She posted a photo of my hubby (her brother) and our 2 yr old son on her My Space page. I wrote her a quick pleasant e-mail letting her know that I preferred that she keep my family off of my space especially my baby. So her immediate response is that she can post photos of HER brother & HER nephew if she wants and that it's non of my business. I have only met this woman once and I was blown away by her e-mail. Shall I continue the fight or just drop it. I think she might be nuts.
2007-01-26 11:17:13 · 23 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Fight her, because you are justified in asking for your privacy. She is acting like a spoiled child by not honoring your wish. In this day and age, you NEED to protect your family from who knows what out there. You are in the right and your husband needs to stand up there with you as you hammer this out with your sister in law. GL
2007-01-26 11:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by Hushyanoize 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried over such trivial things like Myspace pics? People in the real world don't sit at home and think about Myspace pictures all day. And who cares what your EX-sister in law is doing? That's why she's an EX!!
2016-03-29 04:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue it. Have your husband talk to her
while i am a fan of myspace, there is so much out there that could come back to haunt the users (yes, even me)
I have heard of cases where kids are stalked via family webpages. I am sure this could happen over myspace.
While it seems a bit far fetched or over precautious, its better to be safe than sorry.
if it doesnt work, write to tom at myspace. See if he can take it off for you, seeing as its your underaged son.
2007-01-26 11:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a tough one... Since you're the mother of the child I would think you have the right over allowing your baby's photo on the Internet or not. However, I don't really know how you can get it, or make her, get it off of MySpace.
Personally, I would just drop it- it's not worth making a huge fight over. I have a two-year-old and I have pics of him on my MySpace. However, I can totally understand some parents not wanting pics of their kids online.....
Have you tried getting your husband to talk to her? Since it's her brother and she knows him better, maybe she would be more willing to listen to him.
2007-01-26 11:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your hubby deal with it. Besides, you do not want to get into a fight with a sister in-law trust me. It will make it hard for your husband because he is cause between you and his sister. The last thing, you want to create more problem between you and your husband where he feels that he needs to take side.
2007-01-26 11:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by solitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as for your husband, I think that's up to him whether or not she has pictures of him so you two will have to find out how he feels. Your son though, she doesn't get an opinion in that. If you don't want pictures of him on there then she should take them off. If she wants to put pictures of herself on myspace that's fine, but for other people, she needs to check first...She had no right to respond like that.
2007-01-26 11:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by coldasyou213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say if it really bothers you continue it. it is your son and he is a minor you have every right to say you do not want his photo all over the internet. i feel so bad for you though i have a crazy sister in law too who fights about everything and has some crazy story of her life in her head that she raised her brother and blah blah blah. she's a nutcase because nothing ever happened. good luck with this and everything else you face with her in the future!!!
2007-01-26 15:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually she CAN post them without permission if they are HER photos. If you or your husband gave her the photos they were a gift and what one does with a gift is of their own choosing. If she wants to post the photos anywhere online she can do so because they were a gift. In the future, don't give her any photos.
2007-01-26 11:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If, in your e mail you gave her the reasons that you didnt want your childs photo posted, then it would have been nice if she took the photo down.
As for your husbands picture, that one should be left up to him how he feels about it. If he wanted it down, then he should be the one to tell her, not you.
If your husband agrees with your reasons for not wanting your childs picture posted, then again, it is him that should call and speak to her about this, certainly not in an e mail.
2007-01-26 11:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it up to your husband to do the talking to her. If he agrees with you then he should back you up. If he agrees with her then he should still take your thoughts into action. You need to compromise and he should never side with family over you. You two are your own family now.
I personally think that she is in the wrong for not obeying your wishes, but I think you should have left it to your husband to tell her that since you don't know her well.
2007-01-26 11:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋