my dad is really perverted. well, it seems like that a lot because he i noticed that he always checks out other girls butts. it really makes me uncomfortable. he'll always stare at girls wearing skimpy outfits and my mom never says anything. can i do anything about this?
2007-01-27 15:52:05 · 44 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
how old are you? Maybe your mom is not a jealous woman. Maybe she doesn't say anything to your dad when your around. I think maybe she doesn't notice. If it makes you uncomfortable, tell him. Ask him if he loves your mom. Tell him its not right to check out other women. Thats cheating with your eyes. One day hes going to get slapped if those skimpy girls catch him checking them out. Just poke him and node. Or if you really want him to stop, tell the girl that your dad is checking her out; let your dad learn a lesson not to treat women like objects of entertainment.
2007-01-27 15:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Marry someone who isn't like your father when you grow up.....
Otherwise, I don't think there is anything you can do. This may prohibit you bringing some of your friends home with you, especially during the teen years. But I'm sorry, this sounds like something that should be settled between him and your mom.
Don't end up looking down on her for looking the other way though....you may not know the whole story, or why she stays with him when he obviously has such a wandering eye. Or maybe a wandering eye doesn't matter to her so much, as long as he keeps other body parts to himself.
2007-01-27 16:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you....10? Thats a pretty strong word you are using there: "perverted". You have learned that your Dad is a regular man. So apparently you check out the girls yourself first, then check to see where your Dad is looking. I guess Men are supposed to pretend they don't notice these things to keep the women happy....but damn its not easy. I think he is doing pretty good. You don't say that he makes comments about them to you or your Mother. So thats a point for him. Does he drive around the block for a second look? Look, you dragged him out of the house to go "shopping" and then you want him to be blind. Sheesh!
2007-01-27 16:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Karnak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have relationship where you can openly talk to him, why not tell him how you feel casually. I know a friend who can openly tell his dad, "Dad! Stop staring!!!"... and then they'd laugh about it...
if you dont have this kind of relationship with your dad, maybe let him know through your mom. there is definitely a way to let him know how you feel.
But you know what? I think its natural for any man to check out the opposite sex. Well, at least that confirms he's straight!
2007-01-27 15:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Stefani 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This doesn't sound good, have you actually been touched inappropriately and seen him with your underwear? If so then you should be concerned as that is very strange. Be careful and move out if you can, and if you think you are in danger the seek help
2016-05-24 07:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father does not sound perverted. This is how YOU came into this world. At one time, your father checked out your mothers butt and thought it looked pretty cute!
This is called "being a guy" or "normal male behavior pattern."
Get use to it. Unless he's gay, men look at women. It's how their brains are hardwired.
What can you do about it? Nothing. Don't try to change the behavior of others unless it is hurting or killing something/someone. It's none of your business.
2007-01-27 15:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
yes! Tell him you think it looks bad and perverted. Not nice for a dad to do
2007-01-27 16:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only thing i suggest is that you tell your Dad how you feel and how his pervertedness makes you feel. if he's got enough heart to be disrespectful like that in front of you and your mother without a care then your talk will probably go right in one ear and out the other(sorry). the other thing i would suggest is that you set up a situation where you wear something skimpy and have someone do what he does to women directly in front of him. chances are he wont like that and it might get him to start thinking. or you could go to family counseling as a last resort!
2007-01-27 16:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are young and jealous that no one checks you out of gives your compliments. It's not perverted. You are just taking it out on him and saying that because you aren't getting any compliments or fans.
2007-01-27 16:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God, I am a pervert then, NO I am not, I am a man!
IT IS WHAT MEN DO!
Your dad is normal.
And I bet your mom checks out the good looking guys on the sly!
2007-01-27 15:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by tattie_herbert 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋