OK...my sister in law Ginny is married to my brother Rolly. ok they have been married for about 5yrs now. they move to a house which is like right infront of mine. (yeah...neighbors) ok then i got another brother Luis.(nickname Guayo) ok me and some other family members have notice some weird things going on between Ginny and Luis. (HIS BROTHER:S WIFE). i've notice many things when i see them together and i can almost promise you that there is something going on . Ginny has two kids. I sometimes feel like telling Rolly what I think but what if they deny it and im going to seem like i want rolly and ginny seperated and all . i need some advice on what to do. i dont think its right what they are doing (Oh AND LET ME TELL U SOMETHING ELSE...LUIS MADE A TATTOO ON HIS ARM....AND HAS A INITIAL OF 'G' GINNY OR GUAYO....I ASKED HIM WHAT THE 'G' MEANT AND HE SAID IT WAS FOR GUAYO.. I DONT BELIEVE THAT BUT THATS WHAT HE SAID... HELP ME PLZ! I CANT LET THEM DO THAT TO ROLLY!!!!
2007-02-13 03:11:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
stay out of their business, you don't KNOW what is happening, you just have suspicions, your interference could very well cause a divorce when nothing is really going on
2007-02-13 03:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by k s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's best to mind your own business, and let Rolly find out on his own. Your family is going to have enough to deal with when your brother finds out that his brother is messing with his wife! All you can really do, is be there for Rolly when everything comes out, and it will come out!
2007-02-13 03:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would keep my mouth shut, Rolly will eventually see what is going on. My sis was cheating on her hubby who I'll call Ned, with his best friend, Neville, and got a tattoo of an N on her stomach. Her husband eventually caught on. Have someone who is not as close to your brothers mention it to Rolly. Or send an anonymous letter. You don't want him mad at you.
2007-02-13 03:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer strikes again......Move out of state and change your name.... Because sh## will happen and one or both kids are wind up being Luis's And then Rolly will be sent to prison for double homicide..
Or do Rolly a fave Kick his @$$....
2007-02-13 03:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by ISSIK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront Luis and Ginny with your suspicions. If that goes no where you may have to talk to Rolly.
2007-02-13 03:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to stay out of that. I know its hard when you see a family member being hurt and betrayed but the fact is its being done by another family member and if your not careful you will turn them both against you. If you feel you have to do something do it secretly. take a picture or get some proof and send it to him but don't say its from you and dont make it look like its from you and under no circumstances do you ever tell it was you
2007-02-13 03:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator...when you get the proof...confront your brother Luis...tell him he needs to fess up with his brother...or you will...Would you want to know?...I would.
Second thought...maybe I would just send the video to Rolly...and stay out of it (not let anyone know you were behind it)...that way when your brother needs you for support...he will be able to lean on you...not feeling you had anything to do with it.
2007-02-13 03:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id say something to ure brother rolly about it. just casually be like he i really care about all of you and i dont want to see n e thing happen between u n ginny but....and then exlpain it all. then just say ure sorry if its true or that u brought it up. good luck
2007-02-13 03:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by ferrari76x 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you interfere your going to be the bad guy. Are you prepared to lose the relationship with your brothers? Be careful. They are grown men so let them handle it. I know it's hard to do when you don't want to see the people you love get hurt. My suggestion is to stay out of it.
2007-02-13 03:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by JENNY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do, except hope that your brother will up his eyes as to what is going on. If you interfer, you will be the bad guy. It's sad to see this happening and know there is nothing you can do.
2007-02-13 03:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋