My brother makes fun of me in front of my daughter (l find that immature, but whatever), it embarrases me and makes me feel stupid and silly. He rough houses with my daughter and won't stop when she says 'ouch' or 'stop'. He argues with me about things I want to do or my life decisions and tells me how wrong I am. And when I confront him he gets angry with me and finds it all my fault for being sensitve or serious. I emailed him and he emailed me back really rude. He refuses to admit that my feelings are valid and won't stop. So I told him that he is out of the family. I refuse to take myself and my kids to family gatherings where I feel helpless to protect myself or my kids from feeling bullied. Now my family is upset. "Your kids will miss easter with the family' or 'your grandma only has one 80'th birhtday'. I just tell them that I should not feel guilted into putting me or my kids into a situation like that. Why when you do what is best for you, others get mad at you?
2007-01-27
16:05:58
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I should add that other than that we get along great and have alot of fun.. but these incidents happen alot and every time we see him. I am wondering if this is an emotional gap from his using dope heavily for over 10 years???? Just a thought
2007-01-27
16:10:15 ·
update #1
it's not worth calling the cops.. their is alot of fun and laughs inbetween these things.. and he doesn't stand there and scream at me... he is successful, handsome and funny... he just picks on me and can't stop when we say no
2007-01-27
16:23:22 ·
update #2