(Florida) And yes, I know who he is but I don't know where. He lived in the same city as we did for a while and then he moved up to Orlando to live with his dad or his aunt, I'm not sure and he won't tell me or give me an address. My daughter is 14 months now and he never really sees her or even calls. I have never seen a penny from this low life and I just went to the Dept of Revenue 3 1/2 months ago to file for child support. They are just about as slow as a turtle, I gave them his moms address and then he moved so I gave them his dads address and then his dad moved and I also gave then his dads work address because he would be there a lot and nothing. I do not have his aunts address nor his dad new address, I just know he bought a new house in Bayhill. How do I go about tracking this deadbeat down? I even tried saying "hey I need your address so I can sent you pictures of ******" and he said he'd just pick them up when he came down to visit the 7th. He has supervised visitation and
2007-01-23 04:21:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'd figure the agency that he has to go through would have it but they don't or just won't give it to me. I have his social number. As far as I know he has no job but was looking for one but that has been the story for a year. Anyone know what I can do, this jerk needs to start paying!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-23 04:23:27 · update #1
Ok, for all you losers putting me down for wanting my ex to own up to his resposibilities, here are a few words... It takes two, not one to make a child! I don't need the money, but the jerk had deserted 2 children from 2 different women!! The other let him off and disappeared, me..I think he needs to own up to his responsibilities. And as for taking care of my daughter, I can do it on my own...have for the past damn 14 months!!!! I was with this guy for 2 years (he wanted a child so bad) and now this! He abused me and while doing so one time he hit my daughter which is why he is only allowed supervised visits. I can't stand those that are like 'if the shoe fits' grow up and get the story! I bust my A** day in and day out to support my little girl with NO help from her dead beat father, I don't complain though and I DON'T see her as a problem. My daughter is my life. This is a 50/50 thing and I believe I have put in enough 100% for far too long, its his turn to take on his half!!!
2007-01-23 05:41:11 · update #2
Try: zabasearch.com
I would think you'd be able to find his whereabouts. But payment will be a much different matter. BELIEVE ME. Been there. My x literally lived in hiding. Do you have his social security #. That may also be beneficial.
2007-01-23 04:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You JUST went and filed for child support three months ago? Oh honey step to the BACK of the line. It isn't that the offices of child support is slow, it is that they get literally THOUSANDS of cases a day and honey, since you JUST filed you're going to be waiting awhile. There are people who have been on that waiting list a hell of a lot longer than you have. Why didn't you file sooner? Given them his father's work address really is going to do nothing because there is nothing his father's employer CAN do. His father is NOT responsible for the child support and under the Privacy act the office of child services couldn't contact him at work anyway. All I can suggest is that you discuss this with your lawyer, however he will probably tell you the same things that I have, that there are thousands of people waiting and you're just one.
2007-01-23 12:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they have a phone you can get their address. Easy unless it's a real common name. When he comes by write down his license plate number. Anyone can be found if you try hard enough.
2007-01-23 12:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by convoiceofreason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective. There are some who specialize in dead beat dads. But, if he has no income, don't expect much.
I hope you learned to get to know who you mate witha little better next time.
2007-01-23 12:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by txkathidy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love women like you..............they are deadbeats, why? Because you were responsible enough to spread your legs, but not enough to raise your child on your own? I had both of my sons,,,,,,,FULL CUSTODY, until my exwife decided she wanted them back..........and I did NOT get anything from her, or anyone else. Your kid, take care of it !
If he doesnt want anything to do with it, drop it, probably better off anyhow.........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-23 12:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try Zabasearch.com
2007-01-23 12:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by paulslovergirl1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep looking
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2007-01-23 12:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋