how can i feel better?

Question

on wednesday this week, i just got home from youth. and my mom went to the casino and when i went in the living room to get my sweater, my dad started bitching me out for everything that she did. so i told him the truth.... i didn't want to hear it. so i tried to go to my room, but he grabbed my arm and threw me out of his way i have bruises now, and then we got into it in my room 2. he threw me on my bed so hard i hit my head on the wall and it started bleeding. durring all this, i didn't even think of wat i was saying and well, i didn't even cry. and now i don't feel guilty, but inthe pit of my stomach i wanna cry and i cant i fell dead. what should i do?? i mean is this normal? i mean the tears will come to my eyes but i can't cry. how can i over comethis?

Answer 1

first of all no one has the right to do what he did to you. he could go to jail because of this. i hope this does not happen to you on a regular basis. if it is then you need to press charges against him for abuse. one of these days he is going to do that to you and you are going to have a serious injury or maybe even die depending on how you fall and what you hit. this is nothing to mess around with. try to get yourself into some counseling. not only that but if there is any way for you to stay away from him do so. you shouldn't have to be put through this. obviously he doesn't care if he hurts you or not. i'm not sure that you will ever overcome this completely. i mean the pain and bruises will probably go away but the emotional scars certainly won't. at least not for a very long time. do not feel guilty. it is not your fault. if you get into some counseling they will give you the support, guidance and resources that you need in order for you to try to move on with your life. i know that it may seem hard for you to have your dad put in jail but if he continues to do this to you then that is where he needs to be. you are a human being not some punching bag. hope this helps and good luck in the future.

Answer 2

I too, came from an abusive home, but, the one that usually hit me was my Mom, she did not care with what ,she was going to hit me with. so, I can sympathize with you. If your Dad did not want your Mother to go out, than why not let her know, it is not your fault as to what your Mother does to him. The reason you cannot cry out loud is because you feel hurt and you feel that your Father, does not love you for what your Mother is doing to him, this feeling of helplessness and a deep void that is in your chest is making you feel like you are a nobody that no one cares about. Talk to a school counselor, or Child protective services, or maybe a relative, that can help you with finding a solution, Please do!

Answer 3

what he did was abuse. i know,i grew up in an abusive house. what he did wasn't right or even legal. and he definitely means he has anger issues and i wouldn't be surprised if he hits your mother and i wouldn't be shocked if he has hit you in the past but now it has gotten to blood shed. iw ould think about the fact that you can't cry is because you are tired of it. and you know you didn't do anything wrong and you have no reason to feel guilty about anything. i would think about your safety there. i wish you well

Answer 4

it sounds like your dad is really mad at your mom not you. It wasn't right for your dad to hit you.Try telling him that if he is mad at your mom then take it up with her. You can't control what other people do. Try talking to your mom or someone at school about it, it might help you not to feel so dead inside.

Answer 5

that sucks that your dads taking out his frustrations on you. you should bring this to your mom and tell her your tired of getting abused on her account. theyre both being selfish and can have long lasting damaging effects on you.