Family - January 2007

My mom passed away tonight at the dinner table. She was an angel loaned to the earth for 83 years. She had sent me an email yesterday and on the 15th sent the full text of Psalms 139. I wasn't expecting nor ready for her to leave. I wish I could have said good-by.

2007-01-26 14:11:49 · 5 answers · asked by lindakflowers 6

She signed up for the Army but was refused on reporting day because she intentionally gained weight and didn't meet standards (her method to get out of the commitment). She then signed up for college, with scholarships she was awarded the cost was 0. She quit going and instead went to boyfriends house and slept all day with him. She has been fired from every job she's had except one. Very little motivation in looking for a job. Stays out with boyfriend to all hours; sleeps till 4:00-4:30 daily.
Won't pitch in and help around the house, has only done her laundry 2 times in 2 months, bathes infrequently. No signs of drug/alcohol abuse. We gave her 30 day notice Jan.1 to change and attempt to better herself or be gone from our house by Feb.1; she and boyfriend think we are unreasonable. He is 25 and works part-time midnight shift as a fast-food diner waiter. Are we unreasonable and any suggestions on this??

2007-01-26 14:00:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband wants to move to Colorado where his whole family is. I like colorado but i am from California, and I will be leaving my mom and sister, who I am very close to. it seems like there are all these signs pushing us to move, but I want to do the right thing. Some advice?

2007-01-26 13:54:32 · 3 answers · asked by Jenny M 2

have anyone ever asked themselves why their father is not in your life even when you left the same state that he was in with you? because i recently gone away to college but it doesn't matter really because my father has never been a father to me but i never going back their to see him and every day i moving on in my life and going somewhere else and he is still going to be their in michigan not caring about where i am or whatever?

the thing is i always wonder he didn't raised me because he wasn't ready, or he' confused, or maybe he wants to tell me what he really feels but thinks its too late and he failed?

2007-01-26 13:53:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since school started in the fall, my son's life has got really tough. His mixed martial arts gym closed down right after his first fight. He was kicked off the wrestling team for not getting along with the new coach. He used to have GPA of 3.5 or so, but his grade dropped down to around 2.0 GPA. Also we have been having a lot of conflicts lately about his college. He wanted to studies photography and fashion design or arts. We doesn't want him to waste his intelligent on those field or spend our moneys on field with low career avability. I know he took this to heart.

Today when I went in to wake my son up, I found a note on bed. He say he has left to travel the world. I and my husband went to the airport but cannot find him. We talked to lot of people we know, none of them have seen him. He doesn't have very many friends outside of the martial arts gym so we're sure he has went oversea. We're also suspicous he must have forged a passport since he's only 16.

2007-01-26 13:53:37 · 5 answers · asked by Naomi C 1

im 17 and my parents hate him b/c of his past but he has changed alot and they just dont understand... what should i do?

2007-01-26 13:50:55 · 15 answers · asked by lauren a 1

2007-01-26 13:50:28 · 2 answers · asked by XoXoGlitter 3

my twin sister hanna just had a malior brake up monday since then she has been in our room crying. she really loved him. i try to tell her there are many other people out there not just that one guy. please i really need help on comforting her. i really want to let her know im here for her. thank you all very much.

2007-01-26 13:46:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My late parents kept telling me that. Not any more. I do not miss them. I hated them for the way the did me.

2007-01-26 13:43:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 13:38:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father was diagnosed two months ago with liver failure. He is nearing the end of his life and Ifeel so lost already without him. When I look at him, I can't imagine life without him. He was and is my hero. How do you deal witit? Watching them suffering....wanting to help and not being able to do anything about it?

2007-01-26 13:31:59 · 18 answers · asked by heartwhisperer2000 5

My mom said she doesnt have to love me anymore and in the summer, she will send me far away to my aunt and uncle in Germany and I've never been in another country before besides the U.S.She said she doesnt ahve to put a roof over my head anymore and she doesnt have to care for me, and I cant eat her food unless I pay for it or do chores around the house.

She really hurt my feelings and I didnt do anything that bad to make her say that. I just forgot to feed our dogs and she had to yell two times but I didnt hear her because I was in my room with the music up loud. The final time she yelled for me, she fed the dogs by herself and she started to say all those things to me.

I slammed my door because she made me sad/ mad and she bursted open the door and started to say all those things becase I forogt to feed our dogs one time only. I was doing my project. Now in the smmmer, I'm moving to Germany and she's cancleing my internet and said I cant watch t.v. . I

2007-01-26 13:10:33 · 18 answers · asked by Romaian_masscare 1

How do I help my mother without destroying my relationship with my boyfriend. He doesn't want to give her money because it is not his job to support her. But I can't help her because I have no money of my own. She did this before and asked for money once and he gave it and then she kept on asking. Then she owed us like 2000 dollars. Now she wants more help. She paid off what was owed before, but now she wants more.!!!! Please help me. I really love him and don't want to lose him because of my mother.

2007-01-26 13:07:59 · 9 answers · asked by Jorge's Wife 4

DID YOU ALL EVER CHECK MORE INTO THE MAN WITH THE BOAT.I HAVE ALWAYS SAID THAT THE BOYS KILLED HER AND THE DAD HAD THE D.J. TO GO OUT AND DUMP HER BODY. I THINK THE D.J. AND BOAT OWNER WAS LET OFF THE HOOK TOO EASY. I KNOW THE HOLLOWAY FAMILY AND I HATE TO SEE THEM GO THROUGH THIS. I ALSO SAID FROM THE START THAT JUG WOULD DIVORSE BETH WITHIN A FEW YEARS. WHERE IS BETH'S SON? SHE IS A GREAT MOM. BETH DO NOT MISS OUT ON YOUR SON'S LIFE THOUGH, HE NEEDS A MOM TOO. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. BUT I AM SO SCARED THAT YOU ARE GREIVING YOURSELF TO DEATH. I KNOW I WOULD TOO. YOU HAVE BEEN VERY WELL LIKED BY SEVERAL OF MY FRIENDS IN JONESBORO AR. WE WISH YOU THE BEST. GOOD LUCK

2007-01-26 13:03:22 · 3 answers · asked by Kay Might help 1

I haven't seen my father in 27 years and have recently decided to start a search for him. My family has no information about him and he often used my mother's social security number when he lived in the U.S. He may not be a U.S. citizen and may live in Mexico. A google search of his name turns up seemingly nothing. Are there any resources that may help me in this search inside the U.S. or in Mexico? I am willing to pay for services. Thanks.

2007-01-26 13:01:19 · 1 answers · asked by drg424 1

I gave my mom some roses today to make up for a fight and she seemed so sad but in a way it also looked like she was happy! What should I really do to cheer her up? Because I'm moving out of the house the beginning of the month(2nd) so what should I do?

2007-01-26 12:57:03 · 6 answers · asked by firebabe1717 2

Should i ?
Double major in biomedical enigeering and music performance(20 yrs old will be completed) try a careeer in music if that does not work out go to medical school and and do residency become a surgeon i will be done by 28yrs old.......should i?

2007-01-26 12:48:48 · 4 answers · asked by Lady T 3

My mom and I got into a huge arguement and now, she's calling 3-4 of her friends and now she's talking about it. I'm in my room now and I slammed the door and I wanted to scream. Because of her, I'm going to have a bad reputation with my friends family and aunts and uncles and my mom's friend. She didnt have to tell everyone and everyone is proably going to tell their kids and husbands and wifes or whatever....

Isnt she wrong for that? She did not ahve to tell everyone, it's between us, its not anyone's elses matter and she's going off telling everyone...I cant believe her. I hate her so much right now!!!

2007-01-26 12:26:50 · 38 answers · asked by Romaian_masscare 1

the other day i was getting ready to take a shower and she takes the rugs out if thw bathroom because she doesnt want them wet, she says that i shouldnt get out of the shower all wet and stand on the rugs. that the rugs arent ment to be wet, but hello they are shower rugs. and she wants us to live out of boxes because she doesnt want us useing her closets because she has to much stuff in them. stuff she doesnt use and probaly dont remember she has. i dont know what to do should i say something to her about this and let her know it makes me fell like a child? oh yeah im 21

2007-01-26 12:22:03 · 27 answers · asked by trint_2004 1

Why is it that some people do not respect teachers and all they do? I understand that there are some people that should not teach. Also many people have had bad experiences in thier own school experience. What I can't understand is some of the remarks that people in the internet, in the community, and in schools make. For example one individual here stated that "teachers are people that can't get real jobs". What kind of crap is that?

2007-01-26 11:58:10 · 10 answers · asked by tigerlily23 3

my little brother always hogs the ps2 when he has a gamecube and i wanna play my ps2 what should i do

2007-01-26 11:53:13 · 13 answers · asked by Malik n 1

my stepdaughter is telling me "get out the house and i hate you and when you sleep one night your going to die!"

2007-01-26 11:39:48 · 8 answers · asked by duhbaby 1

Reply to this if you are a parent that doesn't like a screaming teacher yelling at your child.

2007-01-26 11:37:31 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

She posted a photo of my hubby (her brother) and our 2 yr old son on her My Space page. I wrote her a quick pleasant e-mail letting her know that I preferred that she keep my family off of my space especially my baby. So her immediate response is that she can post photos of HER brother & HER nephew if she wants and that it's non of my business. I have only met this woman once and I was blown away by her e-mail. Shall I continue the fight or just drop it. I think she might be nuts.

2007-01-26 11:17:13 · 23 answers · asked by Candy C 2

my eldest son has a problem with alchohol.A year ago he lost his driving lisence, his job, his girlfriend and his will to live.After a month in prison for failing to keep a probation order he is now trying to get his life back any suggestions from a devoted mother

2007-01-26 11:15:54 · 6 answers · asked by margaret e 1

I hate my mom so much!!!! She started yelling and I told her yelling isnt going to make it better for me [its only going to get me more madder] and she keeps yelling about retarded stuff. I just hate her so much, I wanna curse her out and move out of this retarded house forevver. She keeps yelling at me about feeding my dogs and pick up trash. OMG, I wanna smack her in the face and curse her out!!!??

2007-01-26 11:12:46 · 61 answers · asked by Pure_beauty_is _the_key 1

2007-01-26 10:54:42 · 7 answers · asked by Doodnauth P 1

How do I tell my parents I am moving out? And, moving in with a boy not a boyfriend. We are Army buddies we have been friends for 6 years or more. I'll be 18 in February still in high school. He is 17 will be 18 in May. I have the money to move out. I have 3 jobs plus the army. He has the army plus 1 job. How should i tell my parents? I'm a junior in high school. Please Help

2007-01-26 10:51:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay my parents are divorced and I live with my mom. She treats me like the princess I am because she syas I deserve it for getting good grades and not being like "BAD". But my dad seems to be kinda awkward. Okay this is my last year at my school and next year we'll all be going to different high schools so I wanted my birthday party (close to the last day of school) to be BIG! I wanted a moonwals and a DJ and barbecue but my dad was like no, u don't need that. And my mom was gonna get a cat for me but he says I'm not responsible enough. He dosn't even live with me and I have a stepsister who he treats better than me and my half sister ( we share dads) I wanna cry. Please help me!

2007-01-26 10:46:52 · 6 answers · asked by noella. 2

2007-01-26 10:42:54 · 6 answers · asked by jennifer 1