February 2007

2007-02-13 01:06:57 · 1 answers · asked by Donz 1

My mother and me seemed to be very close until I turned 16 and she married a new man, who despised me and made up lies about me. When I was 18, I graduated HS and her mom got sick. So I moved in with my granny (we have been close my whole life) to help take care of her (she lost her arm and was put on a vent) and papa helped me get into college. Since then, 4 1/2 years, my mother has not called me ONCE. -not even on my birthday- She didn't even come to my college graduation, just because it was a long drive or something. (But I drove it numerous times to help take care of my siblings.) I don't do drugs, I drink maybe 1 margarita a month, and I am now a certified teacher in the state of Texas. I have done something good with my life, I have good friends and I have a good heart. So, why does she hate me? Why won't she call me? And then to top it all off she just told my grandmother last night that she doesn't regret it and that I have nothing to give her. ....so....why?

2007-02-13 00:59:49 · 32 answers · asked by txteachergal 2

2007-02-13 00:52:11 · 12 answers · asked by italianbabs 1

We have custody of my husband's 2 nephews. The boys are 7 and 9 years old. They get overnight visits with their mother and we found out yesterday that she allows them to play Grand Theft Auto while they are there. She has told them not to tell us that she lets them play that game. I know it's not a game for a child of any age to play and I know a few things about the game. Before I confront the mother with her choice of allowing them to play that game I want some more information from someone who has played the game. What kind of inappropriate things take place in the game?

2007-02-13 00:49:42 · 7 answers · asked by zil28ennov 6

If she would only live 6 months would you take on the responsibility or expect another family member to?It's a heart wrenching job.

2007-02-13 00:46:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my grandma paseted away march 12, 2006 and it's been hard on me ever since then

2007-02-13 00:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by Star 1

hi friends i am house wife and i want to ask that how can i contribute in my family .how to start.

2007-02-12 23:41:11 · 7 answers · asked by pooshpalal 1

(on the other side of the case) i just kindly need to know the effects on the child if a single parent, in this case, only a father, is the only one taking care of his child.

2007-02-12 23:32:39 · 4 answers · asked by krisia 2

Im very close to my cousins, they're like my sisters.
The younger sister confessed to me that she slept with the older sister's ex husband.
They were split up at the time, and still are.
I had promised not to tell, should I have told the older sister.
She now knows the truth and thinks I should have done something more. She is filing for divorce...I know she's extremely hurt.

2007-02-12 23:13:13 · 11 answers · asked by Roma 2

The father of the child is not registered on the birth certificate. Please only answer this if you reside in England, United Kingdom. Thank you.

2007-02-12 23:05:24 · 7 answers · asked by Ridgmonthome 2

My father had a son from a previous marriage. His ex wife had a daughter. Both of us are half sisters to our common older half brother. What is the relationship if any we have to each other.

2007-02-12 22:33:45 · 7 answers · asked by sabrina 1

my boyfriends parents and his whole family dose not like me but we love each very much and are planning to get married in a year or two so how do we get through this i would like a more christian perspective. any wise advice ?

2007-02-12 22:29:36 · 8 answers · asked by Milana 3

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2007-02-12 22:29:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just by looking at me you couldn't possibly tell how messed up my life has really been. I'm aware and i dont blame anyone but myself for the way things are for me. The thing is that i was very inexperienced while i made most of the dumb decissions i did and now because of my lack of skills needed to raise children 2 of my 3 are almost worse than me. HELP Me i never intended it to be this way! Huh and they say its never too late

2007-02-12 22:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I also have 3 teenage children its worse than what most can imagine. I really need some help cause no-matter how hard i try things for us never get better. Please i need serious help i feel ao much like a failure which of course makes my life so painfully miseriable

2007-02-12 22:14:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My half-brother and i were orphaned at a young age. He's been so good to me, making sure i was still happy despite what happened. Our relatives never took us with them... maybe because we don't have anything to offer. We lived fair enough on our own. But he left me. For six years I pretended that he was dead. I know he's not. I saw him a lot of times but he kept denying me in front of his new crowd and his "sister". He saw me last week and he said he was sorry. I don't know if I should forgive him or not. I miss him but after all the things he did, I just don't know what to do anymore.

2007-02-12 22:07:23 · 9 answers · asked by Reiji 1

2007-02-12 22:06:32 · 4 answers · asked by Ridgmonthome 2

2007-02-12 21:46:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-12 21:30:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find that most of mine are made when I am sitting there in peace and quiet and have time to think.

2007-02-12 21:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by Dustbowl Blues 3

I left home 12 years ago and don't see why I should have to keep taking part in this daft ritual. It was different when I was akid and relied on Mum and Dad for everything, but now I don't. they have birthdays and Christmas isn't that enough?

2007-02-12 21:01:32 · 15 answers · asked by Dustbowl Blues 3

im soo confuse..dunno what is happening

A-24 y.o=my girlfriend since 8 yrs ago; hot tempered,always mad at me, expect me to be perfect, put all her problems to me, nag all the time, hurt my feeling everytime, always fight, ego,abuse me emotionally, disrespectful, dominant, already discuss abt this.
however; she is matured, confident, treat me good when she's in the mood, firm,love me

B- 23y.o=another girl who comes to my life 3 mnths ago; bit childish-always cheerfully like a little girl, not firm in decision,
however, she seems to really understands me, accept me as i am, charming, cute, modest-but sometimes too humble, softhearted, love me,

i love them both,
i know i cant live with A as my wife, but i have so much beautiful memories with her, and i still love her.

should i continue with A although im hurt everyday and she become a queen ctrl?
or try new relation? what if im really miss my ex? would the feeling fade away with respect to time?

please help me

2007-02-12 20:12:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

They dont spare me as a newly married girl. I have to take care of my bed ridden mother in law. Cook for the whole family feed the children, wash all the vessels, after that leave for work. & i am always late to work inspite of taking an auto. The elderly ladies just mercilessly leave & go to work in a big organization. Where as me as the youngest just get up to work & after going home too i have to work & work till 11pm or more than that. Its really so sick after marriage. But my hubby is very good to me. As he is the youngest, he is helpless. Now it is 8 months, but still we have not gone for a honeymoon trip. Just looking after their family, & i lost interest to live too. I was so much pampered in my moms house. But here its just opposite. I have to work like a donkey & worst part is i am a veg but in their house they slaughter the sheep in the name of god inside the house only. I feel so bad.& i hate to see that nonveg. But my hubbys elder brother scolds me to go and do the work

2007-02-12 19:59:24 · 16 answers · asked by sujathaprm 2

i know thats young i have lived with rodney for 2 years now in my moms house and my mom and dad is separated please be considerate and im not selfish my mom is the only person i have my dad has hardly ever been there for me please dont be mean to me i just lost my house and other things are wronge plz

2007-02-12 19:44:36 · 8 answers · asked by angelfoever2003 1

Me my hubby and 2 children wish to emigrate to Australia this year my hubby isnt close to his family so hes not concerned but me and my family are really close i have 2 sisters one would be able to visit but not the other and my parents could come over am i being selfish should i just be worrying about whats best for us or take their opinions into consideration?

2007-02-12 19:28:41 · 18 answers · asked by t bird 2

2007-02-12 18:43:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-12 18:16:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-12 18:08:21 · 23 answers · asked by Funk-Ski Biznez Man 4

For starters I'm 25. In my area I've been applying for jobs everywhere in town that I can think of and coming up empty. My life currently where I reside is a total failure. My father offered me the opportunity to live with him while I got on my feet. My mom sees this as throwing away everything she has ever done for me or "sh!ting on her" I personally think that my mom should respect my adult decisions. I'm not going to be living with him that long. A year MAX. Now, am I wrong, but is my mom being childish about this instead of respecting that I'm trying to better myself and get my debts paid off in a year instead of 5-10 years as the original plan I had? I'm not doing it to crap on her, I'm doing it to better myself and be more successful. Why is she so mad? He didn't provide much for me as a child no, but I'm an adult now, why can't she respect my choices in life seeing that I'm an adult?

2007-02-12 18:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by inclinedtodream 1

My mother hasn't been the best mom,when I was 7 years old her brother molested me and she did nothing. She just told me to be quiet and that if I ever speak and my father did something to him and got into trouble it was going to be my fault.Now I'm 32 years old and I still live with that.I try to love her but is to hard.She also used to tell me that I was ugly because I look like my father and not like her. My father past away and now she lives with me. My sisters don't want her even for a visit. I think I'm doing the right thing by taking care of her ,but it is very hard to love her.Any advice will be appreciated.

2007-02-12 17:30:10 · 16 answers · asked by ambershela69 1