Family - January 2007

What would you love for your parents to know about you?

2007-01-27 10:42:54 · 6 answers · asked by eurovac 2

yesterday my husband son and I were going to see mother-in-law, she's very sick so we said we would see her (4 hrs away). My son said he would like to come, but at the last minute he said my shorts are wet that I wanted to wear so I'm not going. We said then make arrangements to stay with a friend or family he said no I'm staying home alone, he's only 13 I said not overnight he refused to get up, we layed out punishments (no cricket, playstation, tv etc) he sat there and laughed about it. I said u can stay in your room for the afternoon too. We got no appology. He went to bed and this morning he refused to talk to us we said you can come out of your room today but you are still grounded & u need to have a shower and clean your room. he said I'm not doing it bad luck! so we said you can stay there then. He's back in bed. Isn't he a bit sorry by now? y is this going on so long? I would have said sorry by now when I was that age even if it was to come out. He's not used to being punished

2007-01-27 10:31:59 · 22 answers · asked by Nicky 3

As I cut deeper into my wrists, the blood slowly and methodically trickling down to my fingertips, dripping onto the note i had left behind for my loved ones to read after they found me. The thickness of the dropplets grew to the size of a crocodile's tear and grew more crimson with each passing momment smearing the words on the note. No one will understand why i gave up, i dont even understand it, my life was realitively perfect to the outsiders, people that cant think or hear the my thoughts or feel the emotions that i do. If you just would've listened to what i had to say instead of pushing me away like all the others before you, then maybe you could've saved me. But now its too late, i hope you realize what you've done, this is your fault i wouldnt have turned out this way if you just made time for me in your busy schedule. i stand in the shadows of my intense feelings i had once before, this deed i've done irreversable i need to cut deeper now so i can let out all of my saddness a

2007-01-27 10:22:55 · 6 answers · asked by As she sees me I AM A GOD! 2

my boyfriend is in private secuirty and is gone more then he is with me. often times guarding people that go on business in the middle east and africia.On top of that I almost never get to know where he is till he is done with a job. like yesterday I had not heard from him in 3 days as the last time I talked to him he told he iwas go to be doing a job and would be unreachable for a few days. he texts me only to tell me that he is in iraq and will be there for 3 days. even though he told me he woluld not go there as it is dangerous I know some would say break up with him but i love him and we are having a baby. i just need ideas on how to stop worrying about him all the time. how do i deal with the fact that he put himself in harms way for the highest payer. also how can i make him wear body armour and explain it is not for whimps as he say but for fathers to be who need to stay alive to meet their son when he is born. Help I am so worried!!!!!!!!

2007-01-27 10:19:20 · 1 answers · asked by mrs. smutty aka sodachix 4

Im just over 4 months pregnant and me and babys dad are over with now.. Does the father of the baby have any legal say in providing still for the baby, can he just refuse or does he have to pay towards the financial side, ie- Paying towards bringing baby up even though wer'e split up..

Do i have a right to claim money from him to go towards the babys upbringing legally? He works and has a full time job but being quite an idiot about supporting the baby in anyway.

Just wondered if anyone could give me any help on this..

Thank you..

2007-01-27 10:14:12 · 28 answers · asked by vickiangel 3

Okay, last week my bestfriend Taylor told me that she smokes cigarettes. She only does it when she is stressed, angry, etc. She never pressures me because she is trying to quit. Taylor does NOT smoke because she thinks its cool. It started when she was eleven. Her mom and older brother both smoke and her mom gives her cigarettes. Now heres a twist. My parents found out and now they don't want me to be around her. Whenever I ask them if I can go to the movies with her and a bunch of other people they just say that I can't because I could be smoking too. I really don't want to lose my bestfriend over something this stupid. Please help me =/

2007-01-27 09:45:25 · 9 answers · asked by spitney12 2

These guys got so jealous of me walking up, sitting on my brother's lap, and burrowing my head into his chest.(he doesn't mind b/c I only weigh 98lbs.) We are just brother and sister. We are also very close to eachother. Why were they jealous??
He claims the guys like me.The whole school knows we are brother and sister and yet one of my guy friends tells me the other is jealous.Why??
What is wrong with two siblings who have been through a lot, being close?? What is wrong with doing this after my gymnastics meet when I was exhausted??

2007-01-27 09:23:24 · 14 answers · asked by Kiah 1

2007-01-27 09:15:36 · 2 answers · asked by Marla M 1

must know why the hits? why fathers why? always wit the lemons pls halp ;_;

2007-01-27 09:12:01 · 14 answers · asked by Toga 2

I am 36. I finally told my parents that I only spend time with them out of a sense of obligation. I have always felt this way. They make me miserable. I always feel depressed after any conversations with them or any time spent with them.

2007-01-27 09:09:17 · 12 answers · asked by ahhihello 2

Ok my dad passed almost 4yrs ago. He had this wife, I did'nt care that it wase'nt my mom, it was the person herself. Never got along with any of our family, just a total *****. Well they were together for 10yrs then she finally convinced him to marry her. Following there marriage she started collecting a number of insurance policies on my dad( we did'nt know). And on approlal of the third, my dad was found dead, the day after my brother had seen him.She had him cremated 4 citys away, in record time, by a friend.Not even 24hours from time of death. (Again, we knew nothing).Then when we asked for his remaines she stated that she had already went and spread them on thr bar room floor, where they had met. WHAT! we know she killed him. So, this lady who killed my dad called me this morning, (have'nt spoke to her since that)and asked me if she could see my daughter. I'm wanting to go to confront her , I'm afraid I'll blow and something stupied, but I'm needing to say something THAT'S MY DAD.

2007-01-27 09:07:06 · 7 answers · asked by D lux 2

I would like your opinion on this subject and why.

I have read that parents are now putting homing devices in cell phones, headphones, and cars. I understand that the plus side of this could be to protect your child from harm. But, if the child was to find out about the homing devices, what would happen to the relationship between the parents and the child? I would like your opinion on this matter in full detail. Thanks.

2007-01-27 09:06:22 · 1 answers · asked by Imagine, Its Contagious! 3

Ok, this woman is driving me crazy. She is evil. let me give some background on the devi'l spawn. She is a blood sucker of society. She has worked a total of six months her entire life, she lives off of wealfare and foodstamps. Her house is a garbage dump, like Joes apartment. She is a sad soul. The woman doesn't think of anyone but herself. She hasn't liked me from day one. Reason being, that I don't jump whenever she needs something, that I feel that she is not an old cripple (shes 55 ) and can do EVERYTHING for herself. I don't pity her in any way! She asks her son for money, knowing its OUR money and we don't have enough ourselves, but the welfare check didnt come yet and she needs apack of marlboros. someone kill this woman She has a brand new grandaughter who is now 3 months and she has seen a total of 3 times! And her reason? she doesnt feel good (equals I am to lazy to get up take a shower and get over there) he knows his mom is wrong, yet he still pasifies her, HELP!

2007-01-27 08:43:45 · 4 answers · asked by Tina B 1

hey i'm 22 & my sister is 35 she always try to keep me horny with every way she can find, she always in front of me (changing her clothes )&SOME TIMES BE TOPLESS. EVEN SHE'S MARRIED & have 2 wonderfull sons & a husband but her husband always travel.
she always show me her new panties when she wear them.& break point whish lead me to ask you what i should do to keep heras my sister is: 1) i was taking a bath then she entered & wanted to give me a bath like when i was young boy i lucky cause i was at the end of my shower so i escaped from her trap.
2) last week i was sleeping in her geust room while her husband was away on business she came to sleep with me in bed wearing a very very extremly hot lingerie then she gave me her back put my hand arround her waist & she kept pressing her bottom against my manhood.
so help what i should do i love her as my sister & i don't want to lose her please help.

2007-01-27 08:27:23 · 10 answers · asked by geen 1

I am 28 years old and I have been married for a little over a year. I also have a 12-year old son from a previous relationship. My husband and I have good paying jobs and our family is well off. We do not struggle financially but I have been feeling very unhappy lately. I feel like there is something missing in my life. There are times where I want to hang out with friends and drink but my husband doesn't like to do that. He is very conserative and likes to stay home. I often feel bored with nothing to do. I work full time and go to college part time. I do have a very busy schedule but I feel like my life is just routine. I want to do something different and get out of my routine schedule. My husband thinks there is nothing wrong with our lives and I should be happy that we have a wonderful life. My husband and my son are both great. They give me no problems but there is still something missing. I just don't know what is wrong with me. Can someone give me some insight?

2007-01-27 08:18:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

All I want to do is stay home, but she says she doesnt trust me. I have done nothing to not be trusted, and I want to stay home so I wont get grounded at my grandmothers. PLease help!

2007-01-27 08:17:52 · 27 answers · asked by vegaskillsv2 1

my daughter wants to stay here

2007-01-27 08:09:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hate my step-dad! And I need to know what I can do to make him get the hell out of my life. My Mom plans on leaving him come this summer. But I want him gone now! I need ways to make his life suck. But I dont want to physically hurt him...I just want to get on his nervs....to the point where he is ready to leave. I dont want to be told how what Im doing is wrong! I have dealt with the basterd for 10 years. What can I do to make him Leave?

2007-01-27 08:08:45 · 1 answers · asked by Katie-bug 2

my baby has my last name
and now her dad wants it changed to his last name
but he doesnt want to get married
but we are together
is there any reason that i shouldnt change her las name?
legal reasons or other??

2007-01-27 08:08:00 · 13 answers · asked by jizzywizzy 2

Like sumthin special that has happend or the most romatic thing someone has done for you , or even something that was just simply amazing:-)

2007-01-27 07:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are some pros and cons of being the oldest child vs. being the youngest child?

2007-01-27 07:48:57 · 9 answers · asked by CraigSmart86 1

I just turned twelve. Don't get any allowance.

2007-01-27 07:43:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's been drinking heavily for at least 15yrs. In the last month she's gotten in serious trouble with the law and is now on house arrest. She can't leave to go to any kind of rehab. I need to know the things that would help to say or have her do. I have a family of my own now and can't put forth all the time I would like, but wish I could do something to make this end up with her sober and happy.

2007-01-27 07:26:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

and almost kill me

2007-01-27 07:12:27 · 11 answers · asked by Houston Rood 2

My MIL babysat my kids for the 1st time last night. Although I appriciate the help, some of it I can do without. I laid out my 22 mo old son's dinner for the evening, hes on a strict diet from the doctor because he suffers from constipation. She knows this yet she fed him what she was eating instead, "because he liked it better" it was some potato casserole or something that contained alot of starch. Now I have to up his dose of Miralax he on daily so hes not screaming when he has to do his duty. My daughter is 6 1/2 mo and is still getting adjusted to babyfood. To get her to eat it, she put sugar in it! I dont bribe her with sweets if she doesnt want to eat. If kids arent hungry, dont force them. She gave my son a sucker around 7 and his bedtime is an hr and 1/2 later. He was bouncing off the walls when we came home. She put their diapers on too loose and they were falling down and leaking. I tightened them a bit and she told me I was wrong and it would hurt them. I had to show her...

2007-01-27 07:10:20 · 8 answers · asked by Koozie 5

in a relationship with someone who I am really starting to care about. The problem; my Sister. I relocated back to NY about 9 mos. ago and my Sister has been staying with me for about 5 mos. She doesn't say it, but I get the sense she may be jealous of the attention I've been showing to my girl. Just little things like wanting to talk while I'm on the phone, not answering if it's her or acting funny when I come home from seeing her. Is it me being too analytical or am I sensing right? Both are special but I don't want any problems to occur so I'd rather stop something before it starts. Advice, comments?

2007-01-27 06:58:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, im an only child but i've always wanted to meet my sister on my dad's side, she doesn't even know i exist. how can i find her? i only know her first name, i don't know where she stays, and i don't how to actually spell her first name.

2007-01-27 06:50:41 · 16 answers · asked by unique2thextreme 2

my mother and father dont stay together but i am now 14 yrs old and my mohter treat me like im 5 y is that i cant never go anywhere i cant talk on the phone to guys without her asking 100 million questions and one guy i dated she told him to call her cell to ask 4 permission when he was able to talk to me. if something aint right i get blamed and get yelled at and then she baby my little sister up really bad y is this it`s like i dont exist.

2007-01-27 06:48:10 · 6 answers · asked by sheniqua c 1

My husband is in the millitary and has leave this feb, our daughters are 2years old and 10 months. And this well be his family first time seeing the girls.Im a lil worried about the trip. we have a 3 hour lay over on the way there and a four lay over on the way back. and i've never done this before, i just need a few good ideas to make this a better trip for everyone. Should i pack a few toys to play with on the plain? or well they let me do that? I would love to hear any ideas from anyone that has gone on trips with their small children. thanks.

2007-01-27 06:43:00 · 5 answers · asked by alexis c 1

we were supposed to go to the movies but we couldnt since my mom had to take her car to the shop * last weekend we were supposed to go the movies too but my dad had to use the car * everytime we plan something it always gets messed up so if anyone has any ideas please let me know * thanks a bunch

2007-01-27 06:23:15 · 8 answers · asked by * Happy and in Love * 2