i just moved away from a town and i hate my step dad( he hates me too). im stuck in my room 24/7 and i cant do anything. any advice?
2007-02-12 04:28:31 · 8 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
im already in counceling and i hate councelors. my stepdad works nights, so he is home when i get there. he wont let me out, and he times me when i get out of skool. my mom is hving probs w him too. and she understands where i am coming from. i hv already been on zoloft, and meds do nothing for me.
2007-02-12 04:39:07 · update #1
Try to get some counseling. Talk to a school official to try to get some help. ask your mother to take you to someone. You can even ask your family doctor.
Being depressed is not fun. Get yourself some help.
2007-02-12 04:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are stuck between a hard place and a rock. Talk to your mom about the situation. Let her know how you are feeling and how badly you feel you are being mistreated by him. If nothing happens try moving in with a grandparent, older sibling, or friend from school. You need to get away, but if you can't find something that can occupy yourself. Something you can focus on that allows you to forget what's going on around you. Drawing, writing, reading, computer games, chatrooms, homework.. Then just bury yourself in that and realize that you don't have to live like this the rest of your life just for now. This will make you a stronger person. You are going to make it! Keep your chin up. You have to make a choice within yourself that you aren't going to let anything get you down. Despite how bad it gets keep smiling and do your best. I know exactly what you are going thru. I've been there. Life is tough, but where you are now isn't forever and soon you will look back and you'll be far from that place you are now. Hang in there. If you need someone to talk to, email me anytime. Good luck and hang in there.
2007-02-13 06:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of your room, that would probably make your step dad uncomfortable. Why should you be stuck in your room all day when he gets the whole house. Get into school activities and keep your self busy afterschool.
2007-02-12 12:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by alex77055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm... if you're THAT depressed you probably need to see a doctor to be put on anti-depressants such as Zoloft or Prozac. If you hate your step dad and vice-versa, than talk to your mother about that. If that doesn't succeed, try talking to your step-father calmly about the problems you have.
2007-02-12 12:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out! Know the new town you may find something interesting and ignore your step-dad! Get off the computer and go out explore new things! Good luck!
2007-02-12 12:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no psychiatrist but I have had to deal with a lot of depression and it had to do with moving and relationships too! For me writing a letter to that person saying why you feel that way or just to yourself about why. [You do not have to give that letter to that person] You may not know why know but you may uncover that in the process.
2007-02-12 12:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by FML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seriously need to get out and get away.. U cant live like that otherwise u will drive yourself crazy..
2007-02-12 12:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and start socializing and meeting people or ur gonna go crazy...
2007-02-12 12:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋