my twin sister hanna just had a malior brake up monday since then she has been in our room crying. she really loved him. i try to tell her there are many other people out there not just that one guy. please i really need help on comforting her. i really want to let her know im here for her. thank you all very much.
2007-01-26 13:46:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Im a twin so I KNOW what you are going through. My sister cried and was depressed for a month. I was upset because I felt like that he took a part of me as well...my best friend. All you can do for now is just let her cry...she'll be ready to open up after a while to discuss her feelings. Then you can sit down, pop popcorn and watch Cluless for laughs. It worked for me.
2007-01-26 19:14:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jujuchi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most folks don't get it about twins. I have twin sisters, so I have learned. You know what to do.
1. remind her YOU love her
2. sympathize, briefly
3. go get her favorite comfort food (I'll bet you know what it is)
4. now tease her (nicely), until you make her smile, even if she cries at the same time.
Repeat as needed
PS Next time she really ticks you off(as only twins can), remember this time, and how hard it was to see her hurt.
2007-01-26 14:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by Gordon M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit down down next to her. If she is crying so troublesome, she would possibly no longer even observe. only rub her lower back in comforting way, and tell her that its okay to cry. She probable rather enjoyed him, so do no longer bag on him. only say that issues like this ensue, and that she must be reliable. compliment her! attempt to make her chortle..thats continuously the terrific way..
2016-09-28 01:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by heusel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you are there for her when she is ready and give her some space. She will not grieve forever but some of us grieve better alone!! We want to wallow in our own self pitty for awhile. Give her time and she will start to come around.
2007-01-26 13:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her u r there 4 her. Don't sweat her. Give her time 2 heal. She'll get over it eventually.
2007-01-26 14:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by TrayLuvsJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her make mad, passionate love to you boyfriend and see if he can tell the difference. That way you'll make two people happy. What a nice sister!
2007-01-26 13:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dress her up, call up the girls and go for a night out. Who needs a guy when you can chill with your girls?
2007-01-26 13:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by SN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her mind off the fellar...how about go to this site and print posters of good lookin fellars or draw em .
http://www.allposters.com
2007-01-26 13:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it will take some time she will get better and if she really loved himshe would know that there is other people out there for him bye
2007-01-26 13:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by Raelinda F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋