sori 4 my lang..I GOT maried 2 months back..it ws arrange marriage...in august i met him n he ws all fine wid the way i am..he alwys used to say he wanted a gurl lke me...not typical backward and all..bt after mariage he showed me his true colour..he wud shout and everitime would repeat that m not da gurl he wanted to get maried to..he wil be lke so nice n al in frnt of my family dat everione finks m da baddie n he da goodies...wenever we talk he jst has same story to repeat LKE WE WNT BE HAPI U ARE TO STUBORN N ALL..dats y i jst hate talkin to him..infact bfore mariage he ws lke i knw you dnt luv me bt i wil wait 4ever to mke u luv me n all nice dreams bt after mariage he got really impatient..n smal stupid lil talk he wil jst tel his dad..n his parents wud complain to my parentss..small talk lke DAD SHE DOESNT TEL ME I LOVE YOU..u knw wat i mean..typical petty talk..n he cant fink wid his brain..watever his dad n mum wil say n feed him he wil do..i m too blunt in frnt of everione.
2007-02-12 04:52:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
marge..is MARIAGE...FINK-THINK
2007-02-12 05:04:27 · update #1
he surely frm usa too..no matter hw hard i try to be nice or human it jst doesnt work..i cnt even talk abt friends...god...so i jst listen wenver he calls..i hv lost so muc intrest n i litreally hate him cos he playin games...n yes i m stuborn bt i knw my limit i wnt cry lke baby
2007-02-12 05:09:40 · update #2
get a divorce ASAP.... r u mad to stay wid such a guy....
tell ur parents abt all this....
dont waste ur life's important yrs like this...
u deserve a loving and caring husband....who can understand u and satisfy in all respect....
2007-02-12 05:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
i think u are too confused cos of his activity. be bold enough to face the problem. Dont care about those things. Be cool. Have confideanc ein u that u can do everything. U are independent in ur thought. First u must understand his parents and then u can come out of this problem. IF u understand his parents u can easily understand him. First try to make a place in their hearts which in turn it reflects a good name in his hearts too. Dont compare ur life with others. Going on thinking about the past ll ruin ur present. So think about ur future but u should not fail to enjoy the present. After marriage only we can understand and also we would come to know the true face of our better half. Be bold to face things in ur life. Be confident .
First u must understand his feelings and u must know what he likes and what he dont. I didnt mean that u must like whatever he likes but still for best understanding u must speak frankly what is the reason for his behaviour like this. Then speak frnkly to him what u must do now.
Speak politely. Dont ever lose ur temper cos it is ur life. So handle this situation with more caution.
all the very best.
2007-02-12 13:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by swathika Padman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand I went through all these. It was exactly like ur's. We met in aug n got married in sep. Oh God! i faced this, but I'm able to overcome all these to some extent. We live in USA far from his parents. So he gotta listen to me. I never say anything negative at the moment.Cooking his fav meal. Words that u care. Simple words of appreciation would drive attention. I was a silent observer for many days. He used to beg me to talk n then slowly we r on the right track. Never try to explain to him at first for ur freedom n opinion. Give time ... slowly he'll give attention n care to ur freedom n views. If it still doesn't work out in an year then trash him. u cannot live with a barbarian. Good luck! hoping to hear from u soon.
2007-02-12 13:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Smile- conquers the world 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stubborn? Maybe he can't talk to you without getting mad. Just play nice for a while and his true feelings will show through.
2007-02-12 13:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON FINK THERE CAN BE LOVE BETVEEN 2 PERSONS AFTER ARRANGE MARRAIGE...............I
2007-02-12 13:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please, for the love of God, stay in school and learn to TYPE!!! what is marge? and fink? come on!
2007-02-12 12:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I fink so.....
2007-02-12 14:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋