Family - January 2007

I have a copy of the check that I used to pay my mother back and it was my mothers money to do with how she saw fit.

2007-01-26 07:23:31 · 8 answers · asked by sam 1

I also need suggestions on how to not become irritated when I'm speaking to my husband and he immediately divert his attention to the children if they call him...they are between the ages of 5-9.

2007-01-26 07:22:19 · 15 answers · asked by Oh Suhnny Day 3

what would that be called? are they related?

2007-01-26 07:22:04 · 3 answers · asked by mz. demps 1

2007-01-26 07:18:34 · 8 answers · asked by Jackie L 1

I lost my Mother four yrs ago to cancer when I was 24. The anniversary of her death is soon. Whenever I think about her, I just get very sad and angry. I don't sit and dwell on it everyday, but when I think about her I would like to not be so sad. When does this get better? I hope it does. I just wish she could know her grandchildren. I do my best to make sure they know of her.

2007-01-26 07:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by armywifetp 3

grrrrrr =[i hate it so much.my mom is soo strict,she doesnt let me do anything. I cant hang out often. but when i do - she asks me bunch of questions and stuff after i get home.and i have to sitt with her like for and hour and explain her everything. explain her where i was and what i did.she doesnt believe me what i say. never.so when i tell her something, she is being so dumb and asks the same question all over again. what the hell im allmost 16!!!
i cant dat, wear make -up, or do any other stuff what other normal teens do. but i do wear make up and have had bf, without letting her know.i hate my life so much.i dont know what to do.all i do is wrong for her.and she thinks im a baby.i have convos with her about that im not a baby anymore and blahh i need more freedom and all that.but she doesnt listen to me.grrrrr she says i can do whatever i want after 21..she acts like im her litttle daughter. grr
sometimes i just wan to say"oh shut the f*** up"!!!!!!
What shud i do? pls help.

2007-01-26 06:55:08 · 21 answers · asked by love<3 3

Okay, I am looking for people who have been or are going through the same thing to tell me how they cope/deal with their spouse hating your parents.

Background: My husband and father decided to go into business together, which I was strongly against. Things fell a part and my husband blames my father(which I can see that my dad did make poor choices) and feels betrayed. Now he says he can't be around them anymore. The reason it's so difficult is b/c we have a son(their grandson)and I am very close to my family.

The question is: Has anyone else gone through something similar and how did you handle it? How can I live 10, 15, 20 years with this tension?

Please don't write something ugly, I really am just looking for some unbiased advice.

2007-01-26 06:50:58 · 5 answers · asked by emrobs 5

they have been in my life for almost 4 years now and my feelings have not changed for them. recently my own daughter has come to live with us and now the youngest step kid hates my guts. I wish i knew why she feels like that about me. My kids are here all the time and most of the time they are grounded because of their actions and the things that they do. my step kids are only here a few times a month. my step kids are the world to me. i have even told their dad that i wanted to get their names tattooed under my kids' names. they are like my own kids...we may not be blood but we are still family. in my heart they are mine. in my soul they are mine. i would die for them just like i would die for my own kids. how can i get them to see how much they hurt me when they say and do mean things to me???????????? I love them so much but i do not think they care, i think they just want their dad away from me

2007-01-26 06:49:08 · 16 answers · asked by leo07 1

My daughter(12) likes to take my son (5) swimming, but he's too young to change by himself. She doesn't mind changing in front of him, but a few of the older ladies in the change room apparently are a bit uptight about it.(Most aren't)
What should I do? It's far easier for her to go with him after school than it is for me to leave work early to take them.

2007-01-26 06:45:55 · 9 answers · asked by MikefromKingston 2

my husband has beed divorced for 5yrs and his exwife never lived at this address,she does not even live in the same town as us.about 4 or 5 times a month we get her mail(mostly junk mail) but why?my worry is my husband in his haste to get away from his crazy ex "overlooked/forgot something" like take her name of something of his.or worse yet she has his name on something of hers.is there anyway we can find out why we keep getting her mail?shes very nasty so asking her is out we would not get a truthful anwser.also my husband still gets mail once in a while addressed to him and her together.why after 5yrs is this still happening?i know this is a minor thing but i'm just fearful there maybe a bigger problem we dont know about

2007-01-26 06:43:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands Grandmother passed away, and we have to attend her visitation and funeral on Sunday and Monday. The problem is-I don't like his parents or sister and the feeling is mutual, and I don't think they like my hubby (their son). They didn't call him when he was in the hospital 3 weeks ago and they didn't get our children anything for christmas and havent called anyone or talked to us in 7 months. I just know this situation is going to be uncomfortable. I don't want to be rude to them but I don't want it to seem as I am going to be too friendly to them. In fact I like the fact that we have nothing to do with eachother, my husband says that they don't like him and therefore don't like his wife and kids either. Someone please give me some advice as how to act without being rude or too friendly, and some things to say to them, besides HELLO, how are you. Thanks.

2007-01-26 06:40:57 · 7 answers · asked by Premo Mom 5

I realize that it seems young but I am very mature and advanced for my age. I have an amazing b/f and im having alot of trouble at home with my mother and such. Please give advice or tell me your experiences!

2007-01-26 06:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my g/f and i have been dating for about 4 and a half yrs, she's 29, im 22 and a half. About 2 weeks ago she informed me that she was preg and will be keeping the baby. she was on the pill the whole time we were dating (allegedly) so i never used a condom or any other type of birth control. i have a few reasons why i think she got preg on purpose the main one being that i ran into a friend of hers yesterday who congratulated me and said she was happy for us b/c "she knew how much my g/f wanted a baby" which was news to me! i just graduated from college and have a good job now and my g/f has been out of college for 7 yrs so financially this isnt a problem, i just am in no way ready to be a dad b/c of the huge change that bringing a child into the world will have on someone's life. just a few month ago she and i were talking about how neither one of us is ready for marriage yet so that isnt an option. on top of this, my mom is gonna kill me! any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanx.

2007-01-26 06:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and what would ya do??

2007-01-26 06:38:22 · 51 answers · asked by spike 3

I have a sister that I have helped out over and over again and she always lets me down. The last incedent with her i decided to cut her off and I haven't really talked to her in a long time. Now I need some help and my mother suggested that I call my sister because she could help me out with my situation. I don't want to ask her because I feel that it would be wrong to call her after I have cut her off and have ignored some of her calls for 2 years. DO you think it is my pride or me trying not to be wrong?

2007-01-26 06:30:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister says the same thing over and over, what gives?

2007-01-26 06:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by arum 3

I am now filing as single, no dependents.

2007-01-26 06:19:32 · 2 answers · asked by Biersch 1

The things in my house are so rough. My mother, brother and I fight constantly and the fights are always bad and things get broken. She is currently out of a job, so little by little all of our belongings are being taken away. We rarely have food money and never have any extra...But i am only 16. When do i leave because i dont think I can take it here anymore.

2007-01-26 06:18:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad is always cool but just recently he has done loads for me and my family. He has helped me set up my own business, helped us with various things around the house and has helped us financially quite a bit too (which I am paying back as fast as my little leg will carry me!). I am trying to think of a way to say a really big Thank You to him as is doesn't seem enough just to say it. Any ideas? (as you may have gathered we're not in a great finaciel position at the moment so nothing crazy expensive please!).
Cheers.

2007-01-26 06:17:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father was a cold, demanding, sometimes abusive man. When I was 8, he drove off (with my sister in the car) and left me in a parking lot for ten minutes because I was having a temper tantrum. When he died, my life improved so drastically, but my sister doesn't remember any of the bad parts. She is always talking about how wonderful our father was and how much she misses him. Now she wants us to travel oversees to visit his grave and I don't want anything to do with him. I've forgiven him for what he was, but I can't love him. How do I make my sister understand that I don't love him, without losing her?

2007-01-26 06:09:08 · 16 answers · asked by Chel 5

my sister is going to universiaty soon and i was going to make a photo album of pictures of me and here as i only have 1 so i asked my mum for a few photos because she has like 10 boxes of them and shes "like no theyre too precious" what can i do my mum has been in a foul mood ever since she had me and my sister and i only have 1 photo of me and my siter what can i do?

2007-01-26 06:01:08 · 5 answers · asked by rockchick 1

Im constantly fighting with my little sister shes 8 im 12 we argue wat should i do?

2007-01-26 05:55:41 · 3 answers · asked by Amanda L 1

has to be a surprise to!!!!

2007-01-26 05:51:59 · 3 answers · asked by the_mamasita_sur13 1

my son doesnt even know him. Now my sons dad swears that he wants things to be different and he wants to get to know his son, my son is almost 4. My sons dad wants his family back, but is it fair to get back with him?? The woman I have been with for 3 years has always been there for my son and I. Not sure what to do. Any advice would help thanks so much...

2007-01-26 05:43:22 · 13 answers · asked by Dolphin 2

2007-01-26 05:40:08 · 11 answers · asked by Pancake 7

Have you done anything really different and put your own "title" on it? Their reaction?

2007-01-26 05:38:02 · 19 answers · asked by Pancake 7

PLEASE contact me if you know a mary jane johnstone she is my sister and i have never met her!! i have done everything to find her but she is high profile so i cant pleeeease help me!

2007-01-26 05:28:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter has never slept through the entire night. She is now one year old and still wakes up at least twice. Is this anyone else's experience?

2007-01-26 05:25:57 · 24 answers · asked by Dane Cruz 5

My boyfriend and i have been dating for two months now and i have already meet his mom, dad, sister, grandmas and grandpa i was just wondering if that is bad after just two months of dating?
Can you help?

2007-01-26 05:25:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is pregnant again by another man other than my first two grandhildren's father. It is not the future life of the baby, but the fact that she is pregnant by a man who has no job. She was suppose to be going back to school and starting on her cd. I just wonder what is her brain. I am aware that a baby doesn't stop anything. I am just asking for help understanding why?

2007-01-26 05:04:46 · 16 answers · asked by LOLO W 3