Well I'm planning on leaving my boyfreind for almost four years.We Have been having problems for awhile now and the last fight we had just prove to me that I can do so much better, even by myself.I havn't felt in love with hem for a while.It took me a min. to realize that my heart isn't in it anymore. and just cause you have a baby with a men don't mean you should stay unhappy. I need to put myself and the baby first. My heart is very broken, used and abused right now, and I don't and I won't live like this any more.4 now we are over
I just started lookin for a new job and plus I have Tax money comin to me so money is not the issue. We just moved from Florida to Conn. and I hate it here. My choose are. living in MA. or FL. I was born in Boston but moved to FL. a few years ago. I have more family and friends in Boston, only my mom lives in FL and she help me alot with the baby.I enjoy both states but which do you think would be better for us. Or help me figure out what to do about it
2007-01-27 17:20:53 · 6 answers · asked by JADedMis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you think you might go back with him and you really do not want to I would say move as far away from his a possible. Leaving state and not having him around would be a good thing.
But then you want to be around family and have that help. You mom helping would be perfect.
you mostly have to think in the long run. Housing and work and schools and cost of living. Also about safe neighboorhoods for your child.
Which place that are looking has the best of it all..? IN 4 , 5, 6 year do you think you will still want to be living were are thinking of moving to.?
Good Luck.
2007-01-27 17:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be proud of the strong, courageous decision you are making. Move back to Boston, where the majority of your friends and family are. You and the baby will need a support system and your baby will need good male role models as he/she grows up. Focus on healing you and your baby first, even if it takes a few years and avoid dating for as long as possible until you are in a better place emotionally and not vulnerable to the next smooth talker (I made that mistake).
2007-01-27 17:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by shasser2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
San Diego is in Southern California the place everywhere interior of 20 miles is seen close. She purely has to stay away from areas the place people placed bars on the domicile windows of their residences. Like national city. And which Marine Base. The recruit depot or Camp Pendleton, that's additionally in San Diego County? they are extremely a distance aside.
2016-11-01 11:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you moved to Florida your baby will have a grandma. I have a daughter and I find the relations with my cousins have all changed. They are into their own nuclear families and I don't get the love, support and help that I get from my parents. Of course you have to make the decision in consideration of who do you get along with and where you can get good accommodations and a decent income. Good luck
2007-01-27 17:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Florida where your mom will help you with the baby. You're going to need her help when you start your new job.
2007-01-27 17:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be with whoever will provide you with FREE daycare.
And that's realer than real deal Holyfield.
You have the passion, but daycare ain't cheap!
2007-01-28 01:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋