Family - January 2007

My sister dated this guy for about two years and he used to beat her alot. She left him before Christmas 2006 but I think she is sneaking off to see him again and she came home the other day with a black eye. Is there anything I can do? We have a restraining order against him but it obviously isn't helping. Please help.

2007-01-27 13:16:45 · 24 answers · asked by lockheartpurple 2

Just while ago a boy said the worst things ever to me and now my parents are fighting and my dad says that he's moving out tomarow and im only 13 i cant do this any more how can I keep living like plz i need help any one plz help me plz

2007-01-27 13:15:49 · 5 answers · asked by dragoness 1

My aunt is very anti-social and won't accept hugs from me. I don't know how to warm up to her and it's just putting a dent in the relationship... =[ I want to be on good terms with her so... i don't know what to do.



(P.S. she is very impatient)

2007-01-27 13:15:42 · 5 answers · asked by charmed12184 1

Last night I was at my Mom's.I went in the kitchen and got a glass of Pepsi and went back and set down in the living room.Well, a few minutes later tmy step dad starts yelling saying "People come over here and don't empty any ice trays and thats just lazy"BLA BLA BLA.So I didn't say anything back to him and set there a few minutes and visited with my mom and cousins who were here from Oklahoma.I don't know about the guy, he's always saying something about what I do and I'm 35 gawldamn years old.My 3 year old acts more mature than he does.He acts like I sell drugs out of my house or rob banks or someshit.But I don't do anything but rasie my kid.Why do old people do that?

2007-01-27 13:06:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a lot f help for children that are abused (web sites, phone numbers etc.) But what do you do, if a parent is abused verbaly and mentaly BY his/her child/children? How do you proceed, what do you do?

2007-01-27 13:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by b.s. 4

I went through a couple foster homes then I got adopted. I never got along w/ this "dad". He was always mean to me and my brothers. My mom was nice though.

I never really had anything.. friends, a good education, good clothes.. anything.

I just want to be a happy strong person.. but i'm not.

My parents said they're counting the days still i'm 18. I've never had a b-day party.. and the friends I do have i'm losing b/c I never get to see them other than at school.

I tried getting good grades and staying out of trouble for my parents.. but everything I did was never good enough.

They wont even let me get a job or licence till i'm 18.

Me and my mom usually got along and she told me today she couldn't wait until I was 18 and moved out.

I feel so unloved. I feel like I have no hope. My bestfriend/ex is living w/ his new girlfriend and she hates me too. I'm always nice to everyone. What did I ever do wrong??? Someone please tell me..

2007-01-27 12:59:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am twenty-one years old. i still live with my parents and they are very strict on me. i feel like i am still sheltered by them. my mom holds all my credit cards..anything important she holds because she's afraid that i will loose them. she babys me too much and i hate it. how can i let go of her without hurting her?

2007-01-27 12:51:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister will not talk with me because I only visit her children once or twice a year. I live far away and have to take a plane to get to her state. She never comes to visit me.

2007-01-27 12:39:33 · 3 answers · asked by BR 3

I'm her youngest daughter, but her and I don't get along. I've tried, but it is no use. The other children don't see her for who she is. She lies, and twists things around, pulling them out of context to talk bad about others -- namely me. Has anyone else had a similar problem? I'm in my forties by the way.

2007-01-27 12:34:28 · 18 answers · asked by ruby s 1

Im working 16 hours a week and my sons father, who im no longer with, is on benefits... will he still have to pay child support to me?

2007-01-27 12:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont get it.....

2007-01-27 12:28:43 · 10 answers · asked by Pure_beauty_is _the_key 1

i am a 13 yrs old male and i am wondering if it is ok if i bathe with my brother sometimes becuz my mom wants to emm save water.{if can ans my other Qns =) }

2007-01-27 12:21:40 · 15 answers · asked by help me 1

My mama annoys me. I'm the oldest child and she treats me bad. She wants to control my life, which I'm sick of.

2007-01-27 12:17:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15, and i smoke...my dad pretty much KNOWS that i smoke, he hasnt caught me smoking but he saw a cup with ashes in it from me and he has noticed hes missing packs of smokes...i cant stop smoking...my dads a cool dad but i dont know how to tell him this, while sounding mature and not like a baby...any ideas?

2007-01-27 12:15:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

does a child really need to wear 200 doller jeans and would you buy them for your child just so they could fit in at school?

2007-01-27 12:06:13 · 29 answers · asked by Jeff B 3

Any Ideas????? Were going to open gifts and have cake but what should I tell the kids to do????? And any ideas on what I should get my grandmother?

2007-01-27 12:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-27 12:00:13 · 6 answers · asked by Ron C 6

2007-01-27 11:54:43 · 15 answers · asked by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4

I really need some help i have tryed to help her but every thing i and my daughter does it doesnt work
shes very rude with her mouth with every one she screams instead of talking to any one she always replys with NO NO every thing shes told to do PLEASE HELP i need caring answers if your answers are far out there dont bother THANK YOU

2007-01-27 11:50:08 · 11 answers · asked by darlene l 3

Tonight I found that my husband was searching online for porn....not just regular adult porn videos but he was typing in "teens" in the search field. I'm upset and will have to talk to him when he gets home from work. I'm concerned about this and I"m a pretty open gal when it comes to him watching sexy stuff in a book or something but this is really bothering me - the "teen" thing. I can hardly believe it but I don't really know how to approach him on this...any suggestions? (This sucks big time and I"m almost crying here) What does this tell me really? We are in our thirties and I don't understand why he needs to look at teens...we have a healthy sex life (or so I thought) and I"m hurt and upset. :(

2007-01-27 11:33:03 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet Potato Pie 2

About 7 years ago, I sent my daughter to Detroit to visit my family for Christmas during school break. Here in La she had 3 months off. My mom and sister stole her form me and went to court and got guardianship during her visit. they never called me or contacted me about any court dates. they just said they did notknow where I lived.

My daughter stayed a little longer cause of a winter storm. she was 13 at the time. during her time there in Detroit. she starting using drugs my youngest sister got her stated on weed. My daughter started using weed and cocaine, having sex and hanging out of motels and with other crackheads teens and adults.
They enrolled her in a school where gangs were where they beat her up with shoes and otther objects now she has seizures.
Today my daughter is 19 and pregnant still leaving in Detroit they made her lie on me but because she did things she would never do with me the judge granted her stay cause of her age. should I cut the lost?

2007-01-27 11:29:05 · 2 answers · asked by bbmodels2003 1

2007-01-27 11:28:37 · 18 answers · asked by heatherlynn 2

I'm 14, for a year I've hardly talked with my parents because I made mistakes and they were too harsh. they tried to get me back, I always refused, now they think we should have family therapy. What can I expect? Will the therapist be on my side? Will he say what I want to hear? Can my parents force me if I don't want to go?

2007-01-27 11:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well my mother says my untie is having my cusin, birthday don't know but the confusing part is my untie did it with my 3d cousin and now my 3d cousin is the father of my cousin that my untie is about to have, and they are trying not to tell her what happend, but should i tell her cuase she is my age and ithink it is time for her to know

2007-01-27 11:12:56 · 14 answers · asked by SwittieHeart 2

i know it and any diehard jackson fans will know

2007-01-27 11:10:52 · 4 answers · asked by lees 5

2007-01-27 11:06:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i juz lozt my house,my parantz dont wanna talk 2 me,im pregnant,i lozt my job and i got a warrant and my boifriend broke up w/ me!plus im haveing an affair wit my sisters huzband & she found out!& im a illegal hispanic wat should i do?

2007-01-27 10:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by beauty 3

I really want a job and I have all A's in school and I am very involved, but my parents think I am too involved and say they won't let me have a job. I need my own money to pay for gas and my own clothes, how can I convince them to let me have a job?

2007-01-27 10:46:26 · 16 answers · asked by Chelsea the Trackie 2

I asked her to move out of the house with her 3 kids because I knew moving him in was their next step,& since we'd been down that road before& I wasn't about to repeat it. Now she won't call me & doesn't answer my calls. It's been 6mos. & I've only seen my grandkids 2x. This has been hard for me since I was the one who provided childcare for them since birth & also my daughter & I had a pretty close relationship. I don't know how to fix this. She's never stayed angry at me this long. I tried to tell her I would not interfere in her relationship with her ex & would accept whatever she wants. I just want her to be happy & safe & my grand kids also. I really want to have some sort of relationship with my daughter. She's my only child & I miss her. PS. We had been discussing moving to seperate households in the near future anyway.

2007-01-27 10:44:46 · 10 answers · asked by Sandi Beach 4

Their annoying,all they care about is cleaning and remodling the house,making things look pretty and good grades...I mean,thats pretty much what me and my sister think.What do I do?Sometimes I get so stressed hearing them talk about s h i t like Oh your not doing your work,blah blah blah.When I hear that,it makes me feel really tired of doing what I'm doing at school and I'm not able to get better grades.Please help me...they'll cuss at me if I don't do chores and I'm so tired of cleaning my hamster cage today.

2007-01-27 10:43:46 · 3 answers · asked by Deanna 3