My half-brother and i were orphaned at a young age. He's been so good to me, making sure i was still happy despite what happened. Our relatives never took us with them... maybe because we don't have anything to offer. We lived fair enough on our own. But he left me. For six years I pretended that he was dead. I know he's not. I saw him a lot of times but he kept denying me in front of his new crowd and his "sister". He saw me last week and he said he was sorry. I don't know if I should forgive him or not. I miss him but after all the things he did, I just don't know what to do anymore.
2007-02-12 22:07:23 · 9 answers · asked by Reiji 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If he was there for you in the past I think you shoudl forgive him. Maybe he had a lot of stuff on his mind and needed to distance himself from you for some reason you dont understand right now. I would forgive him, but if he starts doing it again confront him about it, then consider not forgiving him. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance -no ones perfect. There might be reasons and stories you havn't heard.
2007-02-12 22:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by trifrog7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he may of hurt you but he is your brother and i think you should forgive him he may of just wanted his own life for a while but than realized what a jerk he was being but i think he deserves a second chance
2007-02-12 22:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by qween B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes forgive him its not bad if u do that. first of all he will be happy and thankful just try if he do that again to you then u should do some step
2007-02-12 22:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , we all make mistakes . u've to forgive him . at da end he's ur brother . it's in ur hand now . u have to say yes from ur heart if u wanna get him back .
2007-02-13 00:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by fAlCoN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe was a reason for him to act the way he did. Talk it out!!!
2007-02-12 22:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can choose your friends but not your family! You should try and talk it out with him and let him know how he made you feel...
2007-02-12 22:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by ryan_thorne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he said he was sorry, he recognizes that he has hurt you in the past and seems to want to make amends. would you want to be forgiven?
2007-02-12 22:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Gruntled Employee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yip - if he's truly sorry, then forgive him, we all make mistakes...
2007-02-12 22:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgiveness = giving up the right to be angry ..........
can you give that up ???.........we ALL make mistakes
2007-02-12 22:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋