My dad lives in the south, and i lve in the north. I miss him, but my grandma, which is my part time guardian, won't let him come, but my mom unterstands it's my 8th grade graduation, and he can come , but my grandma hasn't decided yet but i'm sure she'll say no. =(
2007-01-23 07:48:00 · 10 answers · asked by ♥mctrevor♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
try having a heart-to-heart with your grandma, maybe she'll understand. Tell her its affecting you so much you can't concentrate on anything else(which seems pretty much the case). Hope she understands and do say what happens, i really feel for you.
2007-01-23 08:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Love at first sight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your father.. He has a right to be there. After all she is only your part time guardian, not your FULL time guardian. So, she doesn't have the right to make those type of decisions for you. Now if your father was a murderer, kidnapper, rapist, or anything like that then it would be acceptable. Your graduation is important to you and I'm sure it as important to him too! You should sit down and talk to her and let her know how you feel. After all he is your father.
2007-01-23 15:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have no right to keep you from your dad. It doesn't sound like he's done anything wrong, since your mom is willing to let him visit. Tell your grandma that you are old enough to decide whether or not you would like to see your dad.
2007-01-23 15:52:11 · answer #3 · answered by rockerchic821 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your grandmother about it? Is the problem that your dad will be staying with you? Perhaps you can find somewhere else for him to stay. If you mom thinks it ok, then it should be ok.
Explain it to your grandmother the way you did here and she may surprise you.
Best regards-
2007-01-23 16:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by autimom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit your grandmother down and tell her how much it would mean to you to have your dad there and may be just may be she want say no.
P.S. hope it work out.
2007-01-23 15:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by RaShundra C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably a good reason he can't come around to often. Try talking to him on the phone more or email. Good Luck.
2007-01-23 15:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say "Grandma, u used to be cool, what happened?"... always works...
2007-01-23 16:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by fritz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not up to your grandma its up to your dad who cares what your granny says
2007-01-23 15:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats ya dad. ya grandmother has no say so. if ya moms said its cool then let him come.
2007-01-23 15:51:53 · answer #9 · answered by reina k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY GRANDMA DO YOU LOVE ME? THEN PLEASE ALLOW MY DADDY TOOME TO MY GRADUATION PLEASE. IT WILL WORK. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU.
2007-01-23 15:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋