I'm 17 years old and my brother is 20...the other day he asked me to make him a cd and so i did..the next day he asked me to make him another one with the same music on it cause he lost it and so i did. Today he asked me to make him another one cause he lost the other 2 and i said no cause i was doing something on the computer and i wasnt going to waste my CD's on that stupid music he listens to ..well anyways he beat the hell out me and my parents dont really do anything to stop him, my mom tries but my dad he's always at work and when he comes home he doesnt say anything to him or doesnt kick him out..what do i do?
2007-01-27 03:31:31 · 8 answers · asked by I'm the love you left behind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should sit down and conversate with ur parents about it and tell them that if it doesn't stop ur going to call the cops and if that doesn't get there attention leave and talk to a counselor at school and let them know what's going on...
2007-01-27 03:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to get a third party involved. You need to seek the guidance of someone who has professional training in dealing with abusive people. You shouldn't have to be afraid of your brother and you shouldn't have to be scared to tell him no!
I would seek out a guidance counselor at school or talk to the police. If you feel like your mom would understand and be helpful, take her with you! If not, this is something that needs to be done, so find a friend or someone you trust with you... if you don't trust anyone else (i don't blame you) - don't be afraid to go by yourself!
You won't get in trouble and if ANYONE tries to make you feel bad or if they get mad at you for turning in your own family member, remember this: YOU DON'T DESERVE THIS, NOR DO YOU HAVE TO PUT UP WITH IT. Your brother is 20 years old! He's an adult - this isn't some high school bullshit anymore. This is serious.
I pray that you get the help that you need!
"Be stroung and courageous, do not be afraid. For the Lord, your God goes with you. He will never leave you nor foresake you." -Deut 31:6
2007-01-27 12:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you will not make anymore CD's and if this abuse doesn't stop, he will be making license plates!!! If he ever beats you again, you go to the police and make a report-your parents sound like they are ignoring the situation. The cops won't. Your brother needs an eye opener-and fast. Good luck.
2007-01-27 11:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by Pesty Wadoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police! Yes you can do that! At least talk to the operator at the department. They will let you know that this is still considered an assault! Plus once they haul your brothers butt to lockup two things are going to happen. 1) Your brother won't ever touch you again. and 2) Your parents will sit up and notice that they need to intervene! Even if nothing happens to your brother at the police dept. and it probably won't, your parents can't help but get involved, the police will make them!
2007-01-27 11:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say beat the hell out of you are you talking about borther sister punching kind of thing or bruises and blood? if it is bruises and blood you need to sit your parents down and really talk and explain tot hem how you dont feel safe. if they dont do anything and you are honestly scared you need to call the police next time it happens. if your parents wont do anything about it then the police will.
2007-01-27 11:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
REport to the police, for abusing .
2007-01-27 11:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him n the balls!!! Then poor sum hot grits on him.
2007-01-27 12:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Sleepy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry I left you behind.........Don't do anything else for the asshole
2007-01-27 11:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋