Family - January 2007

my son 18 is in jail for like 5 mon.pending another charge his g/f and him have been staying here at my home .,now it is only her well we told her 2 weeks ago mind you she has been here for 6 mons.she needed to pay somthing she said ok 100 every 2 weeks i said no just 75 will be ok mind you see does nothing in this house she stays in her room all day until she has to go somewhere the first time to pay she was ok with it well she was due friday to pay again our house payment alone is 800.00 any how i had to ask her for it several times due to we have no money bad times have hit i am disabled he lost his job for no reason he is on unemployment not much money comming in at all well now she is pregnant at 19 my 2nd grand child but any i noticed yeaterday her room door was closing real hard i could hear her lock the door in my room so she when to work so i decided to wright her a letter i knew she was upset cause of the money,she is also depressed for many reasons one being my son

2007-01-28 00:07:40 · 10 answers · asked by lundie_g 2

play around with my cousin, in an unappropriate way, if you know what i mean, it would start with "you show me yours, i'll show you mine' but it soon progressed to getting ourselves off in front of eachother, i was like 10, and she was 13 when we started doing it, it probably went on for about 2-3 years every now and then. I enjoyed it at the time but now look back and see how wrong it was.

Is this something that happened in many peoples childhoods?

2007-01-27 23:48:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

so our dog would play with me!!!!
what was your childhood like?

2007-01-27 23:42:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Children today have many agencies to protect their rights. Having worked CPS for five years I totally agree with their mission to savechildren from abuse. However are we going to far? California is considering making spanking a crime. How many of us were spanked and came out ok? Are we now making parenting a crime? I don't think our parents were a that bad. Why are time outs, sitting in a corner, any less abusive?

2007-01-27 23:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by Wat Da Hell 5

he don live with us me my mom and bro
he did something that can't be undone
i was thinking about it a dew weeks ago
i cry the hole night
so i was angry because he treats my mom and bro nice give them stuff but not me
i was so angry i did not tell my mom or bro why
i just stop talking to them
when they talk to me i don't reply i can't even look them in the face
i was so depress for the past few weeks
what do you think???
i don't want to talk to them anymore
because they are on his side no one is standing on my side
so what should i do
shall i tell my mom why i am so angry
i even feel like writing a letter to him ask him not to step into this home and tell him i hate him

if you were me what are u going to do

2007-01-27 22:54:55 · 13 answers · asked by astrid 5

2007-01-27 22:52:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 2 years now and we have been married for just over a month. He had told me when we got together he had a daughter who was 12 and he hadnt seen her since she was a baby. Now he has been in contact with her for a couple weeks. I feel like my family dynamic has completely changed, and I am feeling like she is going to take away from my family. I feel a little jealous of her and I am uneasy about him talking to his ex. Is this normal to feel like this or is there somthing wrong with me? Also I am 10 weeks pregnant and I have a 11 month old baby boy, could it just be I am feeling this way because I am pregnant and emotional?

2007-01-27 22:50:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-27 22:47:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother is an alcoholic, and has gone to jail so many times that i've stopped counting. Living with her is living hell. I live 3-4 days a week with my boyfriend and his family, which is great.(we dont have sex i have to much respect for his parents). i dont want to put up with my mothers crap anymore and i want to live witth the family that cares. how do i go about properly doing this, and better yet... telling the wicked witch of the west, ie;my mother.

2007-01-27 22:40:49 · 12 answers · asked by tylrbee 2

she always asks so many questions, its like she wants us there just so she can find out stuff its really annoying, how can i tell her in the nicest way to stop asking all these question becus it puts me off her.

2007-01-27 22:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many days / nights per week can I stay at my ex's house before she is no longer classed as a single parent ? She is extremely worried that she may lose her income support / housing benefit. I am not working at present, or claiming any benefits of any kind. She is living with kids and receives income support and housing benefit.

2007-01-27 22:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by justsquiff 2

i need to let go of my family... to stop seeing them and talking to them on a regular basis, and some family members need to be out of my life totally. They are harming me and my family mentally and emotionally. They are very toxic to me and it is affecting my kids. Why is it so hard to let them go. I feel so obligated to them...

2007-01-27 21:58:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-27 21:55:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever found out something about a family member that you were not supposed to know about?

2007-01-27 21:51:51 · 12 answers · asked by rabble rouser 6

For those of you who do not care
For this world we have to share
Look around and you shall see
What this world is meant to be

All our children they will know
Its our effects, we do show
All our children need to play
Lets join together, show the way

Doesn’t matter whats their skin
Lets show them all, they are kin
In this world theres too much greed
Its there really all that need

Look around and see the sign
We are dooming our mankind
For this world is full of hate
One would think, its our fate

Lets make this world a better place
So when we leave, theres no disgrace
Lets make a stand, and take the lead
By kneeling down, plant the seed

2007-01-27 21:43:20 · 7 answers · asked by gary_b04901 1

I mean life so tough some time so nice what ever we do still its hurting us in everything love, work, sisters no time to see them you get angry and start shout on you Barents that really bad I don’t want to stay like this.

2007-01-27 20:19:16 · 3 answers · asked by Nads 1

2007-01-27 20:13:30 · 14 answers · asked by anna 3

What would you do over if you could?

My mother's memorial is Wed. She died unexpectedly last night.

2007-01-27 19:58:20 · 8 answers · asked by lindakflowers 6

Is it normal that my younger sister is 13 and still sleeps with the blanket she go when she was born?

2007-01-27 18:59:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-27 18:59:21 · 7 answers · asked by kat velez 1

He had scleroderma, and on friday, he had some problems with his heart and they had to do surgery on him, draining water from his heart, and finding a hole in his heart. He died during the process.

I feel devastated but I've never had any experience with death of anyone. And I just don't know how to feel. I feel sad and sorry, but what else am I supposed to do? Should I not be happy for now?

2007-01-27 18:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do American parents hit or spank their children?
Who may send "hitting or spanking child's movie" to me?

2007-01-27 18:24:49 · 17 answers · asked by davidchen7958 1

I did that and boy... all the pressure is off. I feel like with that label.. I can be myself.. and let them try to control someone else.. with that label I feel free of the ties they once had... Just wondering who else out there has accepted the role of black sheep or outcast.. because the price of being in the family cirlce of appreciation was too high?

2007-01-27 18:17:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-27 18:14:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandma always kept fresh cows milk. She would separate the cream for coffee. Also, cornflakes.

2007-01-27 18:14:19 · 8 answers · asked by Fun Haver 3

me and my family are allways naked with eachother would you or do you do the same?

2007-01-27 18:07:08 · 20 answers · asked by nude n 1

2007-01-27 18:02:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just don't care. I don't care if I go to a family function. I don't care that they guilt me and say 'my kids are missing out' or 'grandma only has one 80'th birthday'. I am so tired of guilt trips, religious family thinking that I am messing up my kids lives, and that I am a sinner that will regret my life when i see the light (even though they don't say it anymore.. the whole 'we are praying that you will see the error of your ways' is in the air). My brother has done so much dope, that even though he is sucesful and handsome, he has the maturity of a 14 year old and can't respect my kids or my bounderies and hurts our feelings alot. When I get upset, or don't want to come, everyone is upset that I am being so hurtful and disrespectful to the family. I really just don't care about them anymore. All I want is peace. They cause my anxiety attacks. I just don't care anymore.

2007-01-27 17:51:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-27 17:40:16 · 7 answers · asked by sanya 2

I need help my parents keep fighthing they ussually dont talk ever since my Dad injured his back at work its like you cant talk to him anymore he thinks its everyones fault and now he's saying he will leave us im really I dont know stressed I guess he just blames everyone you know sometimes I just wish he'd die thats how its gotten to me I dont want any of the counselor adivice family counceling IT Will not work I will leave it there for my own reasons,
I really dont know what to do?
I Feel sick I dont feel like eating Im starting to hate everyone around me.
All thanks to this "Dad" Whihc I dont even like calling him that anymore.

2007-01-27 17:38:02 · 3 answers · asked by dazzi_4 1