Family - January 2007

im a male 16 years old and desperate. I was forced to come back and live with my mom and her abusive drunk boyfriend because it costs too much to get guardianship papers to my uncle thru the courts. I cant live with my father because he is also a drunk. And I called the police on my moms b/f the other day because he called me names while he was drunk and he tried to assault me. My mom said she was kicking him out and now she has changed her whole tune and is talking to him and everything. I HATE HIM.. should I run away today after school....I need to get away for the weekend I need my space away from home.If I get picked up can I tell the cops my moms boyfriend is abusive and i dont wanna be there?

2007-01-26 04:57:14 · 22 answers · asked by creativebuddhism 1

I have two siblings. One sib and I talk at least two times a week. We talk to our parents a few times a week. The other sib never call or wants to talk when we call and only occasionaly talks with our parents. We would like to have a close relationship with this sib, but we feel like strangers.

2007-01-26 04:45:36 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 04:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by meily m 2

years old and my child's mother is currently pregnant again. I don't want to be with her. I never really did we weren't together when she conceived or when she gave birth I got into a relationship with her because my girlfriend, my true love, was devastatingly hurt by the situation re: my first child. Now shes pregnant again. My baby's mother is an ex stripper and has no money and she was on welfare. I love my ex and I want to talk to her and tell her she's right and that my baby's mother is only a gold digger looking for a way to nab a man. She's calculated, manipulative and mean. She hates my ex because she deep down knows that I truely love her. How do get my ex back.... I am a good guy who's just made some really stupid mistakes. I want my family but I want my ex. I know that my child 's mother will fight me to death because she's vindictive. My ex knows. Eventhough we haven't spoken she knows, she has a weird sixth sense on things like that. I want to be with and my 2 kids.

2007-01-26 04:00:15 · 10 answers · asked by dee dee s 1

So i am currently working as a part time nanny form 3-6 pm
I love the family and their son to death, they are awesome people but i got a full time job offer from another family full time working 55 hours a week. How can i brake the news to them without hurting them, i know they said a million time that they don't ever want to loose me as a their babysitter, so now i kinda feel so bad and guilty.
PLEASE HELP i would really appreciate it
THANKD!

2007-01-26 03:46:57 · 17 answers · asked by bcb 1

my brother seems to think that I am over serious, over senstive, over protective... anytime I say something he doesn't like, he retaliates with telling me I am one of those things. If I tell him not to be so rough with my kids, I am over protective. If I say STOP IT, then I am a b-i-t-c-h. It's like he's starting to live in my head. Even when he is not there.. I hear the critism.... What should I do. I can't talk to him about it or I am being a high maintence woman? What to do?

2007-01-26 03:41:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 03:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by deeksha 1

2007-01-26 03:38:49 · 13 answers · asked by deeksha 1

i wrote this poem last night about my father... i know i write alot of poems but anyways it's different than the other ones i've wrote. i want him to read it but i'm afraid of what he might say. please read it below and tell me what you think. if it's a good idea to send or not, thank you.

2007-01-26 03:28:34 · 30 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4

My upstairs neighbors and my friends (a young couple) have an elderly father/father-in-law who is on disability, and his son is officially his care-giver. Gets money from the state for it. So how is it giving care to Papa when they stay out all night and do not call to tell Papa where they are and how to reach them? It's 8:30 in the morning and they are not home. Papa is frantically calling the hospitals and the jails, the phone numbers he has of their friends. But what if they really do not come home? Or more, what should I say to them when they finally get home?

2007-01-26 03:27:38 · 21 answers · asked by auntb93again 7

how do you get most out of life when youve committed yourself to something and now you have to let that go so that you can be happy, whithout hurting all other people involved. why spend the better part of your life doing something you dont enjoy to come to the conclusion that you are waisting/spending your life doing something you dont enjoy and that makes you unhappy. but you know that changing it would absolutely rip the involved peoples harts to pieces.......what would be the nicest possible way to fix this....??????

2007-01-26 03:14:01 · 18 answers · asked by bubbles 1

I'm a choreographer and I'm considering doing a dance on the theme of sibling relationships. Tell me about yours! What makes your relationship special? Thanks! =)

2007-01-26 03:12:13 · 9 answers · asked by Heather-monster 2

My husband has a job offer in a city about 3 hours away. It would mean a big pay increase, which would be great for us. My mom is giving me an awful guilt trip. How can I get her to be supportive instead of "I guess I'll just pray hard that you won't move". I mean, come on, it's only 3 hours away. She's making me nuts. How can she be so selfish instead of glad we have this opportunity? Any suggestions how to make her understand that this is a good thing?

2007-01-26 03:07:53 · 13 answers · asked by Lotus 6

Several years ago(1974 or75) my Aunt had a little boy. He was placed in foster care because she was an alcoholic and neglected him. I met him only once. My Mom told me this that my aunt refused to allow him to be adopted and he possibly was bounced from foster home to foster home.

I think about him every once in awhile, I guess I want to know if he's okay etc. The other thing is that he may not be my cousin but my half-brother. I learned some info the other day from a family member that my "aunt" may actually be my biological Mother and my "Mom" is my actually my aunt.

If the above is true I don't think that my Mom would ever tell me.

2007-01-26 02:49:54 · 2 answers · asked by Taners 2

Im extremely close to my older brother who's 19, and I lookup to him because he always gives really good advice. But for the last few months when I've been getting more involved with these guys I know, I cant seem to go to my brother anymore. He has this habit of telling what I say, to my parents, who are overprotective. I want to ask his advice but now its like I have 3 parents, because he always sides with them. I want to tell him everything thats been going on with me lately, but Im afraid that he'll go running straight to my parents who will freak out ever though I havent done anything. (you know how parents can be) So what should I do? Take a chance and ask my brother for advice? Or keep it to myself, and not tell him anything anymore??

2007-01-26 02:42:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am underage so dont even say go to a bar.

2007-01-26 02:41:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a gurlfriend but im still in love with my ex what do i do cause i mean i love my ex with all my heart but i love my gurlfriend to.. Im so confused....

2007-01-26 02:36:23 · 9 answers · asked by kat velez 1

2007-01-26 02:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by vikram m 1

my sister will be 16 in the beginning of march. i hadn't been around for a few years but now we're talking and getting along fabulously. she's coming across state to see me at the end of febuary and i want to get her something special for her birthday showing her i care for her but also something she'd like. i know i'm giving her a poem i wrote... see below to read it and comment on that if you will. but what else would she like or any suggestions whatsoever?

2007-01-26 02:28:07 · 6 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4

Please, I need to find the cheapest way to find a dead beat dad. He is over $20,000 behind in his child support. The child support place doesn't seem like they want to help and they won't tell me where he is. My girls would like to know where he is so they can talk to him and find out what is going on with him. They are 15 & 16 yrs old and haven't seen or heard from him since they were 2 & 3. Any advice?

2007-01-26 02:27:50 · 14 answers · asked by DawnC36 2

2007-01-26 02:27:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you let them make fun of you now and then. If you let them laugh at you. Why is it that when you stand up for yourself you lose them. These people are supposed to be family...

2007-01-26 02:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-26 02:26:46 · 5 answers · asked by Orsky 2

My boss keeps referring to her boyfriends dad as her father in law. She's only been with hom for a year. Is this normal or is she just "too much too soon"

2007-01-26 02:18:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my evil step mother has three kids living with my dad and she spoils them and don't spoil my sister and i

2007-01-26 02:10:49 · 49 answers · asked by jackie b 1

My mum's dog died today...he was 13 and his name is Basil...never thought I would be this sad...I gotta tell my son now...he will be gutted...x

2007-01-26 02:03:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel sad. Like he died or something. He won't stop, he laughs at me when i ask for respect. I now am going to follow through by missing family get togethers. I feel sad. Did I do the right thing? He makes fun of me and picks on me in front of other family, in front of my kids, and alone. He won't stop wrestling with my kids when they say 'stop' or 'ouch'.. and when I tell him to stop, he doesn't. When stand up for myself or my kids, he lashes out at me and calls me names like stubborn, sensitve, serious, etc. He argues with me over my decisions in life as if I owe him an explaination. I have wrote him a letter because he wont' listen to me in person. He wrote a sarasctic email back, basically saying that I am wrong (again.. sigh). So I told him that we won't be attending family functions until he can respect bounderies... Did I do the right thing. He won't give in, I am sure.. .and if he does, he will never like me again.. we were kinda close when I played by his rules..

2007-01-26 01:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work second shift 4PM to midnight. My husband is home with our 4 children, ages 8-15. Every night my house looks like its been trashed. No one will put anything away, dishes are left with food stuck to them. I have tried "striking" but they are content to live like pigs. I clean a school, I do not feel like doing a major overhaul to my house [every night] after 8 hours of cleaning.

I have begged, pleaded, given positive feed back, etc to no avail.

2007-01-26 01:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Taners 2

I haven't seen my parents, brother or sister for over 2 years. I have seen my mother once. My mom and I communicate through email sometimes - when important family things happen. My parents play games and they show a lot of favoritism. I couldn't take the hurt and pain of how they treat me and my family any more. It hurt more having them in my life than it does by not having them in my life. I'm married and have 2 grown sons and 1 son who's 13. I also have 1 grandson. But I still feel like a manipulated child when I'm around them and that is how they treat me. I feel sad about walking away and wish I could be involved and included. I've tried everything and nothing has worked.

2007-01-26 01:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by minnie 2

what is a good communication?

2007-01-26 01:08:31 · 9 answers · asked by Priti Zaveri 1