My Brother And Sister Don't Have Any Money To Buy My Mothers Headstone.
Brother Said He Would Call Me Back After He Looked In his Checkbook That Was 2 weeks Ago.My Sister Has $1200.00 To Pay Credit Counsler But No Money For Headstone.
2007-02-12 04:20:50 · 5 answers · asked by bob r 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Oh Yeah I Paid For It and was Looking To Split It 3 ways
2007-02-12 04:24:42 · update #1
It Bothers Me That My brother has money to take his family to disney land and my sister has money to throw away to credit counselers
2007-02-12 05:33:52 · update #2
Sounds like they dont want to pay at all. You cant reallly make them pay, so maybe ask them straight up if their going to help you, and if no then you know that you paid for your mothers headstone, and go on with your life. Your mother would be proud.
2007-02-12 04:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by alex77055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is paid for and now you are trying to recoup your money.
Before you do anything think of three possible outcomes:
1. Thank you
2. No thank you
3. No comment
With that said, your choice is to be miserable for the rest of yourself worrying about two people who have other agendas or ignore them and move on-believe me if they have any human part of compassion as obviously you do, it will bother them more if you ignore them and do not give them reason to be mad at you without real cause.
2007-02-12 12:39:55 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should have been split 3 ways. i personally would forgive but forget you can't force them to pay up
2007-02-12 13:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my feelings on that are this...all of that is unnecessary....you're dead. if its paid for then let it be. just remember next time when they ask you for money or there is a family obligation.....forgive but don't forget.
2007-02-12 12:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i will commit suicide
2007-02-12 13:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Erik W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋