Family - January 2007

What would you do if you mother wanted you to take your brother into your home to live? What would you do and what would you say?

2007-01-23 13:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by Guess Who 2

I live in alberta, canada and my sister live with my mother. my mother is planning on moving to the west coast to marry someone she barely knows and dragging my sister along for the ride. the guy lives in a trailer and has a 19 year old son at home. they live in an incredibly small town with barely any people. i haven't even met them. my sister does not want to go. she is 14. can she come and live with me? if my mom tries to stop her, what can i do?

2007-01-23 13:07:46 · 9 answers · asked by rainbow 1

There was an event in my daughters life that is best left in the know of a few people. However my daughter's mother in law assumed the responiblity of passing on information, that my daugther perfered to keep private and to just close family memebrs on a need to know basis, to my grandson's school, other family members and her work colligates. She then made rude comments along with a sister in law and a few others that had no need to know and do not know the facts first hand of the situation. The mother in law was only given this privy to the matter out of need to know and assuming she would excercise disscretion. What should my daughter do to let the mother in law know it was wrong and to mind her own business in the future? Is there a to the point poem I can send this person???

2007-01-23 13:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by jan 1

i am 18 and a freshman in college. at this age i feel that i should be trying to learn things on my own and ask for help when needed. but that doesn't happen in my household. My father tells me what classes to take and not to take in COLLEGE. He tells me when to go to bed and so forth i really can't take this anymore. I am a young adult living like a five year old. Please give tips on how to deal with this man. Just let you know i cant move until 2008 when i transfer to a 4yr university. is there any hope for me?

2007-01-23 12:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by ladydragon0608 2

i need some help, please, me and my siblings and step siblings are lost and going to to the police or an around here is not an option, we cant go there because theyre probly after us to, we ran away from where we were and now everyone is after us, i was upset earlier and I ran outside away from everyone,, i ran in the woods and bumpd into a guy that we were supposed to live with, he wouldnt let me go, he kept asking me were my siblings were, i wouldnt answer him, he kept shaking me, a dog saved me, a dog came and was biting the guys leg and he droped me, i ran to my brother who found me before the dog came, and me and all of my siblings and step siblings started runing, we lost the guy and now im scared that he'll come back, i dont want to go with him, none of us do, im scared, i need some help, what do i do? The guy hurt me when he was shaking me trying to get me to talk and answer him, please help, if you trust me then you can email me and help me that way.

2007-01-23 12:29:00 · 4 answers · asked by Valerie S 1

I want to know...heh heh...^_^

2007-01-23 11:30:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

husbands parents wouldn't accept me and now my husband has left me and our child and gone back to live with his parent's.He said didn't want to leave but had too.why would he do this and how can i get him to see how much we love and miss him.It's like they brain washed him.

2007-01-23 11:26:27 · 28 answers · asked by sadden_by 1

always have been curious to know how you do it. any good sites or good search tools

2007-01-23 11:21:46 · 2 answers · asked by SwimmingRockstar 2

What are the reasons? Is it family tradition or conscious choice?

2007-01-23 11:19:14 · 13 answers · asked by mcfifi 6

Anyone got any ideas? She doesn't really listen to music except for the radio, she doesn't read books, she already has tons of jewellery. I usually just get vouchers for her, but I want give her a gift this year - she is going to be 53. She loves ornaments but I think she has too many so am not overly keen on that idea. The best suggestion gets 10 points!!

2007-01-23 11:05:10 · 18 answers · asked by Spence 3

I moved to the states six months ago and my brother bought a new house after we were staying at an apartment. he also just got married so moving out of the house was not a big deal for me even if my relatives say it was a low blow. after one week of thinking of staying at the house he told me the news and it took me about ten days to find a new place. i also helped him move his stuff from san jose to sacramento then to rancho cordova.

I just want to know if this is normal or if he is a real *ick

2007-01-23 11:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by Drew 1

my dad passed recently and the kids lawyer is trying to find out
if they are still listed but dads lawyer is not giveing info to kids
or their lawyer yet how can we get info

2007-01-23 10:41:18 · 2 answers · asked by jbrtaz 1

she moved in with us with alzimers. since my papa is in the hospital with a broken arm and pelvis. She seems to be working well, but I would just like a way to make her feel more at home. She doesn't walk arounnd much, she watches TV with us, but overall doesn't fit well because she stays at home 24/7 and my family is constantly on the run with sports work and picking kids up. Any suggestions?

2007-01-23 10:38:59 · 6 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4

how can i convince my parents to let me get my belly button peirced i asked my mom and she said no its stupid to get anything but your ears peirced but the next day she got her nose peirced and said well in older then you so i can and then my dad did the same thing i really want one and i even said id pay for it my self

2007-01-23 10:37:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 17 year old girl. I am going to attend Oxford University in England next year. I am not abusing any drugs of any sorts. I am valdictorian of my class. I don't steal. I have a job. However, despite all of this, my mother wants to kick me out of the house. I understand that I can be rude to her, butshe has been rude to me my whole life. My parents are getting divorced and my dad has moved out to Arizona. My mother doesn't want me to live with her because I come home and I go into my room and shut my door and ignore her. All teenagers do this though! I don't understand! Is there some hidden reason psychologically as to why she wants me out of the house!?

2007-01-23 10:11:01 · 10 answers · asked by mervelash 3

I have a dark past. Something that is on my mind all the time now that I have a daughter. I was molested as a child by family memebers and I feel now that I can't trust anyone. I am happily married and I have a 10 year old daughter. We at times have family member who come visit us and they stay at our home. They are great people, but when it's a man staying at my house (an uncle or grandfather) I panic. I don't sleep at night waiting to see if I hear anyone going into my daughters room. I keep getting up to check on her. Her uncle's and grandfather are good people and they have never given me a reason to feel this way about them. they never made me feel like they are going to do something to her, but with my childhood I am very suspicious. I don't tell her anything only becasue I don't want her to get paranoid and not trust men. I have spoken to her about people not touching her in certain places, but I know what it feels like to be violated and I don't want it to happen to her.

2007-01-23 10:00:22 · 16 answers · asked by SF 1

just lost my mom and now i dunno what to do

2007-01-23 10:00:10 · 12 answers · asked by vanessa g 1

any ideas for a last minute homemade present for my mom?

2007-01-23 09:55:46 · 3 answers · asked by bookworm0-0 3

does living in a small town after growing up in a big city make you think how naive everyone seems?

2007-01-23 09:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by mostamazinggrlever 1

2007-01-23 09:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by wazza1973 1

2007-01-23 09:28:33 · 3 answers · asked by wazza1973 1

I can block channels from the TV's in our house or stop my little brother watching at all. My little brother PUMA (you might know him he comes on here and as Jade Goody two Hooves and Violation man and other clones) well he hasnt been going to school coz he sits masturbating over Shilpa Shetty. Its disgusting and he thinks she will be his girlfriend. Should I get help for him or what.

2007-01-23 09:25:57 · 18 answers · asked by shilpa_poppadoon 1

I I'm 16 But I want to be safe.
But I know my parent's won't agree so I need help.

2007-01-23 09:21:05 · 14 answers · asked by Destiny_Forgotten 1

I have a sister-in-law who keeps stealing from me and my family. My husband told me not to deal with her anymore and that we forget his sister and also his mother. the women in his family are really something. His mother wishes us the worst in the world and his sister, (my sister-in-law) keeps taking things without asking and when we confront her, she just shruggs and says...whats done is done and there´s nothing she can do about it! She cries like a baby and its really ashame because I really want to love and care for her but she makes it impossible...She has alot of personal problems but so do I. I told her if she ever needed anything just ask but she keeps stealing. Should I just turn cold and mean and turn my back? Need your opinion please!

2007-01-23 08:44:39 · 43 answers · asked by mia 1

A 53 YEAR OLD MAN WAS SEEING MY DAUGHTER (HAVING A SEX AND DRUG RELATIONSHIP) UNTIL HER MOM SAID HE IS NO GOOD AND STOP SEEING HIM. OUR DAUGHTER IS 32. MY EX WIFE THEN STARTS SEEING HIM AT WHAT LEVEL I'M NOT SURE, BUT I KNOW SHE DID DRUGS)METH) AND HIS VEHICLE IS OVER AT HER HOUSE SOMETIMES QUITE LATE. MY THINKING ON THIS IS SHE IS NOT SHOWING ANY RESPECT FOR OUR DAUGHTER AND NONE FOR HERSELF. OH, ONE OTHER THING IS THERE ARE 3 GRANDKIDS INVOLVED ALSO. NEED SOME REAL HONEST INPUT. THANKS

2007-01-23 08:41:54 · 17 answers · asked by Michael B 1

I am the oldest girl in the family, a college student with overprotective parents - in some ways, they'll "baby" me and expect me to depend on them...i've had my license for a loong time now but dont' have a card. Instead of just waiting for them to get me one, i was just thinking it of getting it myself. I am an "adult" in the government's eyes, i can work, etc...If i do get a car, will a get more of their respect? It's not like they can tell me what to do as much, right?

2007-01-23 08:39:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know my husband loves me. I know he worships me. I just feel unappreciated sometimes. I pamper him when he comes home from work. I rub his back, give him foot massages, I will even prepare a hot bath. I make his favorite dinners. What I want tho is for him to notice that. I want for him to not gripe at me because I forgot to buy more papertowels at the store. I am not perfect. I have tried talking to him about it and he apologizes...but he forgets! Once he came home to find the kids in bed asleep, me standing in the doorway of our bedroom in heels, a teddy, his tie , with a cold beer waiting on him. He loved it. I feel like I do for him, but he doesn't want to do for me. a flower from the front yard or offering to help around the house. (I work full time too, take care of our three children and our house.) How can I make him notice me... and make me feel worthwhile? what am I doing wrong?

2007-01-23 08:30:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry if this is long. I posted a question about a month ago about my mother in law on x-mas day she kicked me out of her house, pushed me when I tried taking my daughter with me & then threatened to take my daughter away(through courts although she will never get her because she has a sexual misconduct on her record). Anyway last night she called my husband & told him that I need to forget what happened, get over it and start talking to her. I told my husband that I will not forget, how am I suppose to forget someone kicking me out of their house, pushing me and then threatening to take my child away. My husband told his mother that I am not going to talk to her & he isn't going to make me, so than she said well I better start getting to see my granddaughter every sunday or I will show up at your house at 6 everynight. I agreed to let her take her on sunday feb 4th even though it was against my better judgement. Also she threatened to take us to court again. I live in IL. What to do

2007-01-23 08:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by mdoud01 5

My gf told me that her grandma was gonna kick her out at the end of the school year...so she could live with me some how. Im 17 soon going to be 18 and I still live with my aunt but im planning on moving away or out when im 18...and my gf she is still 16 is there anyway she could live with me if I get an apt. could she with me at that age is it possible? I live in CT so I dunno about the laws if its illegal or not....I really do love this woman a lot and im willing to do anything for her even if it means bustin my *** off working and goin to school and supporting her and working towards making a better life for ourselves.

2007-01-23 08:11:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A year ago I moved back in with my mother.First of all,I just turned 30 years old,I have 4 girls ages,9-13,all living with me.I had been living on my own since the age of 17,working and taking care of my children.It all started 2 years ago when I met "Mr. Lewis".I can't tell you how I first got all caught up with him but after a while everything I did revolved around him and I couldn't concentrate on much else.Everything started falling apart,I lost my motivation to keep a job,worrying about him and what he was doing.I couldn't give my girls the time they needed,and soon I lost my house.It's been a year and we still have been involved but I've grown tired of the ups and downs so now I'm ready to get it together,where do I start?HELP!!!

2007-01-23 07:56:45 · 9 answers · asked by missraynell07 1