Sounds crazy huh?

Question

ok well my mother says my untie is having my cusin, birthday don't know but the confusing part is my untie did it with my 3d cousin and now my 3d cousin is the father of my cousin that my untie is about to have, and they are trying not to tell her what happend, but should i tell her cuase she is my age and ithink it is time for her to know

acuttaly sorry but my untie already had her that is why she is my age i ment to say she had her not is having her

ok yall is confused, my Aunt, did it with my third cousin, and my Aunt had my cousin, And now that my cousin is older she doesn't know that her father, is my third cousin, now that i explained it in the best way i can should i tell her that her father is supposed to be her cousin, now should i tell her what she should have known 25 years ago?

Answer 1

I didn't really understand what you were asking...but good luck to you!!!!

Answer 2

What in the world is an untie?? I think you said something about having a baby with a relative which is trashy but it's not up to you to tell the secret. Keep out of it.

Answer 3

there can be a lot of hurt there have you talk to you aunt and ask her to tell her about her father, you need to think how would you fill if it was you. then see what you need to do then but it really need to come form her mom but of you are close and she finds out you know all this year she going to be upset with you for not saying any thing so if mom don't wanted to till go a head. good luck lol. hope ever thing work out for you guy. she going to need you.

Answer 4

so who died and put you in charge. You don't have any reason to spill the beans. Currently there is peace in the household, and I think you just can't stand it. Need to raise a little hell? What if she calls you a bold face, malicious liar, and your mother and auntie won't back you, since your working unilaterally. Give it a rest kid. Nobody likes a snitch. Let auntie handle it in her own good time. If you must talk, talk to aunti, get her imput, but keep your lip zipped.

Answer 5

If I understood what you were saying then, no you should not tell your cousin. Leave that up to her mother and her father/cousin. But if she is asking about her father, go to your aunt and let her know and encourage her to discuss it with your cousin.

Answer 6

You are walking on a fine line in this instance,,,,,,,,,,,,. Best just stay out of it . It is not your place to stir the fire . You can talk to your Aunt about it but that is as far as you need to go . It is not your place to pass judgment on when information should be revealed . Leave that to her Mother .

Answer 7

dam that is really messed up. yall must have a crazy familly. ( just palying). personally what do you think she would say when she finds out that you know all along and never bother to tell her. i think you should tell her, how would you feel, think about being in her place who would you like to know from. good luck :)

Answer 8

There are a lot of things going on here, but it is not up to you to tell anybody anything. I wish you all the best.

Answer 9

i understand what you mean and i think that ypu should tell her she waited long enough. to be honest i had a similar thing happend to me i don't know which one is worst mine or her's. the bad thing is that i found everything out on my own nobody told me anything. i was even more hurt when i found out on my own.

Answer 10

well seems this famly of yours is messed up and there is alot of abuse that is sad. you should get outa there and be cool that is sad and should have CPS called and put them all in jail.

Answer 11

no it is not your job to do so that is like telling a adult that they were adopted..you would be taking her dad as she knows away