My mom and I got into a huge arguement and now, she's calling 3-4 of her friends and now she's talking about it. I'm in my room now and I slammed the door and I wanted to scream. Because of her, I'm going to have a bad reputation with my friends family and aunts and uncles and my mom's friend. She didnt have to tell everyone and everyone is proably going to tell their kids and husbands and wifes or whatever....
Isnt she wrong for that? She did not ahve to tell everyone, it's between us, its not anyone's elses matter and she's going off telling everyone...I cant believe her. I hate her so much right now!!!
2007-01-26 12:26:50 · 38 answers · asked by Romaian_masscare 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It doesnt certian anyone else and she's telling everyone, now next time I see them, I'm going to be embarrsed????
2007-01-26 12:27:53 · update #1
I just forgot to feed my dogs and she called me two times to feed them but I really didnt hear her [accidently] and she just started yelling [it was one time!] Only!!!] and we started fighting.........
2007-01-26 12:33:37 · update #2
Talk to your mom and when you cool down and tell her you don't appreaciate her telling your business to family and friends.
Take a deep breath too.
2007-01-26 12:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by bella 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear of your argument, but things like that do happen. I do hope that after you both settle down that you can discuss whatever it was in a more civil and family way. Be sure to also discuss her telling others about it. I'm a parent but I DO NOT see any reason that she should have told anyone outside the immediate family. Maybe she just felt like she had to "vent", sorta like you are doing now ... in your case though, you are venting to no one who knows either of you, which is what she should have done, if she had to at all. If you think it might help when you and your mom discuss this, maybe you could print out the replies you get from this question......being sure to include ALL, whether you agree with them or not (that way she will see all the perspectives you receive).
Good luck, and I hope you and your mom can get along better. One day you will both look back on this day and wish it had never happened.
2007-01-26 12:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 09:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, your mom is venting. She probably needs an adults input and the whole argument. Most moms do that, talk to her close friends and see what their view is on the fight. She doesn't do it, because she wants you to have a bad rep., I'm sure she could care less what people think. Now, I have a question for you. Do you call your friends and complain about the fight(s) you and your mom have? Yes, well it's the same thing. It's called venting, it's better to vent then to stay mad. She'll come talk to you later and you can talk to her about how this bothers you. Good luck and keep your head up!
2007-01-26 12:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All a part of growing up. Perhaps your mom is extremely upset at present and needs to have the shoulders of friends and family to cry on at this time. Certainly you may indeed be a little embarrassed next time you see these people but they will be forgiving and soon enough forget also. Remember your mom is working at the hardest job she will ever have in her life - parenting, and that someday if your lucky you will see what she is going through when you have children. Cut your mom a little slack as she loves you unconditionally.
2007-01-26 12:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just out of curiosity, what did you do? My mom and I used to have bad fights like that, mainly because I wanted my integrity, independance, and respect, and she was on heavy drugs. She didn't understand me because she was always doped up. All I wanted was simple things as quiet when I wanted to sleep or study. I also didn't want to be a show of hers. Now she's in rehab and it's great although it has taken some getting used to her now normal behavior. Too bad I am older and moved out now, or too bad she didn't do rehab much much earlier.
2007-01-26 12:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by h.marieh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and your mom need to talk about it and keep the lines of communication open. Not trying to be an ***, but, moms will do that. I think she probably did it because she needs to talk to someone and may not know how to talk to you about it without you getting bent out of shape. Best thing to do is, be true to yourself and others and don't do anything to be ashamed of. Just being honest.
2007-01-26 12:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by alan w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is just doing her own version of yahoo answers except with family members instead of strangers. Maybe she just wants to know that she didn't overeact or something and needs a fresh perspective from someone not involved. I know your upset but don't be too hard on her.
2007-01-26 12:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by chr1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is wrong to do this...whatever the problem is...she should handle it directly with you and not involve other people. Don't feel embarrassed by her bad judgement in telling...just hold your head high and be the best person you can be. Everyone makes mistakes...if you learn from them, they become a lesson
2007-01-26 12:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just hold your head up high and don't act as if anyone knows anything. I think it is wrong that she is informing everyone of your private business but i guess she feels the need to vent to someone.
2007-01-26 12:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry thats how moms are they have to talk to someone about or at least tell everyone what you did. Believe wont be that bad and everyone will get over it. at least its not something much worse.
2007-01-30 10:54:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋