i think i have issues...i think i need anger management...i live abroad from my parnets currently studyin in uni. i never get along with my mother. i feel that my dad is overprotective i.e. he doesnt let me go out clubbing etc without letting him know although he lives in a different country - trying to control every move i make...
even though he supports me financially i also work and make my own money...
i'm always under stress - im a stressful person....even my boyfriend complains....
i dont know what i want in life anymore. i mean i do know that i want to be happy, successful and for my family to be happy and not get stressed about everything. life is short right? and we should make the most out of it coz u never know whats gonna slip away ( either ur own life or someone elses)
can u please comfort me....
what must i do about my dad? i am always stressed under his nose.
2007-02-12 04:25:12 · 7 answers · asked by Betty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Quite possibly your dad is just looking out for your welfare and means well.You will have to assure him that you are responsible enough at your age to make a few decisions on your own. It's most likely that it is difficult for your dad to "let go" Try talking to him about it if you can. Good luck and God speed.
2007-02-12 04:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Don 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you like ten? You are a 19yr old female if you still live in your home and you like going out and having a good time then considering your dad is not there talk to your mother and explain that you like going out and if it is possible so you wont disrespect there house ask her what is a good time to come home. I had this conversation with my father we agreed on 2am. I just moved back in. If you want the freedom of doing whatever the hell you want then move out. I lived on my own for a while and it was wonderful. If you are living away then why the hell do you need there permission for anything just go out and chill. Don't stress yourself out about the little things that's no way to live. Why even tell them you went out, so they can get mad at you, do u like when they do that? Oh and about the mom thing just let her say what she wants and let it go in one ear and out the other. If you take the time to give a crap you'll end up like me and my mom we haven't talked in months trust me when i say you only got one mama and you don't want to lose her. Like i said take it easy! Try taking some time to yourself to relieve the stress. I sit in my room and play my favorite music and if i get really bored i dance like an idiot. It sound weird but hey at least im having a good time making an *** out of myself and there's no one around to judge. Just make sure you lock the door. Like i said take it easy
2007-02-12 12:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole*479 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and it is ok for you to have those feelings. Your parents just do nto want ot see yo make any miss takes that they can prevent you from making and it is hard for them to watch you make them. It is a growing process for you and your parents.
You are not alone-you just have to start saying o.k and look at the positive things you are doing and go from there.
You are 19 and in school -that is positive.
You are concerned enough about your parents to ask for help -that is positive
You recognize that you are stressed-that is positive
You are working and making your own money-that is positive
Just know that your parent love you and there are many young people who would love for their parents to be as involved as yours are
Yo will get through this, just project where you will be in about 5 years to help you get through this today
If you get too stressed out see a counselor ok.
2007-02-12 12:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to seek some sort of help for yourself and u need to confront your dad and tell him to stay out of your business. u are over the age of 18.. U are an adult now.. Its time for u to learn life on your own.. he may think u are still his little girl, but not anymore.
Everyone needs to understand u and how u feel and what it is that u want in life for yourself..
good luck to u and god bless u
2007-02-12 12:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your dad that he needs to trust you.
Tell him that he did really well raising you on how to live and mistakes not to make and he just needs to trust you and let you live your own life.
Some parents are just to afraid to let go.
Just let him know that you will be fine.
2007-02-12 12:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is only doing what he thinks is best for you and thats his job. he doesn't want your life to be short either. just relax....have fun and do your thing but do it with a light heart. good things will come if your heart is light and happy. just take a deep breath and count your blessings.....parents that love you, a job, financial support, a boyfriend that stays, etc.
2007-02-12 12:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by igot_terminal_uniqueness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need help! Talk to a close friend or find a counselor, don't waste you time on this question thing!
2007-02-12 12:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋