Family - January 2007

She is very negative in the past few years and has done some things to really hurt me, and I am just tired of it. She has always been a very selfish and self centered person. Now my sister thinks I should just come out and say my feelings instead of avoiding her. I've tried that in the past but it always blows up in my face. I think sometimes it is just better to keep these things to myself and deal with it internally. My sister sometimes doesn't know when to keep her opinion to herself, so I don't really want to listen to that advice. I just don't want anymore drama in my life. Also, I am expexcting my 2nd child in a few days and now is not a good time to start anything. She made both my sister and I cry when we were in the hospital having our kids and now I am stressed in anticipation of her visit to see us in the hospital. What are your opinions of this situation. I feel if I am direct with my feelings there will be a big blow up.

2007-01-23 07:50:32 · 29 answers · asked by wendygirl1000 2

My dad lives in the south, and i lve in the north. I miss him, but my grandma, which is my part time guardian, won't let him come, but my mom unterstands it's my 8th grade graduation, and he can come , but my grandma hasn't decided yet but i'm sure she'll say no. =(

2007-01-23 07:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by ♥mctrevor♥ 1

i move in whit my sister she told me i could live here as long as i needed to if i wanted to i could live here for ever and know she is saying she well help me get a house i don"t under stand her at all. i gave her money for staying here and i help her out some time by babysitting for her some times.you think she would want me to stay ..

help

2007-01-23 07:40:17 · 7 answers · asked by renee m 1

it may be so weired and embarassing to ask this...

there's been something wrong with the lock of the door of my bedroom. the door was closed but i was just unaware that it wasn't locked properly while i was masturbating there in nude.

i started to make some noise when i nearly organsmed. the door suddendly opened itself (like blown by the wind) while my dad & my brother passed by (i believed it's an accident cuz they're talking to each other while walking by...). at that time all of us just felt so odd & freezed like rocks, looking at each other. i really wanted to die... my legs were wide open with my pus*y facing them. they obviously heard my noise too. it's after a few seconds that i quickly wrapped myself with a blanket & they closed the door. all of us just didn't know how to respond...

that's already embrassing enough. what's even worse was that when i went to the bathroom some minutes later, i found a disposed kleenex with lots of fresh semen...

2007-01-23 07:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by Lorraine YE 2

My family travelled away 4 days ago and aren't coming back for (at least) 3 months. They left me alone, living with my grandma, but I'm so miserable, sad, bored; I miss my baby brother (1 year and 9 months) so much. I've never been away from him more than 3 days and now I'm not going to see him talk and grow and play with him for so long!
I can't feel happy or concentrate on my studies. I'm grateful to my grandma; she's kind and gets me everything I want; but I'm unhappy. I think that since they are all together - with my little brother with them - they can play with him and see him everyday and it's not a big deal to them that I'm not them.
What can I do? I feel left out, lonely and miserable. Only 4 days have passed and I miss him so much from now...I love him out of them all so much. How am I going to pass a whole three months without seeing him?

2007-01-23 07:26:08 · 13 answers · asked by dadda 4

how thinks they can last? i have been with my bf for 3 months and i'd do anything for him, but we live miles apart and he travels every wk to see me. bbut when we did want to move in together, who'd move? its tricky isnt it?

2007-01-23 07:11:37 · 17 answers · asked by tonih81 2

Hi, I'm 14, and I just moved to another country. I came with my mom and younger brother. The thing is, my friends don't e-mail me anymore and so far, my mom is my only friend since I can't talk to anyone else. She was already my friend but lately she is getting all stressed out with the move. I can't tell her anything or she starts accusing me, or worse yelling at me. It's not my fault I have these problems, and she's the only person I know that could help. And now I can't tell her anything anymore. I've gone about two weeks without talking to anyone and I'm almost exploding. What do I do?

2007-01-23 07:02:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

In chemistry I got an 84, which is one point alway from a B...and my teacher won't give it to me. She said that she has done all she could. My question is that...can one C give really good colleges reason to prefer other applicants?

Also, my mom wants me to go to Harvard. Even when I confronted her and she said I can go to any college I want to... I can sense that its something that she wants. I can read the pride in her soul with the thought of me going to Harvard, and she has mentioned Harvard more than once. She was like, "Your Aunt Kim attended Harvard," and, "Harvard is a very good school." Something along those lines.

I said to my mom, "Why would Harvard accept me? I don't get all A's." Her response was, "You get a lot more A's than B's. I would be your honor." I told her that it was too much pressure. On AP Exams, you would have to get a 5 in order to get collge credit; other schools they will accept 4's. She then said, "You don't have to feel pressured. Do your best."

2007-01-23 06:56:16 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany 3

I am 16. My brother is turning 14 in March. My problem is, he still sucks his thumb. Im not kidding. he picls his nose too! He doesnt do this in public, but he does is a LOT when we have famiy over. He does not have a brain disorder, and is very very healthy and athletic.

My parents and I have even dipped his thumb in nail polish remover, pepper (he hates pepper), purfume, vineger, rubbing alcohol......everything.

Is there a way to get my brother to stop? I'm worried that he's going to be embarassed for the rest of his life. (some of his friends found out and laughed at him)

2007-01-23 06:54:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad is oblivious, and i'm older. it's anoying that she gets privaleges i only dream of

2007-01-23 06:43:44 · 12 answers · asked by Sparkle Fairy 1

My boyfriend asked me to marry him, but my dad, last time someone asked me this, he flipped and wouldn't let me near the guy. What should i do? I really want to, but i still live with my father since i'm not anywhere near ready to be on my own. I don't want my family to hate him.

2007-01-23 06:19:23 · 6 answers · asked by Sparkle Fairy 1

hey... my little sis has stolen from me, my family, and friends in the past. im 16 and shes 14. when i went to Hawaii my mum gave me 18 dollars so i could eat at the airport... i also got 20 from my grandmama. its gone now and i cant seem to remember if i spent it.... although im pretty sure i didnt. my sis doesnt have a lot of money cause shes always spending it... however... she seemed to have plenty to spend when she went shopping for herself and her friends for christmas. i know that she spent at least 75 dollars. im afraid to tell my parents because theres really no proof that she did... and shell deny it if she did. any idea of what i should do. it isnt all that much money but im not exactly rich either and every little bit counts. my parents could be missing money and not even know it... same with my older sisters.

2007-01-23 06:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by Kate 5

My eleven year old son recently confided in me that some of his friends are smoking pot. One boy takes it to school with him, and another boys mom actually gives them the pot. Should I tell the police or the school or should I just leave it alone? I just feel like I might lose my sons trust in me......

2007-01-23 06:07:19 · 20 answers · asked by Crystal L 3

I'm 15 and for months I've been resentful of my parents. They don't understand and has some attitudes I didn't like and made me resentful. As though they werre always against me. I ended up hurting them too, said a lot of hurtful things to them. I felt like they were using their parental authority to opress me and for several months I've been cold, distant, refusing their attempts to make up. But I got tired of this situation and after thinking sincerely about what happened I had to agree in many points they were right. Though I said hurtful things to them when I lost my temper, they didn't take a revenge, just got sad. I still think in some points they are wrong and I have reason to be a bit resentful. I regret some of my attitudes. If I get to them, say despite our fights I love them dearly, apologize for my mistakes, break the ice and say I just want to talk, but without fights or accusations, how will they react? I'd like the opinion of parent

2007-01-23 06:04:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

so she can buy a christmas gifts for her kids which is alot of them 300$ for a i pod she called and gave me 200 but still owes 100 i call her left messages yesterday i cused her out on the maessage voice mail anyways i told her iam trying to make a good christmas for her kids and id tell the family what shes done what now how do i get my 100$ without seeing her to get it tell her to mail it etc shes already screwd everyone in the family even her dad even abanden her kids in the past left to LA

2007-01-23 06:02:48 · 4 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

I am almost 19, yet my parents are still very very clingy and attempt to control my life. I know I am not exaggerating as friends, other adults, and even mental health professionals agree that they need to give me space.

I decided not to fly home for a short break we have before the start of the next term, and again they started telling me how inconsiderate I am. How am I supposed to learn to be independent with parents who will not let me do things on my own? For example, I was going to go into town and open a bank account locally and they'd rather come here and do it for me. They also do not trust me to make doctor's appointments.

Anytime I try to get a word in, I am apparently being rude to them. How does one deal with this sort of situation?

2007-01-23 05:40:51 · 13 answers · asked by sunnyd_137 3

Okay Come On, I need to know this it's on my test tomorrow and if i get this question right i get 50 bucks. HELP!!!

2007-01-23 05:31:10 · 17 answers · asked by weston_young_11 1

Me and me niece are very close and I want to get her something meaningful and unique for this great milestone in her life. Any suggestions or ideas??

2007-01-23 05:29:03 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ tinker123♥ 5

okay my dad adopted me when i was 5 and ya know my biological father is well........... we don't know where he is! lol and i mean in a way i want to find him just so that i have a sense of closure i guess! and my adopted father is totally agianst this idea and i mean he is only 28 and i am 14! so i just i don't want him to disown me or anything but yet i don't want to be lost my whole life wondering what "he" was like! and he abused my mother so i don't want to hurt her feelings in the process so i just don't know what am i suppose to do about this!? help me plz and i will be forever greatful! love shelbie

2007-01-23 05:21:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 1yr old daughter her dad and i are not together we broke up b4 i found out i was pregnant.through my pregnancy he wouldn't talk to me he never told his parents til after she was born he never seen her til she was 5 months old. Well his mom invited us to their house for a week and the whole week we were there she told me how i couldn't keep a man and that i had no respect for my body because i had a baby with a man i wasn't married to. She is always telling me how i need to make sure her son gets to see the baby. I try telling her that i offer to take her to see him but he always makes a lame excuse she says that since he is paying childsupport that it is my responisbility to do so. She tells me i never do anything on my own, and how i need to get off my *** and get a job. she makes me feel like crap. i've supported my daughter with no help.i was disabled shortly after she was born so i couldn't work. now everytime she calls now i don't answer am i being childish?

2007-01-23 05:04:57 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

My brother is only 21 years old and his girlfriend constantly talks about wanting to have kids. Well my brother is smart and wants to finish college first and get a job and get married. She is 1 month pregnant, and her roommate told my brother that she stopped taking her birth control in October to get pregnant.

Does he have to pay child support or can he sign away his rights? She wants to have it but why is it the woman's choice to have an abortion or not he should have a say in it. My whole family is so pissed

2007-01-23 04:52:01 · 26 answers · asked by jrawls 2

im getting child support from the father of my son and i have a court order stating he has to enroll our son on his Insurance, its been almost 1 year and till this day he has not paid any medical bills nor enrolled him in his insurance..what can i do..my son has Asthma so im constenlty taking him to the doc about every 2-3 weeks and it gets pretty expensive without insurnace..ANY ADVISE?!?!?

2007-01-23 04:46:10 · 3 answers · asked by Odet 1

Boyfriend has neice. Neice is jealous because he used to spend lots of time with her. Now got me so he can't. She says she hates me and is telling him to chose between us. Should I get involved or keep gob shut and how should boyfriend handle it? Neice is seventeen.

2007-01-23 04:45:35 · 9 answers · asked by TEE S 4

your bruvfa yeah he makes fun out of you coz you wanna buy some La Coste trainer..what would you do??????????i am so pissed

2007-01-23 04:39:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I have a twin sister, and a sister that is 8 years older than us. When my twin and I were 7 years old (we are 25 now) we found our older sister's birth certificate and some other documents - which did not have our dad's name listed as the father. My twin and I kept it a secret all this time because we didn't know if our sister even knew that we had different dads. Since then we have found out (from our older sister) that not only she knows, but every single member of our family & extended family know, and my parents fabricated this huge lie for them to all tell us regarding why they waitied until my older sister was 4 to be married. So, our sister has felt like the big family secret all this time, and everyone in the family thinks that my twin and I do not know. I need help in figuring out how to break it to my parents. We feel like we need to tell them it is ok, we are not mad, but why did they do it. How how how to put it into words??? Pls no mean or hurtful comments.

2007-01-23 04:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by LG 3

My dad died in a tragic car accident and it is really hard to move on. I know where he is (in Heaven) but it's so hard

2007-01-23 04:35:22 · 27 answers · asked by Just me 2

my brother proposed to his gf on xmas. he's 18 and she's 15 and i want to be happy for him but i really don't like her. she's trying to ruin his life. wants him to stop working to spend all of his day with her. he only works 40hrs a week mon-thurs. he has friday saturday and sunday off. she's in school most of the day anyways. he makes really good money which will be a stable foundation for them to get married. should i just drop my grudge against her and be happy for him or do i have the right to feel the way i do?

2007-01-23 04:27:32 · 11 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4

I have lived on my own (well with my boyfriend) for almost 3 years. We lived close to my parents and they always tried to run my life (tell me their opinion about EVERYTHING and expect me to do what they said or thought). I moved away (with my boyfriend) and it got better but now a year later we are moving back and my parents are trying to run my life again. What do I do? (example I told them we were getting a vehicle and they said that we couldn't afford it and it was a bad idea and haven't said anything since as they expect me to listen and not get one but my boyfriend won't be able to get home from work without one as bus doesn't run that late). Any suggestions?

2007-01-23 04:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Nat 1

(Florida) And yes, I know who he is but I don't know where. He lived in the same city as we did for a while and then he moved up to Orlando to live with his dad or his aunt, I'm not sure and he won't tell me or give me an address. My daughter is 14 months now and he never really sees her or even calls. I have never seen a penny from this low life and I just went to the Dept of Revenue 3 1/2 months ago to file for child support. They are just about as slow as a turtle, I gave them his moms address and then he moved so I gave them his dads address and then his dad moved and I also gave then his dads work address because he would be there a lot and nothing. I do not have his aunts address nor his dad new address, I just know he bought a new house in Bayhill. How do I go about tracking this deadbeat down? I even tried saying "hey I need your address so I can sent you pictures of ******" and he said he'd just pick them up when he came down to visit the 7th. He has supervised visitation and

2007-01-23 04:21:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and have a 5 year old son. We werent married when I became pregnant so my whole family calls him a bastard child. They have seen him a few times but never alone due to that and catching them teaching him they were his mommy and daddy as a baby. My question is we are moving from florida to ny and want to know if they have any legal rights to stop us from moving and fight for overnight visitions

2007-01-23 04:07:36 · 11 answers · asked by luckyme1323 1