I hate my mom??????!!!?

Question

I hate my mom so much!!!! She started yelling and I told her yelling isnt going to make it better for me [its only going to get me more madder] and she keeps yelling about retarded stuff. I just hate her so much, I wanna curse her out and move out of this retarded house forevver. She keeps yelling at me about feeding my dogs and pick up trash. OMG, I wanna smack her in the face and curse her out!!!??

Should I move out or something? Me and her havent gotten along a few months and I just ahte her so much. She yells about stupid stuff and yells at me in public.

Answer 1

sorry good luck

Answer 2

Wow, that is a really strong statement, I am curious how old are you? If your old enough to be on your own then absolutely get out of her house, and if it is your dog feed it, if your not old enough to move out, then I take it your not old enough to get a job yet either, thus meaning your mom and/ or dad pays for all your care, and feeds you. How would you feel if your mom didn't feed you? I lost my mom a long time ago, and It really bothers me that someone could hate their mother that much to wish they were dead, it isn't a bad thing to have responsibilities it will actually (in the long run) Make you a better person! I would like to add too if your old enough to be on your own and are still living w/ your parents, and not paying any of the bills, then this would be a wonderful way to show you appreciate being in a house that you are kept warm, able to take showers, eat, sleep, drink, and possibly have all the unnecessary things like the computer you typed this message on, the TV you get to watch and the clothes you want and they get...hmmmmm can't be all that bad! If you don't do the easy chores and can't do what your asked then your not going to make it in the real world because you think your teachers and parents are bad, wait till you get a boss! Good luck! TJ

Answer 3

Well you can start by getting a job and paying for everything by yourself. Then attempt to find an apt on minimum wage in a neighborhood you wont get shot up in ( good luck on that one) then sit there at night worrying your going to get stabbed, eating your ramen noodles that you have eaten for the last month and drinking some more yummy water, and watch that good old 3 channels you get cause ya cant afford cable slinging mickey D's. Hope the bus runs well, maybe one day you can afford a bike. Hows that sound, and you want all that because you are to much of a simp to do some basic chores to help out the woman that is feeding, sheltering and taking care of you. Maybe if you got off of your butt and helped she wouldnt be such a raving lunatic! Grow Up!!!!

Answer 4

well I assume that most of this is anger, anger speaks volumes but has no real meaning. I also doubt that this is all that you are angry about, there is alot of anger built up in you I can see it. I will not pretend to know your life or even how old you are, but I can assure you that there has never been any meir mortal who has escaped this feeling of outrage, even many parents feel this way. The first thing you should do is write a letter, as long and as mean and as profane as you wish, list all the detains that you dislike about your mother, however do not send this letter. Next get together with some friends of yours and Role play, take on the role of your mother, make her out to be the biggest meanest ***** in the world if you so wish. If these two do not help I would recommend a councilor. Moving out is a very drastic option used for people who have absolutely no hope left.

Answer 5

To get her to stop just do what you are told. The house is not retarded. It's the people inside the house. Feed your dogs and pick up the trash. Don't be a lazy kid. Use your smarts. Do what she wants you to do and she will leave you alone. Next time she yells just ask her in a nice tone and say " Mom, there is no need to yell or raise your voice. Let's act like adults ." Watch her reaction.

Answer 6

In a way that is a parents job...but I can tell were your coming from, just give it some time and try to change your attitude toward her instead of yelling at her, just calmly do what she asks, or just feed your dogs and take out the trash without being told, parents like to see their child acting responsible.
Hope you two will start getting along.

Answer 7

Although it is hard to see this now take it from the voice of experience my mom and I used to fight SO much I thought she just wanted to keep me from having fun and making my own choices. I haven't lived with my mom now for almost three years and there is not a day that goes by that I don't miss her and wish I had enjoyed my time with her more and now that I have a son of my own I understand why she told me everything she ever told me. See moms have already made all of the stupid mistakes that you want to make and whether you see that at the time or not your mom is the one person you can count on to not ever do anything to intentionally hurt you. So take a deep breath and hang in there if I could do it over again I wouldn't have moved out until I had atleast finished my A.A.

Answer 8

How old are you? because you sound about 3. You said she keeps yelling at you to feed "YOUR" dogs and picking up trash? am I to assume that it is "YOUR" trash also? This is called responsibility, something you don't seem mature enough to understand. You want to move out of the retarded house, Do you have a way to support yourself? like a job, where you can pay rent, utilities, food, cloths,? And then you would have to work, clean house, pay the bills,cook,take out the trash, and feed "YOUR" dogs.
And if my child ever cursed me out or slapped (Or even acted like she would) my face , after my child got up off the floor,she/he would find themselves in juvinile hall ( I don't play with violent kids) and the dogs would be at the humane society.
Grow up and take responsibility

Answer 9

I don't think that you really hate here. Just think what would you do if your mom died? you would hate the fact that you ever said any of those things to her, and the rest of your life you would remember that the last thing you said to your mom was not nice at all. Maybe your mom is just going through some hard times.Just try to talk to her with out getting into an argument.
You should do the thing that she ask you to. But me and my mom got into an bad argument before but all I had to do was talk to her, she still gets on my nerves and I will be moving out soon, but we get along most of the time.
If your old enough to move out go ahead and stay out on your own for a while, then she will realize how bad she made you feel.

Answer 10

It's true that everyone feels like they "hate" their mom or dad at one point. Hey, I don't even talk to my mom. I wish things were different between us, but I can't change her past actions. (my parents are divorced and both are remarried) Be grateful for what you have. She's going to yell and scream. Blow off some steam. Scream in a pillow. Punch your bed. Write a hate letter, save it till you cool down, and then read it later. I do that and it usually makes me realize how different I can be when I'm angry. Just make sure you destroy the letter. Not only is it saftey measures so you don't hurt anyone's feelings, but it is also because it gives you a sense of letting go. I probably sound like some fruit of a shrink, but I'm telling you this because it works.

Answer 11

first of all I'm sorry that this is happening. second, you have taken the first step toward doing something about this. talking. sometimes things are not as they should be between us and those we love. sometimes pain and dysfunction runs deeper
than we realize. but please, don't hate, it will not gain you anything.
if you are living in her house, realize that it's her house and she can do whatever she chooses. but just because it's her house does not mean that she's right. so. if you know that she is going to yell at you about certain chores, try to same sure that they are
done so she won't have a reason to bother you. and if she wants to argue, ignore her. you will be surprised how silence can speak volumes even when a person is rattling off.

lastly, if you are an adult and are employed, save your money
and find your own apartment , peace of mind is the best thing for
you. but always love your mom. even if it's form a distance.