Say you live in a small house with your mom. If you were a guy (under 18) and your mom had her boyfriend over every weekend to have sex, would it bother you? They are given time alone, but also choose to go at it (making noises) while the son is there. The mother is very crude - - and tells the son he is old enough to know about these things and to get over it. Any suggestions on how to cope?
Going to live with the father is NOT an option.
2007-02-12 03:13:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i feel for you my best advise is find one of your favorite cds and put on headphones
2007-02-12 03:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by kase 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the way you described the situation, it sounds as though you wanted to get caught. If you are still living at home, with someone else paying the rent, you live by their rules. Making out with the door open is just plain stupid. Your virginity is yours to give when you choose. But, you should at least respect your parents enough not to rub their faces in your stupidity & defiance. You also need to grow up. If you can't figure out why your mother is upset, you really are a typical clueless teenager. I hope you at least used some sort of protection against pregnancy. Or would that have ruined the moment too?
2016-03-29 03:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really is know way to cope could he leave when the boyfriend comes over or is the boyfriend always there? Ear plugs? I mean there really isn't much he can do if the mother is being nasty and saying deal with it. She needs to have more respect. Could the boys father talk to the mother about it? If so maybe he should.
2007-02-12 03:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her top shut the uck up..like really How old is the son is he old enough to say that word if so say it. Sometimes you need to amp on people for them to listen to you. And when she says something he can say well " you are old enough to now these things so shut the hell up" Sorry now that the anger is out. I feel as though the mother should be responsible enough to do that. Maybe try talking to the man.
2007-02-12 03:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out for a while, otherwise stay at a friends' or a relatives house if you don't want to hear them have sex! Besides, who would be interested in hearing your mother having sex with her boyfriend? Maybe, the both of them should shove their heads in a pillow so no one can't hear them!
2007-02-12 08:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a lot of really disruptive noise to ruin the mood for them...or just blast some kind of music that you love and they hate...rap usually works well! Then you don't have to hear it and they might realize how annoying that must be!!
2007-02-12 03:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Trevor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either see if he can go and spend the night with a friend or just deal with it, I would never do antyhing like that if my son was home but its her house her rules.
2007-02-12 03:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by CurlySue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur mom is that open find urself a girlfriend to talk to during these times if ur not too young and start getting some too ur mom having all the fun.
2007-02-12 03:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever they are doing that try to arrange to leave the house for a couple of hours and come beakc take ure sn to the movies or somewhere!!
>>>>hope this helps
2007-02-12 03:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by bubblez23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no suggestions but the situation is one of the things people like to sight as incidents and situation that help contribute to the mental state of a serial killer.
2007-02-12 03:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by David M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave the house i would and you could always tape it ( the sound) and play it back to her or bring over a girl for you and tell her to get over it!!! obviously shes old enough!
2007-02-12 03:18:23 · answer #11 · answered by Marley's momma 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋