it may be so weired and embarassing to ask this...
there's been something wrong with the lock of the door of my bedroom. the door was closed but i was just unaware that it wasn't locked properly while i was masturbating there in nude.
i started to make some noise when i nearly organsmed. the door suddendly opened itself (like blown by the wind) while my dad & my brother passed by (i believed it's an accident cuz they're talking to each other while walking by...). at that time all of us just felt so odd & freezed like rocks, looking at each other. i really wanted to die... my legs were wide open with my pus*y facing them. they obviously heard my noise too. it's after a few seconds that i quickly wrapped myself with a blanket & they closed the door. all of us just didn't know how to respond...
that's already embrassing enough. what's even worse was that when i went to the bathroom some minutes later, i found a disposed kleenex with lots of fresh semen...
2007-01-23 07:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by Lorraine YE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Questions:
is my dad/brother understandable if he masturbated soon after such accident? i feel sick of this as i’m their family member.
should i tell my mom/bf about this? i’m not sure how they’ll react, esp. my mom’s very conservative.
should i hide away from my dad & brother for some days or what i should do to face them in future?
this’s a real tragedy to me and i don’t know who to talk except here… i’m very unhappy :(
2007-01-23 07:27:41 · update #1
lena, i was not to check what's in the kleenex but it was just lying on the floor next to the bin when i went in... so i just picked it up and found it.
it's already bed time when i did it. perhaps it's not late enough though. but i could say that was a usual time when all my family should be in their own room. i dunno... it just happened like that. :(
2007-01-23 08:03:24 · update #2
I know it was an extremely embarrassing situation, but let me say, it is not unusual or abnormal. My recommendation would be not to talk about it, if your father and brother saw you, I'm sure they were just as embarrassed as you were. Seeing something like that is bound to be arousing for most people, just try to forget about it, and be sure your door is locked or blocked the next time, wait till bed time or shower time. I can assure you, it wasn't the first time your dad or brother has seen something like this, and I'm also sure they have done their fair share of masturbating themselves. Mark this down as your life's most embarrassing moment and move on. don't be ashamed you sound like a normal girl to me.
2007-01-23 07:49:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to pretend like it did not happen. I am sure you are not the only family something like this has happened to. In time the embarrassment will subside and it will be put in the back of all your minds. Masturbation is a very natural thing to do. I am really sorry this happened to you. I am sure they are just as mortified as you are. As for the Kleenex you found I'm really not sure what to say about that. How do you know that was what was in the tissue? Have either of them done anything weirdly sexual towards you in the past. If they have then get out of the house.
2007-01-23 08:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by wendygirl1000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 02:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was originally not going to touch this subject, but since nobody else's answers are showing up... What the hell.
Everything about it is really normal. Obviously judging by your vocabulary, you are old enough that it is normal to masturbate, and also it is totally unreasonable to ask a man, even if he is your father or brother, not to get turned on by something like that. It cannot be avoided, it can just be hidden because of the questionable morality. Lots of guys get their first erection walking in on their sisters in the shower, I can tell you that.
Anyway, freezing up is a normal response seeing as the situation was abnormal, but I highly recommend in the future you wait till later at night and put a chair by the door if possible.
Just try not to bring it up and forget it ever happened, your father and brother will love you just the same.
2007-01-23 07:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Viking Chicken 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All men are pigs. If we saw a grannies spread eagle diddling theselves we'd probably go masturbate. Don't get all worried about it. What you were doing is perfectly natural, although being caught by a family member is embarrassing it will pass as time goes by.
2007-01-23 07:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Add Man 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
invest in a stronger lock and play the radio very loudly the next time you feel the urge to ... uh ... masturbate! perhaps you should talk to your father/brother about it and let them know it was a mistake and you didn't mean any offense by it. other than that ... make sure you get that lock girl!
2007-01-23 08:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i know what u r goin though it happened 2 me it is not nice at all is but if u don`t know how 2 tell ur mum u can email if u what 2 talk because i know how it feels think and maybe i could help u if uu want 2 email me my email is lauraward1987@yahoo.com just email if u want 2
2007-01-23 08:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that it wasn't done before they saw you?
Why are you picking up used kleenex?
don't worry about it and keep your door locked and your radio on.
2007-01-23 07:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by LENA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do now. Not like either of them haven't done it, You just got caught. Might be uncomfortable for a while but not the end of the world.
2007-01-23 07:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by ladyluc39 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, can you do it for me? In all seriousness, you're going to feel very akward until you say something. You can just say something like...."I can't believe you saw me naked I am so embarassed" and just break the ice. The common response would be "oh please like we haven't see you naked before" or "If you've seen one naked girl you've seen them all". You just have to get it out there so you won't feel odd anymore. I would ignore the dirty tissue...it was probably just your horny brother and I wouldn't take that as a sick facination or anything.
2007-01-23 07:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋