Family - January 2007

My grandson was taken from his father and we his grandparents without a warning. He was placed in a situation by his mother where we felt he was at risk. We contacted the CAS and they put a child protection order on him. And last week they took the baby from his mother and put him in foster care. We have had to travel several provinces over to attend court proceedings and now we find that we have to leave my son here until he can get custody, Can he get custody or should my husband and I try to get it. My son is very young, but is a good and caring father for his boy. What I need are some options to make Children's aid understand I started this to keep the baby safe and I feel he is safe when he is with us. His mother is not a good care giver and has alot of problems with many areas of life. Please give me some good advice that I can use to approach CAS and bring them around to our way of thinking quickly. I don't want to stay in another province til they sort it out. Thank you

2007-01-27 06:22:16 · 8 answers · asked by paulinesdaughter 1

2007-01-27 06:06:55 · 11 answers · asked by carrie g 1

Like if u get a babysitter that u trust and know [or a family memeber to watch the kids] and u go out and have some fun, like at a club or something? Every once in awhile??? But ur still a good mom, u just need a little fun to relive the stress???

2007-01-27 06:03:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my parents very much, but my mom seems to try and see what is going on when my fiance and I have an argument. My mom call a few days ago and she over heard my fiance giving me attitude (we had a little argument before my mom called) She said " well he doesnt have to yell at you like that" I told my mom it wasnt what we were talking about, but something else. I told her, "mom just stop, it is about something else" That seems to quiet her.

Now today she calls, makes small talk, and asks if my fiance is home. I told her no, he is at work. Then she brings it up again. She asks what was that about last night, him yelling at you and stuff. I told her it was nothing and it was between me and him. She said, Oh it isnt about that one issue you had a while ago is it? I said no mom, nothing to do with that. Then she says, well what is sooo bad that you cant tell me?? I said mom, it has to do with his work, they are being dumb about something. She seemed to sound that she was satisfied....

2007-01-27 05:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by TeraBytes 2

2007-01-27 05:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by ted n 1

on wednesday this week, i just got home from youth. and my mom went to the casino and when i went in the living room to get my sweater, my dad started bitching me out for everything that she did. so i told him the truth.... i didn't want to hear it. so i tried to go to my room, but he grabbed my arm and threw me out of his way i have bruises now, and then we got into it in my room 2. he threw me on my bed so hard i hit my head on the wall and it started bleeding. durring all this, i didn't even think of wat i was saying and well, i didn't even cry. and now i don't feel guilty, but inthe pit of my stomach i wanna cry and i cant i fell dead. what should i do?? i mean is this normal? i mean the tears will come to my eyes but i can't cry. how can i over comethis?

2007-01-27 05:34:31 · 5 answers · asked by Baby Raychel 2

me and my son lives with my mom due to financial bind. I take care of my son, I give the best way I can twards the house according to my paycheck, I help in any way to keep up the maintenance of the house(cleaning,paying bills, groceries, etc.)My mom does help me out with my son since I'm a single mother on top she does deal with diabetes and arthirritis. Even though she is functional,she has her moments when she doesnt feel good and I feel she tries to make me responsible in making her feel better. If she is hurting no mater what time of day or night if im sleeping or what ever im doing she wants me to massage her. That is just one thing I dont like to do but for the most part I just do it because I dont want to hear her mouth, she gets upset and try to put a guilt trip on me and makes sure she brings up the things that she has done for me and make me feel like Im disrepecting her because i dont want to do it. am I wrong because I dont like massaging her, Is it a sign of disrespect?

2007-01-27 05:25:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

how long would you grounded you kid if they stoll money out of you bag?

2007-01-27 05:08:54 · 20 answers · asked by clarissa d 1

like they have in the circus

2007-01-27 05:06:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

There were a lot of boys in my family and then me. So in a way, I was a favored child, being the only girl. I was very bright and strong and could do just about anything well that I tried. The brother in question is less than a year older than I am. I think he felt over looked. He also has a learning disability. We fought as siblings do, but always made up when we were young. After being abandoned by our mother, he turned against me with a vengence. He was 9 and I was 10. A year later, our Dad died and it got even worse. He blames all his woes on me. Gave me a long list of offenses like - my friend said something to him that hurt his feelings when we were kids, or that I used to pound on him when we were little, or that because I got good grades, I made him feel stupid. He says he hates me. We are past middle age now and this only came out a few years ago. Now he won't speak to me! What can I do?

2007-01-27 04:58:34 · 22 answers · asked by Pru 1

I love my sister, but she is so moody and controlling. The thing is, she can be in a bad mood whenever she wants, but no one else can. She does things that she would get on me about. Like as soon as our mom gets home from a long shift, she demands, "I want us to go shopping." That's the type of selfishness my sister loves to rag me about. My sister ALWAYS has to be the one who's inconvenienced or the one who is scolding, not the inconveniencer or the one being scolded. A few months ago, she accused me of having a bad attitude about her borrowing something of mine (you can't do anything with her unless you're kissing her *** to the extreme). She overtalked me and slammed her door in my face. I threw it open and she attacked me. She shoved me against the wall and slammed my head against it. I had hair missing. I love her and we have good times, but I'm sick of her hypocrisy and unwillingness to ever be wrong. It's starting to put a strain on me! What should I do? She's 23 and I'm 19.

2007-01-27 04:41:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-27 04:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by Damian S 2

is there any way to kiss my girl?
when i start to kiss her my saliva always run out?
is there anyone can sent me a instructions or clip for me to learn.

2007-01-27 04:24:05 · 16 answers · asked by steven 1

my dad treats me like im steel 10 but i just want him to get that im 15 not his little girl

2007-01-27 04:19:20 · 19 answers · asked by little lexi 1

2007-01-27 04:19:15 · 3 answers · asked by CrazyCanuck 2

Im 17. My parents, especially my dad, are always antagonizing me for no reason, just because they know it upsets me. My dad always finds a way for me to feel like absolutely nothing. We were watching a movie, and there was a BEAUTIFUL skinny girl, and my dad looks at me and says "you'll never be like that". just like that. blunt and rude.

he makes me feel like theres nothing i can do to make him happy or even proud. and my mom, she lets him do this to me, and she even joins in.

there have been times when i was younger when i would try to find ways to kill myself. i've grew out of that and realized theres more to live for, and my parents wouldn't get the best of me.

i dont know what to do. i am afraid to tell someone that would be able to do something. like the cops? i dont know.

it stresses me out so badly. i had to go to the dr because all i want to do is sleep to avoid my parents. and my parents think im sick.

i dont know what to do. someone help?

2007-01-27 04:16:50 · 2 answers · asked by MissJennyNicole 2

2007-01-27 04:11:33 · 5 answers · asked by Jennifer E 1

2007-01-27 04:10:56 · 37 answers · asked by alan 2

ok,maybe i'm kinda exaggerating
but i really think nobody will remember me when i die.it's just a thought that passed through my mind but that's that.maybe it's because i don't talk much which makes people don't care about me.my parents, they treat my right, but i don't feel i belong to them. there are times when i just wanna be like my younger sis. she's hot,kind,talkative and everybody likes her. she can charm every1. and my other sister,she's really pretty and kinda aloof.people around her thinks she's mysterious,they want to get to know her better. then there's my bro. he's also good looking,has talents especially in music.
but me? i'm nothing. please advise me b4 i do anything stupid!anything will do

2007-01-27 04:10:55 · 3 answers · asked by nadya chan 1

2007-01-27 04:10:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a adult child who has a history of drug use. I would like to have a contract to encourage him to stay clean. This may be his last chance. Can anyone help!

2007-01-27 04:10:31 · 7 answers · asked by outlaw2ftw 1

2007-01-27 04:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna ask about which thing ?

2007-01-27 04:06:34 · 21 answers · asked by ashish g 1

2007-01-27 04:04:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 17 years old and my brother is 20...the other day he asked me to make him a cd and so i did..the next day he asked me to make him another one with the same music on it cause he lost it and so i did. Today he asked me to make him another one cause he lost the other 2 and i said no cause i was doing something on the computer and i wasnt going to waste my CD's on that stupid music he listens to ..well anyways he beat the hell out me and my parents dont really do anything to stop him, my mom tries but my dad he's always at work and when he comes home he doesnt say anything to him or doesnt kick him out..what do i do?

2007-01-27 03:31:31 · 8 answers · asked by I'm the love you left behind 1

2007-01-27 03:29:05 · 14 answers · asked by imjustasteph 4

2007-01-27 03:21:42 · 8 answers · asked by kainoa20 1

Am I the good or bad son for getting mom, and dad back. I didn't get to enjoy both my parents while growing up. I did thou as an adult. It was like two high school sweet hearts all over again.

2007-01-27 03:19:10 · 10 answers · asked by russell c 2

I moved to this new neighborhood months ago, and I am the only black person around for blocks. All my neighbors are white, and at night sometimes they get together and talk like some sort of group. One night I was jogging and they were all standing in the driveway, I jogged past and waved, but instead of responding gave me a dirty look. This one lady told my little brother to stay away from her house. I am 16 and live with my mom and my brother. My dad died three years ago so I don't really have him to talk to. I asked my mom if we could move but she said no. What should I do? I don't feel comfortable outside anymore.

2007-01-27 03:17:05 · 19 answers · asked by SWAY 2

he wants me to cut my hair but i don't want to

2007-01-27 03:16:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous