my grandma paseted away march 12, 2006 and it's been hard on me ever since then
2007-02-13 00:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I losted my grandma last year too,and i cried a lot because she was unreplaceble like every grandma in the world,the same thing happend to everyone and you need to get over it because your grandma is on better place and she will be forever in your heart
and she will be with you when you need it...
2007-02-13 00:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by Adviser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called grief. It has many stages from sadness all the way to anger. If you were very close to your Grandma it will take a lot of time to heal and feel better. Time to adjust is very important. It doesn't happen easily. Just allow yourself time to work through all the stages of grief and while your going through it try and help others with what you learn.
Best wishes and I am sorry for your loss.
2007-02-13 08:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is grief. Alot of people experience this in one form or another in life. This is what life is all about. Birth and death. It's what's in between that matters. You always have your memories of her, and these thoughts will give you strength. Talking it out with other family members will offer you some relief - it's comforting to surround yourself with family that feel what you feel. After time, you'll be able to think of your Grandma and smile.
2007-02-13 08:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you miss her.... She is probably someone that had a major influence on your life. When my Mom-Mom passed away I felt lost for the longest time and didn't know what to do. I still have days when I sit around and cry because I miss her and she passed away 3 years ago... Chin up... Just remember she is watching over you and in a way she is always with you!!
2007-02-13 08:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you miss her and wish that she was here and you think about her all the time and you can't focus on everything else. I know what it is like my mom passed away Nov 3, 2003 and I am still having a hard time with it.
2007-02-13 08:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by laugh_a_lot2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing someone close in your life affects people in all diffrent ways. And even if your not close you can feel guilty for not being as close as you should of. Your grandma would want you to be happy and get threw this, you and her both no you can. i no how u feel i lost my grandad 5years ago. then i lost my nan 2years ago, and 2days after my nan died my aunty past away.. keep your head up i no its tough but it truley is worth it. BEST OF LUCK :)
2007-02-13 08:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear I know it is extremely hard but just remember that each of us has our own life, the most important thing is to move on and be make your life worthy of living. There is 2 ways to look at it, either to continue to live in a state of depression or to live life positively. The former is certainly a lose-out but the latter is certainly the way to go. :=)
2007-02-13 08:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋