I gave my mom some roses today to make up for a fight and she seemed so sad but in a way it also looked like she was happy! What should I really do to cheer her up? Because I'm moving out of the house the beginning of the month(2nd) so what should I do?
2007-01-26 12:57:03 · 6 answers · asked by firebabe1717 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well I did say sorry for everything even for past things an in my heart I guess it's not enough to me! Or for her!
2007-01-26 13:08:16 · update #1
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ann.w0ZVEafccDlQ2JTA.lPsy6IX?qid=20070125052756AAza3NU
This is what I did to her it explains everything and YES I know I was being immature but I don't act like that ALL the time!
2007-01-26 13:09:46 · update #2
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AruNkLJ8kG1cvHRLX77g7rjsy6IX?qid=20070125145654AAcpN8M
This is what she wrote about it and it makes me very upset so ya!
2007-01-26 13:11:10 · update #3
You mother loves you very much and surely she forgives you for whatever happened: what was said and done. And you need to forgive her too and also for yourself. It was so great of you to apologize and to give those flowers. It is hard for her to let you go. I am sure she appreciates the flowers but she rather had you staying.
We all make mistakes. It is important to learn to say "I am sorry" as often as necessary. It is important to give apology and accept it too. Your mom will miss you so much but this is the time that your relationship can go to the next level. You can talk on the phone. Your mom will give you advice that will not harm you. Your friends might suggest unwise shortcuts, your mom will never take risks of you being in harms way. Do not get upset for your mom's words, put them in your heart..remember that she is also a human being. It is better if we learn to get angry very slowly and forgive fast.
You are turning a new leaf in your life. You need to let old you to grow up. You need to leve your childish ways behind and be a spouse to your boyfriend.
( I was born into a Chrstian family and I believed in God. When started to be at your age, it that was an ideal time for me to question God's Word and how accurate it is in this changing world..because I wanted to do things my way. My life was great from the outside, but years later I realized that I do not have to agree and to be introduced to the new ideas..I needed to be reminded of the old ideas. The ones that can save me. It was just I did not reocognize that I needed to be saved. I found me a wonderful non-denominatonal Christian church where the Bible is the center of the teaching. I relaized that I fall short from the glory of God but God loves me anyway and He provided me a way to His house. I accepted that gift. I still fall short, royally. But I put my trust in Lord in every circumstance.
The church is a hospital for sinners. It is a great thing if you try to find you a church home. Look around and make your choice where you are fed spiritually. Do not follow religion, follow Jesus. That helps you to cope with life. Because it is not if you are going to have problems, it is about when. )
You are doing the right thing to try to make it right between you and our mom. Stay calm and follow your heart. Guilty feelings follow us, do not let it rob your peace. Good luck on your journey.
2007-01-27 03:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by SeeTheLight 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how bad it makes you feel when you disagree.
tell her how much she means to you and she should be happy that she did a good job in raising you, that you are able to be self-sufficient. Let her know this is just a new path your life is taken and you still need her to be there. Make sure you call her and keep including her in your life.
2007-01-26 21:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chloe 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
always be their 2 help her. do extra chores, smile, and dont hav a fit. since its valentines day soon make an extra special gift for her. HANDMADE cards and something that will bring memories to her when u leave.
2007-01-26 21:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to her,tell her that you think is time for u to move,explain to her that no matter how far you are you are going to be there for her. tell her that you love her and that u are greatful for everything she has done for u.tell her that u are sorry.
2007-01-26 21:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by ana u 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she is you mom and ofcourse she loves you and going to miss you coz your leaving her... just talk to her and promise her that you will visit her every weekend and keep in touch with her and tell her you love her soooooo much..
hopefully she will smile again =)
2007-01-26 21:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Princesa De Muerte 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you are sorry and that yopu are going to miss her when you move out
2007-01-26 21:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by N.a.t.a.l.i.e. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋