Family - January 2007

Since her aunt passed away, she has to leave city to attend furneal. She has been out since yesterday and will be back on Sunday.

She have her boyfriend and me stay at her place. Her boyfriend is there to take care of her three dogs and to watch her 6 years old daughter for two or three hours after school when I'm at work. Also she want him there for in case her daughter's father tried to take her way.

Last night, her daughter woke up and cried due to night mare. My friend says this happen often and she'll usually go back to sleep in 15 or 20 mins. So I ignore the sound of her crying. However her crying stop suddenly so I went down to see what is up. I found her room door open, the boyfriend was sit on her daughter's bed rubbing her back. I gave him a dirty look and mouthed "get out" He glare at me and whisper "good night sweetheart" to her before get up and leave to go back to bed.

Today I asked the girl what happened. She says he came in

2007-01-27 17:33:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The people who run it are very rude. I saw a couch get cussed out by a parent then get in trouble. I didn't really understand why. I was wondering if I was the only one who thought that way? After seeing that I was questioning bringing my grandchild there to play sports. Can anyone tell me if this happens often? And can anyone tell what happened to that couch after the game?

2007-01-27 17:21:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I'm planning on leaving my boyfreind for almost four years.We Have been having problems for awhile now and the last fight we had just prove to me that I can do so much better, even by myself.I havn't felt in love with hem for a while.It took me a min. to realize that my heart isn't in it anymore. and just cause you have a baby with a men don't mean you should stay unhappy. I need to put myself and the baby first. My heart is very broken, used and abused right now, and I don't and I won't live like this any more.4 now we are over
I just started lookin for a new job and plus I have Tax money comin to me so money is not the issue. We just moved from Florida to Conn. and I hate it here. My choose are. living in MA. or FL. I was born in Boston but moved to FL. a few years ago. I have more family and friends in Boston, only my mom lives in FL and she help me alot with the baby.I enjoy both states but which do you think would be better for us. Or help me figure out what to do about it

2007-01-27 17:20:53 · 6 answers · asked by JADedMis 1

2007-01-27 17:07:08 · 3 answers · asked by Amanda A 2

Hi yahoo friends...this is a longshot,but worth every step to me.........my grandmother has a grand-daughter out here in the world she has never seen.The problem is,she doesnt know where she is or who took her when she was born.My aunt(which was her daughter)was raped by her own father in 1960-and she gave birth to this girl.My aunt died of brain cancer in 1999,and my grandmother now wants to meet her granddaughter.My granny will be 86 in february and it is her last wish to see this woman before she goes home(as she calls it).Please if anyone has any information....this womans name was Karen Denise Cox at birth,born in kingsport Tennessee in either 1960 or 1961-on October 31.They took the baby girl right when she was born and my grandmother nor my aunt got to hold or see the baby.This is vital and most appreciated if anyone will help us.My granny will be 86 February 18,and what a gift this could be for her....Please if you pray and even if you don't,help me!!!!!!God Bless You!!

2007-01-27 16:53:53 · 12 answers · asked by nanap1963 2

She's really hot and I really don't want to marry any other girl. She's also in love with me, but our parents are against this relationship. I know it's gross but I can't help it... She's just so beautiful. What should I do?

2007-01-27 16:53:06 · 42 answers · asked by Josh S 1

I had a question on here about me having dreams about my dad molesting me, been having them for about 3 years now. Also, he likes to ask me if I am wearing a bra under whatever or wearing any panties. My mom says he says it because he is protective and etc. but I still hate it and it makes me uncomfortable. BUT TO THE BIG PART

We went out to dinner and we were at the table, my mom was talking about how me, him, and my little sister all make this same face and how weird that was. We were all talking about it and etc. He was the one who spotted me making the face and my mom just commented on it. So then he says "But you look really sexy when you make that face." "I read when people do that face it's a sexual invite" .. .. .. He didn't say it just any other way either. I felt more than uncomfortable and confronted him about it and I think he laughed or something. My mom also said it wasn't appropriate but she told me he didn't mean any harm because "HE'S MY FATHER" and all this other BS

2007-01-27 16:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by uglyvanity 3

Our dad doesnt live with us anymore.. We have to move out of our apt next week... Our car got on fire today.. My mom needs surgery... My mom put me in homeschool thats the worst part....

2007-01-27 16:32:29 · 3 answers · asked by <3 2

Should in-laws be considered family?

2007-01-27 16:26:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a formal planned well.my school did and i really wanted a chanc4e to go.it got canceled and iam really upset because everything was planned ouit.what should i do????????????

2007-01-27 16:22:04 · 2 answers · asked by bubles*pop* 2

I am disabled. I am not dumb. However when my controlling aunt can not convince me of something, she has started going over my head. Mom was going to give me couch for christmas until my aunt heard of it. Then she went to my dad and said that Mom was going to give me couch but like she told me she would give me couch., Mom didnt need to buy it. This is after she informed me very rudely that she did not see how i could say no when I asked what color.cause acc to her it did not matter. It did not matter to her. She went up to both my father and mother on diff occassions to inform them that there was no need to get couch. I dont want her couch. I dont want her going over my head She does this all the time. I am not dumb I am college educated and it absolutly kills me. Mom said to forgive her cause she is old. I am too the point that if she continues to openly disrespect me by going over my head, then she does not need to be in life. Am i wrong? It truely hurts she does thiss all the tim

2007-01-27 16:09:28 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Johny 3

My brother makes fun of me in front of my daughter (l find that immature, but whatever), it embarrases me and makes me feel stupid and silly. He rough houses with my daughter and won't stop when she says 'ouch' or 'stop'. He argues with me about things I want to do or my life decisions and tells me how wrong I am. And when I confront him he gets angry with me and finds it all my fault for being sensitve or serious. I emailed him and he emailed me back really rude. He refuses to admit that my feelings are valid and won't stop. So I told him that he is out of the family. I refuse to take myself and my kids to family gatherings where I feel helpless to protect myself or my kids from feeling bullied. Now my family is upset. "Your kids will miss easter with the family' or 'your grandma only has one 80'th birhtday'. I just tell them that I should not feel guilted into putting me or my kids into a situation like that. Why when you do what is best for you, others get mad at you?

2007-01-27 16:05:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad is really perverted. well, it seems like that a lot because he i noticed that he always checks out other girls butts. it really makes me uncomfortable. he'll always stare at girls wearing skimpy outfits and my mom never says anything. can i do anything about this?

2007-01-27 15:52:05 · 44 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2

Me and my mom get in fights sometimes.... she is so prtective and paranoid. I am much more outgoing.We disagree on everything..............what do u think i should do when she says something i dont like cause usually i just back talk. It is so hard not to.................plz help me

2007-01-27 15:41:58 · 3 answers · asked by bubles*pop* 2

2007-01-27 15:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by chelseacarmona07 1

i heard he was staying in isabela philippines and that he was with his friends..one of his friends is mary jane..

2007-01-27 15:30:54 · 1 answers · asked by eileen p 1

On Feb 8th I am turning 32. I have 6 siblings I just met (dad's side) and 11 siblings I already knew (mom's side). I want to do something that would include all of them without making anyone feel as if they are left out. The age range is 20-54. Any ideas????

2007-01-27 14:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by chriscornelluv@sbcglobal.net 2

i flew out to L.A. for a couple weeks to visit my brother
my nephew who is 19 wanted to get a tattoo
of two guns with a flag going thru them
and when my sister in law said no
he got on the floor and started pounding his legs and his fists and screaming as loud as he could
then he threw a pot and it nearly hit me in the face
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2007-01-27 14:33:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 66 year old Husband & I having taking care of my 82 year terminaly ill Mother. Is it wrong of me and my husband. to have My Mother make The arrangments for her own final resting place. Is this wrong of us

2007-01-27 14:27:33 · 7 answers · asked by gasp0111 1

Lately, my sister hasn't been eating much. Today, she had a can of root beer and three bites of a hot dog. Sometimes, she barely eats dinner at all! It's been like this for a week now. How can me and my parents convince her to eat more? Everytime we try to, it doesn't work!

2007-01-27 14:19:42 · 13 answers · asked by Kel Kel 5

2007-01-27 14:18:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father in law lives very near to my house . He is a major alcoholic and has VERY poor hygiene!! I can work all day cleaning my home,or cooking and having it smell nice and clean and the second he walks in the whole house smells like a nasty filthy BAR. He is and was a very nice man when clean and sober but, alcohol has ruined his life he basically lives to drink!! Every penny he has goes to beer and cigarettes.He has gotten where every night around dinner time he shows up and wants to eat because he has spent all of his money on beer!! I am soo sick of it!! My husband will not say a word to him except every once in awhile he tells him he needs a shower!! I do not know what to do I have said things like O.K. THIS IS OLD, but, my father in law does not have enough SNAP to realize he is not wanted here everyday!!! ANY SUGGESTIONS!! We are considering moving not just because of this but, this is one of the reasons!!!

2007-01-27 14:13:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple of years ago we stayed in a Disney hotel. Each room was like a minature apartment. Bedroom, kitchen, dining room, living room, bathroom, and 4 different closets. We rented two rooms, they had ajoining doors so the entire family could go back and forth from room to room.

Afterwards we talked about "winning the lottery" and building a house with these type of bedrooms. Where we could ALL live together under one roof. Have a big main living room, dining room, kitchen so we all could get together, or stay in our individual little apartments to get away from it all.

I think about it from time to time. Hope to win the lottery some day and BUILD such a house.

Would you build a house for your entire family? Or would you take the money and run away?

2007-01-27 14:11:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just need to ask...how do i deal with this issue...my sister loves to complain about every single little petty issue she has in life..i listen to her and i do things like shop with her...clean her house..run errands.....dye her hair give her a facial. I am a great sister and i am always there for her. But if i have one problem or one complaint she says it stresses her out or my problems like me saying gee things are not going good in Iraq i am worried about my hubby.....she says that traumatizes her? My parents baby her and they are her "yes men". They tell here what she wants to hear and not what she needs to hear! Therefore we all walk on eggshells around here because she is so "fragile". I am really annoyed and upset with her because she is very self centered and she thinks the world revolves around her. How do i deal with her? Please suggestions would be appreciated she is very difficult. Yesterday she was in tears because she was upset that she had to grocery shop!

2007-01-27 13:54:33 · 12 answers · asked by ♥queen b♥ 4

I have had my children for 9 mo and no relatives came forward until it was thought the mothers rights would be terminated. Now a court date was set to see if the children would be moved from my home to the relatives home, do I have any chance of keeping these kids if rights are terminated.

2007-01-27 13:46:11 · 5 answers · asked by ulrichrcb 1

my father has died recently and apparently according to my younger brother who is the executor has left nothing in his will for myself my wife and our 5 children the eldest my eldest son carries his name i dont understand can anyone help please.

2007-01-27 13:26:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Nice?Mean?Anything?

2007-01-27 13:23:42 · 22 answers · asked by Mel 2

I'm a thirteen year old, and deep down, I really love my parents. But they're not exactly the most cheery or affectionate of people. My mom has a bad habit of not answering questions or responding to me at all when I try talking to her, and my dad is always so depressed that whenever you talk to him, all he does is let out these deep, long sighs and moans that make me feel horrible- like I'm nothing but a burden to him. My dad also has a big anger problem and he's always clenching his fists or stopping himself from throwing chairs into the walls and such. Anyway, I'm seeing those bad qualities coming out of me. Lately I've been frustrated because of my parents and other problems that occur, and I clench my fists and feel like pounding on something or I get so messed up on the inside that whenever someone talks to me, I just sigh like my dad, and I probably make my siblings feel bad because of it. I also don't talk as much anymore, and when I try to talk- I have nothing good to say.

2007-01-27 13:23:09 · 11 answers · asked by Misswhatever 2

This is a long one and yes it really happened. I am now 20 and live in a dorm at New York University, but when I was maybe 16 or 17 something happened that I can't forget. First let me fill you in on the details. When my parents got married they lived in my dad's condo here in NYC, but my mom was a country girl and when her parent's died she wanted to move into their house in the country in upstate New York. It is a beautiful Victorian house in the woods about 5 miles from anyone, and it's gothic. My grandparents loved this house and mom wanted to keep it. So they moved into the house and had 3 kids, one is me of course. Nothing real strange about the house started happening until I was about 16 or 17, and only that one time...so far. I was in my bedroom and my parent's had gone out for their anniversary. My brother wasn't home because he was staying with his best friend, Tod. Tod and him were real close, not in a gay way though. It was just me and my sister, Julianna, at home. It was about 9p.m. Not late, but it was dark. To beat it all it started raining and lightning and the lights started blinking. So Julainna ran to my room and said that she wanted to stay with me. She was pretty young then. I told her it would be okay so I lit some candles and turned the blinking lights off. She calmed down and she helped me study for a music test that I was going to have the next day at school. Then after she had calmed down completely I took her to bed-around 9:45. It was still raining hard. So I kept studying and after I got finished with the music book I decided to try some pieces that my music teacher told us to study. It was very boring, so I started improvising and I made the piano vibrate cause I sometimes get roused up in the music. Then I heard my glass of water, or apple cider or whatever it was, fall. I thought that it fell because of the piano's vibrating, but it was on my nightstand on the other side of the room. I brushed it off. But I had to take the broken glass downstairs to the kitchen garbage. On my way upstairs I saw my sister had gotten out of bed and was in the family room cozed by the fire. She knew not to light the fire by herself, but she told me that she didn't light it, but I knew that we were the only ones in the house. I thought that she was lying, but I said nothing and went back upstairs. Then on my piano stand that holds music I seen the Turkish March by Mozart, I knew it wasn't mine. So I went downstairs and asked Julianna and she said it wasn't hers-I thought she was lying. So I put the fire out and told her to go to bed. She said okay and as she went up the stairs, I went in the kitchen to get some water. Then as I went upstairs again I saw that the music had been taken. I knew it wasn't her this time. When my parents got home I told them about it and mom said that the Turkish March was her dad's, my grandfather's, favorite piece. She thought I was playing a trick on her of course. Then as I was going to my bedroom I looked at our family picture. my grandfather was in it holding a piece of music, I never noticed it before because it was so small. I looked real close and seen the music he was holding was by Mozart. I thought "Oh Brother!" I was kindly scared, but not hysterical. I didn't sleep that much that night. The next day in school I sat near an open window in music class because I was hot- I get hot easily. Before the test the teacher said we could take a few minutes to look over the text. The wind blew and turned my books pages to the chapter about Mozart. Then a few seconds later it turned it to the one about Haydn(a classical composer). The thing about Haydn is that his first name was Joseph, and Joseph was my grandfather's first name. It made me wonder. I kept it to myself, who would have believed it?! So was it a coincidence? Was it just the wind? Was it my sister playing a trick on me? Then, a few days later or so, I remembered that Julianna told me that she didn't turn the fire on the other night when it happened. I asked her who did it, and she said that that never happened that she never went to the family room and that she never left her bedroom after I tucked her in. To this day, I don't like to listen to Mozart that much!

2007-01-27 13:19:03 · 14 answers · asked by Kreutzer 4

any real thoughts on this would be great. ive been with my bf nearly 3 years now we r living together and i have a little girl who he has taken on as his own, about 2 weeks ago i found out i was pregnant we are both very happy about it, but when he was going out with the girl before me she thought she was pregnant and he went and brought wedding rings because they was going to get married because that was the right thing to do in his eyes, it turned out she wasnt she was just late. (they were together 18 months) i have been with him 3 years and im defenatly (excuse my spelling) pregnant took 3 tests before i told him and got it comfirmed at the doctors, yet he has said nothing about marrige or getting engaged or anythink. why do u think that is. does he not love me as much as her or does he just not want to marry me. any sussegtions comments anythink to try and make me understand just a bit better would be very grateful

2007-01-27 13:17:09 · 25 answers · asked by sweetness_1984uk 2